my ex girlfriend broke up with me a week ago.We have been together for three years .I called her this morning and she answered I wasnt trying to get back with her or anything i just wanted to check how things are doing cause shes a single mother is that bad?or good?i didnt cheat or treat her bad i just missed her.
My ex-girlfriend has called me and said that she wants to be with her current boyfriend more than she wants to be with me. She knows I love her, but she wants to see how this relationship with her new boyfriend will turn out. I know that I need to move on with my life, but I can’t stop loving her and thinking of all the good (and bad) times we shared…Deep down, I want a second chance with her. i know there’s no way of telling the future, but is it possible that time can bring us back together? How do you give up someone you loved (and loved you) for so long? Will time destroy my desire for her or make it stronger?
So there is this guy, and we have dated twice. I dumped him because i wasn’t ready to be with him. He then dated my ex girlfriend, and they fell in love and she cheated on him, now he is with the guy my ex gf’s ex girlfriend… help
I heard that my ex-girlfriend has a new man in her life. My heart aches when I think that she is with somebody else. I really loved her but lost her because of my fault.
Please don’t tell me to move on because right now I can’t forget her.
She is going to get married to him and will start to live far away.
Will she ever remember me when she is old and looks at the stars melting in front of the rising sun at the break of the dawn ?
My ex-girlfriend moved to Sweden with my daughter, and ex may also be married and she may have changed my daughter’s last name. I’ve been paying child support for the past 13 years. What rights as a non custodial father do I have. Can I force her to come back to the states? If not can child support be canceled I need help, I’m missing out on all the best years of my little girls life.
Does anyone have some advice on how to get your ex-girlfriend back?
Hey everyone…my ex-gf broke up w/ me abuot 2 months ago. Things were so good for a year and a few months and we planned on marriage. we had done all the family introductions and looked at rings and life was perfect.
Then we hit some snags for a few months and she broke up with me . I’m heartbroken, she says she isnt mad at me but is not considering a second chance…
Even though I am shocked, because we had it all going so well. Here’s my question:
-I want to do something cheesy like play “In your eyes” on a boombox outside her window like Say Anything, or ask her to meet me on the Golden Gate Bridge on Valentine’s Day like in Sex and the City.
Those are cheesy but also kind of romantic.
Do you think those are better saved for the movies, or can I try one?
we have been friends with benefits for a whole semester while im still a senior in high school and he at college. We are really not like friends with benefits though. we can hang at like a regular couple. we do make out and stuff but we didn’t have sex. although we talk about it. Now is ex girlfriend is back from Europe and she wants to get back with him. I dont know how he completely feels about it. I know he really liked her but she treated him bad. and does it make sense if he got jealous if she was over in Europe getting her groove on with a ton of people. if he was doing the same thing with me? and his friend told me he got jealous but he inst the jealous type. he is friend lying just to get me going? He says that he has feelings for me but i just dont know what to do…please help!!!!!!!!!
How does a guy get his ex girlfriend to trust him again?
If your girlfriend dumped you because she said she had trouble trusting you, how can you prove to her that she can trust you?
I love my ex and she really can trust me but she doesn’t think so because I kissed another girl at a party one time when I was drunk.
Please help, how do I get my ex girlfriend to trust me again?
If anyone is deserving of having a broken heart it is her.. if u knew her u would agree with me. She can’t get away with what shes done.
I wanna get her back.. ideas?
My ex-girlfriend of 3 1/2 years won’t let me talk to her…what should I do?
We got together the summer before senior year of high school. The last year or so has been 5 hour drive long distance relationship. We didn’t ever fight about being apart and we never let that get between us until 4 weeks ago.
You see, normally she would come visit me because she has a car and I pretty much don’t. I would go down and visit her sometimes. I even went so far as to move down there for a few months. Unfortunately, I couldn’t stay cause of finances. Like 2 months ago I went down there and she, being in college and having a job, didn’t really have time for me.
I wasn’t too upset with that cause I understood she was just trying to get her stuff done and I just came down on a bad weekend. So 4 weeks ago her room mates brother was going down and wanted to know if I wanted to go with him (he lives like a half hour away from me). I wanted to, but she had been talking about how much work she had to do this weekend and was stressing out over it.
So I didn’t go down. Well it was going to be a surprise originally, so she didn’t know about it. The weekend came out and I told her what I had done, but said that I was coming down the next weekend if she didn’t have anything to do. She blew up like a bunker buster.
I was really caught off guard and didn’t know what to say. I kept apologizing, but she didn’t seem to care. She said that I should have come see her and broke up with me. Anyway, so jump to present time. I tried giving her space or whatever and we started doing really, really well like three weeks into this mess. We were still saying I love you and talking like we always had.
But then out of no where she decides we’re talking too much and thinks we should stop. I got mad because it made me feel even worse than I already did. Now she won’t talk to me at all really and when she does she just tells me that I really messed up and I should have thought about what I said before I said it (I really wasn’t mean about it). I don;t know what to do.
I can’t go down there anytime soon and she won’t let me talk to her. I sent a long, sweet email, but got no reply. What should I do to get her to at least talk to me again?
Has anyone had your ex boyfriend girlfriend wanting to get back together with u?
My ex is sometimes thinking about getting back together i sometimes miss him too but i met a new guy. My ex was the 1st guy i’ve ever dated if i went back with him i wouldn’t have the chance to date other guys.
There were some frusturations (i spelled that wrong lol) in our relationship it was his idea to end it he wanted a break when i didn’t. I thought things were getting better until he eventually ended it completely. If i went back with him we may go through the difficulties that we had before.
I loved him but he wasn’t always reliable. I say i shall give this new guy a chance he may be a better boyfriend.
Okay, this is for the ladys.
I am super confuse. Well me and my ex broke up around august, i finally move back to my home town, and i told her lets be friends, it be a shame to throw it away.
SO days go by but i keep getting werid hints like her saying good morning, good night, her telling me what new things she did during the day, sometimes she would text me random things to keep in contact with me. Also she sent a picture of us together and one time wait for me to come home so she can talk on the phone so she can fall asleep.
BUT other days, i would like try to hang with her, she avoids it, only calls before she sleeps, telling to delete pictures and vids of us on vacation.
I confronted her about it and asked whats going on but she avoids the questions.
Im still trying to be her friend, but still throws me werid hints or signs.
it frustrating. IF there someting still there, yeah i would like to try again.
Oh yeah and when i dont respond to her calls or text she gets mad?
One day she tells me she gives up, i try to make this work but its not working.
Which direction should i go? Drop her or keep my cool and go with the flow?
Thanks, please im just looking for a honest opinion and advice
oh and plus she ask me to go out on a date then change her mind, ask to hang our and drink then change her mind again, tells me she thinks about being together again but its too much to handle.
Idk is that helps with the question
What can I do if I found out my boyfriend cheated on me with with his Ex-Girlfriend? He doesn’t know I know about this but I do!!!!! And I’m so upset it’s driving me crazy. I want to do something to the both of them to get back at him before I break up with him. Can anybody help me out. I want to do something really bad to this bastard ( LOL) and I can’t thing of anything.
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My ex-girlfriend, who before I asked her out, we would have on and off relationships since 9th grade and I have had a crush on her since 7th grade.
Well she’s a sophmore in college and I’m a freshman we were going out since September and broke up in December and it was really stupid, because I can’t remember the reason, but it wasn’t serious like cheating, deception, abuse or anything.
Well now I haven’t seen her since January because we exchanged our gifts and now I have a class with her twice a week at college but it is HUGE like 150 people big lecture hall, how can I approach her easily because it’s a mad bum rush to get a seat.
I still have feelings for her but I kind of played the dick and said “That’s fine” when she called before we broke up saying if I dont respect her and I dont seem like I care about her feelings then she’ll leave me, soooo wanna help
How Do I Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back?
Ways to get her back and don’t give me the “get over her” answer because I have had other relationships with girls my junior and senior years but there’s just a great understanding I feel with this girl..
Thanks
Oh yea it’s hard to get a seat next to her because it’s a mad bum rush to get a seat in the class, exactley like the begginings of Enemy at the Gates and Saving Private Ryan
Good insight Bob S
Even if you use the "get your ex back formula’ could it help get her back?
Ok to add more we broke up 5 weeks ago and during the last part of the relationship she started the relationship with the girl. This is the second time she done this and the first she came back. I have other questions regarding this question im asking the have more detail.
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Me and my ex broke up months ago, we haven’t talk until last night. We talk online about once or twice but not on phone. Anyway to make a long story short she has a boyfriend living with him and she says she loves him. But as sound as we get on the phone we get into it and have phone sex because it was real late at night. Does this mean anything she says it doesn’t but why have phone sex with someone especially if your with someone else? Please someone help me out
I broke up with him around this time last year. We had been going out for 2 in a half years and I spontaneously decided to end it all because at that point in my life I didn’t want to be attached. I was 18 years old and starting college, a new job, and viewed my ex as un ambitious. All he would ever do is want to stay home and be with me, never really going out to hang with friends, and feeling down on himself for having the job he had. He was a wonderful artist and I tried to be a supportive and encouraging girlfriend by telling him to pursue a career in the field. Yet lack of funds was the reason he said he couldn’t live out his dream. I tried accepting this but found that I might be growing out of him. I also wanted to experience other relationships since he had been my first, and though I loved him I found myself growing more detached. Spending less and less time with him even though he kept reaching out. I broke his heart and he eventually gave me back everything that was ours to cope with the break up, cutting me out completely. At that time this didn’t faze me. He came to my door step with the box and I could care less. I felt relieved, or so I thought. We didn’t talk much for 8 months, maybe passing one another since my little brother and he were such great pals and didn’t let our break up end their friendship. Eventually after working and going to school nonstop, boys being the last thing on my mind the summer hits. I find myself infatuated like I once was with my ex on a new guy. He’s a graphic designer and aspiring filmmaker, extremely driven and confident. All I can do is think about him. He seems to me to be the next best thing. Eventually we hang out (not an official date I had no idea what his intentions were, he was very hard to read) with a few of his friends and I find him to be the most obnoxious individual. He practically ignored me the whole time while being an entertainer to his audience; he thrived off of the attention I could tell. One of two questions I can remember being:
"What do you want to do with your life?"
This was such a turn off; a mutual feeling I later find out. He thought I was too quiet and smelled of tuna! I hate tuna. We go on to not talk for two months, and yet even then I didn’t think of my ex. Eventually The new guy starts to talk to me again and even though I was so disgusted by his previous behavior I still find myself immensely sexually attracted to him. That’s all I wanted from him. Funny thing is he was looking for a girlfriend and found a way of convincing me to be with him otherwise. I figured ok I like this guy why not give it a shot? From then on it has been a rollercoaster. Nothing like when I was with my ex. One day this blokes happy with me the next he’s unsure about our relationship. So eventually I end up feeling lonely within my own relationship because I don’t feel good about it. Where did all my confidence go? Sure I may have felt inhibited because he’d ask me "why are you so shy?" "I wish you’d contribute more to the conversation." I have never felt so much pressure in a relationship. Like if I don’t please, I can be dropped at any given time. So for the time being I had been unhappy, yet the messing around was great. What a trade off, not worth it at all when I look at it, but within the moment it’s a whole other game. All I could think about was how to sort the issues in my head over this relationship in a mature manner. Work out all the small things and focused on what we have that’s great. All I could think of was our similar tastes in music, movies, and fooling around. Sure we had conversations but for the most part they were short and the fooling around was to the point not long after. Than he’d tell me I got to get back to story boarding birdbrain. I’d be there reading a book instead of getting to know anything about him. My excuse was that he’s really trying to get this short film done before Sundance, don’t worry about it. And eventually things did turn around with a few hiccups, but on a trip back from Ohio I found out that my ex was going out with a new girl and the last thing that has been on my mind for the past month isn’t my new boyfriend. My brother disclosed to me some information that my ex was going out with a girl that we formerly couldn’t stand. When we were together we would actually make fun of her amongst ourselves. She was just such a typical high school girl. Going out to parties all the time, drinking, taking in controlled substances, bisexual one minute, straight the next. She was a total nut. Now he is with her. I really needed someone to talk too when hearing all this. So I wrote an email to a mutual friend of ours who still hung out with him. And I explained everything to her. It than finally hit me that he had moved on. Though I was in my own relationship (not much of one actually) I still had this terrible pain in my stomach thinking that he’s with her of all people. I didn’t care if she told anybody (we we
-she cheated on you once when you were going out
-she flirted constantly with another dude when you were going out
-your attempts to show your affection went un-returned
-she made you feel invisble
-she was making out with another guy the next night after you’d broken up with her
…now, the reason why i’d broken up with mine in the first place was cuz i began to feel as tho she didn’t feel the way i did, cuz she never showed it…so i felt like my head had been effed with, and to prevent any further hurt, i broke the relationship off. but…she claims to still really like me, and that the reason why she did the things she did, was cuz she was “scared that it might have actually worked,” cuz she’s “scared of commitment”…arggg…
What do i do?
Help with getting my ex back. GIRLS OPENION ONLY PLEASE?
My ex girlfriend broke up with me like 3 days ago cause i dident want her talkin to other guys.
I know how friends turn into friendly friends more friendly than they should be. She got mad and it seems dumb to me but i woul like to get her back we talk still but she want date me anymore its crazy cause she said she was so in love with me and then she let some little crap break us up.
Can anyone provide me with some help with getting my ex back?
After my ex girlfriend and I broke up she got a new boyfriend not long after. About a month or two later she calls me and says she misses me alot and she said she is somewhat unhappy with her new bf.
She seems really confused about whether or not we should get back together or not. What should I do or say to get her back?
Should i continue no contact?
Should I stay friendly with her?
Or should I try to convice her to come back?
It all started when me and my cousin were working in a town far from where my ex lived. I was texting her on my cell phone and everything was cool, then my cousin showed up. He is skinnier than me, has colored eyes, and has no acne. What girl can’t resist that?
He then asked me for her number, i told him no. Then he said he would give me his Ex’s number, so i said yes.
The moment i pressed talk, it wasnt a girl. It was his Dad (my uncle).
I then decided to take a nap, scince i was tired. I thought no real harm was done. Boy i was wrong. I texed my Ex, only to find out she wasnt intrested in talking, or so she said. My cousin was getting messages almost 1 every second. I looked at his phone, and found out it was all her.
I then found out he sent her a picture of his abs and his colored eyes
(im a fukin idiot). She then lost intrest in me and stopped talking to me and she eventually asked him out. He said yes…
When i finnally thought things were gonna be alright and i would be with her again, he steals her from me. He could of had any girl because of how he looks, but he had to steal my Ex.
What should i do? Im not as attractive as him. No girl would like me except for her. please help me
uhh Cali
Im 14
i cant be on dating sites for another 4 years
My girlfriend and I broke up for the second time back in January. It was because she needed a break from me and it was to much for her. She had be avoiding me so I pushed to find out why and I guess she thought it was to much and didn’t like where we were. We have not spoken much since. We talked briefly two weeks ago about our weekend and that type of small talk and then she texted me on friday night. It was the usual back and forth talk and then we preceded to mention that she missed sex with me and how amazing it was. and it was. when we had sex it was so good. She we talked so more and agreed that we should do it that night. I was studying that night so i could not go out like she wanted me to so she was drunk when she sent it but had sobered up when we got together. So we had sex and it was great. It wasn’t awkward and we talked a bit after to catch up. It was not weird. I asked about us and if she wanted to get back together and said no. Didn’t really want to talk about it so she made it clear that she does not want to be with me.
So i left and the next day i talked to her and told her that last night was great and wondered if we could do it again and see where we are. She said we could another time if it worked out and such. But it wont be a regular thing that happens. I can control my emotions and i want to do it but I want to be with her.
She is a very stubborn person and when she makes up her mind on something she sticks with it. So no matter what i say about getting back together she didn’t want to talk about it. But it makes me wonder if she dose not want to get back together and dose not feel the same then she would not want to have sex. When we had sex we had it like when we were dating. It was very passionate.
Now I know a lot of you are going to say to move on and she is not worth it but I love her and I know that she feels the same way. She just does not want to get hurt or make the mistake of getting back together and it dosent work out. My view is we try and what’s the worst that can happen? Then it wasn’t meant to be. I have changed a lot since when we broke up. I have had a lot of time to reflect and realize what I did wrong and I want her to know that and take a chance on me again. I just dont know what to do and want this to work.
Thanks everyone for your help!
What are some signs that a guy wants to get back with his ex girlfriend?
GUYS: what are things you would do when trying to get her back?
I don’t want to hear the generic: ex’s are an ex for a reason… type of answers.
