does any-one know what goes on when you take your ex back to court for contempt of child support? he has not paid in over seven years and this is the first time we have been able to serve him correctly by a constable and have proof. My court day is only 4 days away, and since he has been so good at dodgeing the system this long I dont know what he will come up with for his excuse of not paying his support obligations for so long. Ihave know idea of what to expect since this is the first time I will have him in frount of me and the courts for this issue, How does the judge handle fathers that put themselves in this position, and how does he handle the stories that these dads come up with to try to get out of there support obligations. It allmost frightens me to think of what his excuse can possibly be, after all is said and done I know this , his best intrest has not been with his daughter, she and I could of used his support, finacially and emotionaly all these years,
Under the SCHIP deal they’re trying to pass that is just for children(even the ones that don’t need it because the parents have enough money or are covered by the parents’ insurance) they also want to cover women with children… well children still in their stomach which the last time I checked didn’t count as a child to the pro-choice left… Its just a parasitic fetus to them.
So one of the following has happened:
1) Harry Potter waved his magic wand and they all believe a fertilized egg is a child and abortion will be abolished
2) They want it for pregnant women who want an abortion for free(well not really-working people pay for it)
3) Because government dependent people no longer get extra money on welfare for extra children the Dems think this will make up for their ‘give free stuff and get votes’ and they will start popping out more kids again because they know their health is paid for by the remaining responsible citizens, thus continuing their "neighbor’s keeper" policy.
By the way, if you do the math for a billion increase in taxes to people who actually pay taxes(people of age to work) in the US it’s an extra 0 every year out of the working(not under the table) person’s paycheck. Why to the democrats feel the need to take more of my money and give to random people every time they’re in office?!
At least with the republicans I know its going to the military for my protection.
So many have asked "Why is it that republicans are only concerned about someone before they’re born?"
I have a better question, Why are there so many slutty women out there having sex without protection and birth control?
Why is it my job to pay for other people’s mistakes? Not just with having kids but with people who didn’t graduate so they have crappy jobs so they’re on welfare.
And as for Republicans adopting American children… try looking in the mirror at your democrat Hollywood types that adopt kids from everywhere but America. And Dems are in office, tell your buddies to not make adopting children in the US so hard it takes 5-10 years. My sister in-law is still on a waiting list 8 years later waiting for a child.
So, I don’t want you to think I’m making excuses but I do KNOW that my husband’s mother raised him to be a slob. She never held him accountable or made him clean his room. She tells me stories about how bad it used to be and laughs and says "good luck!" I have tried pretty much everything I can think of. I just let it get so terrible sometimes because I’m the only one who will ever do anything about it. I spend my time cleaning it and then he just makes a big mess again. I mean…leaving his clothes on the floor. Piles of soda cans on his desk and then when that’s full it goes to the floor. Stains on the carpet because if he spills he doesn’t clean it up, stains on the couch, pieces of food on the floor if he drops some. I mean…I love him and he’s not a fat slob he’s actually very good looking lol but he is SO messy and lazy. What in God’s name do I do?! I’ve told him it depresses me to see the house like this…that is hurts my feelings he doesn’t help me…and he says he’ll help and does it once and then goes back to his old ways. Don’t tell me to hold out on sex. That’s stupid and I won’t. Give me some other help than that please. Thank you.
Oh and his excuse is that he works all week and I just go to school so I have more time than him but it’s bull shit. That’s the number one reason. He thinks I don’t do as much because school isn’t a job and I can’t convince him that it takes up just as much time as a full time job PLUS I work 2 days a week.
My girlfriend left me for her ex!?
met her ten years ago. we hit it off. her ex had dumped her for another prior to that. they had been together for 6 months i think but friends for a few years before that. anyway – she and i went out for a year in 2000. then she dumps me for some stupid woman. i let her go.
didnt talk to her for about 3 and a half years. she calls me. we patch things up. we lived together for the last 5 years. 2005 to last week.
then she dumps me for her EX GIRLFRIEND who initially dumped her ten years ago! arrrghgh! are you kidding me?! i moved out quickly and told her to go to hell as any self respecting woman would have. lololo sad thing is this girl will just dump her AGAIN and i told her that as i was leaving. we are in our early 40’s.
what the hell is wrong with these women!!! oh – and this ex dumped her girlfriend at the same time as mine dumped me so they can be together – yet wont move out of her girlfriends house. she makes good money. so no excuse.
i think its pathetic. really bad thing is i know beyond a doubt my girlfriend will call me one day – when this woman dumps her *** yet again. how do you prepare yourself not to get sucked back in – even though you love them still?
well i just broke up with my bf.and i gave him an excuse and i said because it was a family reason and i don’t think i can deal with a relationship now.and our school just had a festival and the whole time i was with him and i totally forgot to bring money and then he was really sweet enough to buy me food and a drink we even were messing around like chasing each other.I actually felt a connection with him like the 4th of july.out of our whole relationship.he told me that i was the first gf that he could say i love you.in just 2 weeks he even wrote me a poem of what he loved about me and he gave me a nickname it’s Funny bunny.cut huh?idk what to say just that i want him back.and im so srry i hurt him deeply should i tell him in person how i feel and such… help i really like him as much as before.
Hi everybody. i am a male newly married, and i am facing some intimate issues in my relationship with my wife. She is a very hot woman and she wants me all the time which i can not afford. we make love sometimes more than 3 times a day EVERYDAY. and honestly it’s killing me day after day, it making me very cold. and she does not understand this even when i explain to her. at night when it is 9 or 10 o’clock she always takes me in her hands to bed with the excuse of helpinh her to sleep and i know she just want to make sex. i can not stay at night watching TV or doing something to enjoy my time and in the morning she wakes me up by touching my sensual part just to make love again and the worse thing i am not attracted to her body.
anyone has an advise ? please i am in a critical situation.
Hi everybody. i am a male newly married, and i am facing some intimate issues in my relationship with my wife. She is a very hot woman and she wants me all the time which i can not afford. we make love sometimes more than 3 times a day EVERYDAY. and honestly it’s killing me day after day, it making me very cold. and she does not understand this even when i explain to her. at night when it is 9 or 10 o’clock she always takes me in her hands to bed with the excuse of helpinh her to sleep and i know she just want to make sex. i can not stay at night watching TV or doing something to enjoy my time and in the morning she wakes me up by touching my sensual part just to make love again and the worse thing i am not attracted to her body.
anyone has an advise ? please i am in a critical situation.
this is making us argue so much. she refuses toys & movies, she even don’t let me watch TV if there is nice women on the show. example: the biggest loser…
This is making us argue so much. she refuses toys & movies, she even don’t let me watch TV if there is nice women on the show. example: the biggest loser…
No matter what you say or do, you’re ALWAYS wrong.
No matter what she says or does, she’s ALWAYS right.
No matter how carefully you circumvent all her standard excuses and evasions, she ALWAYS thinks up some new excuse to tap dance away from the question and turn it right back against you and SKEWER you with it over some total lie that she just makes up on the spot?
Then you end up spending the next hour arguing over the totally outrageous lie she just invented, and you never get back to the original question you were talking about?
Nothing ever gets resolved except that you’re ALWAYS wrong and she’s ALWAYS right.
And little things like facts and logic NEVER even enter into the conversation, and even if they make a brief appearance they are immediately tossed out by some new barrage of lies and total insanity.
Did liberals learn from ex-wives, or was it the other way around?
I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 3 months ago.I felt that I was more serious than he was and that I would maybe get hurt. He called me out of the blue the other day to ask for a favor. He said his computer was down and he needed me to go online to find the lottery numbers. I thought it sounded like an excuse (since we really haven’t talked on the phone in a while and there is a deli right around the corner from his house). As we were talking, we rehashed a bit of our relationship.He said he did have feelings for me,but just wanted to take things slow. He went on to tell me that he misses me, thinks about me all the time and misses being here with me in the evenings and holding me and hugging me etc. I still have very deep feelings for my ex bf. He has come to my house this past week to work on some electrical stuff for me. He has to come back again soon to do more work. I still have very strong feelings for him but yet I am worried about getting hurt again. Do you think that he may want to get back together again? Why would he say all those things to me if he didn’t? I don’t want to get my hopes up only to be crushed. Thanks for your responses.
my wife was 100% loyal to me while i was in the army and deployed. but as soon as i got out and we moved back to the states she cheated on me. i decided to give her a second chance and moved our family to florida to start over, but she acts as if she doesn’t care about me anymore. all the reasons she had for cheating on me i changed. so that she couldn’t use that as an excuse anymore, but she doesn’t seem to care no matter how hard i try. she shows me absolutely no affection whatso ever and the worst thing about it is that i am stuck with her because i went 100’s of thousands of dollars into debt for her and if we split up i will not be able to afford to pay all the bills i made while working on our relationship. when ever i ask her why she is this way to me she says she doesn’t know. but i know she is not telling me the truth. i ahve no way of going out to make friends because i have to watch our kids. i don’t work anymore because i was wounded during the war. I do pay all the bills, and do my best to take care of my family. but no matter how hard i try she act as if i am a ghost in the house. i have givin her my entire heart and now i don’t know what to do. my heart hurts so much from being depressed that i literally have to inflict massive amounts of pain upon my self to get my heart to stop hurting. i have no idea what to do. if i loose her then i give up on life,love and trust. the only one i have to talk to is my dog, who was a gift from her when i got back from the war to help me with my problems, but now i found out that soon my dog, who is also my only friend will have to be put to sleep in a few months and then i will have no one to keep me company or come to me when i am down. my entire life has been a downward spral no matter how hard i try to make the best of things something always bad happens to me. i don’t know how much more of the this i can take. and i have already attempoted to hang myself but she cut me down then had me arrested and thrown into a mental hospital for awile. i have no where else to turn so i thought i would see if anyone on here may have an idea that may help me. all i want is to be loved again and not feel so alone.
My father has never been denied access to his grandchildren. He’s been invited to all birthdays, holidays, etc, he has babysat, they have visited etc. But he rarely sees them or asks about them except for holidays. This isn’t shocking as he left when I was nine years old and was gone for 10 years. Came back when child support wasn’t expected of him anymore. We’ve never had a problems respecing my kids until now.
Now he has contacted my ex behind my back, set up meetings between my ex and him and the kids and even called my ex instead of me to say he had a present for my son for his bday but never called me who the kids live with. And didn’t even contact me to tll me anything, I find out from my son and my ex!
He has always been manipulative, blaming my mother for HIS abandoning his children, never taking any responsibility. I bit my tongue so my kids at least knew him but now he is up to his drama and games again. There is also a court procedure going on with my ex and myself, but we do get along very well considering (me and my ex).
I confronted him and told him it was manipulative and disloyal and wrong to be doing this behind my back and gave a sob story abut how I keep the kids from him, blantantly bullshitting me to my face. He had the kids overnight one week before contacting my ex! So this is a lie he is using as an excuse for his actions. I have told him, considering all he has done, this is the last straw and I want nothing to do with him.
Am I right to be upset?
My father likes playing games with people..he played me and my sister against each other for years. Now that we get along, this is his new target.
His excuse to me was that I never let him see the kids then admitted the week before he had them overnight! So this is a huge game to him. He expects everything to be handed to him and never make an effort. He pops round for glory visits on holidays and then the kids never hear from him
My father likes playing games with people..he played me and my sister against each other for years. Now that we get along, this is his new target.
His excuse to me was that I never let him see the kids then admitted the week before he had them overnight! So this is a huge game to him. He expects everything to be handed to him and never make an effort. He pops round for glory visits on holidays and then the kids never hear from him
bring back jobs. bring back money flow into the economy. and a sense of hope.
why not go back to the years of america made products, used by americans? outsourcing is nothing but betraying one’s country, by giving jobs away. (besides im sick of having to deal with "customer support" from a country, i cant even half understand!)
why doesnt the gov’t do something about it?
so many jobs that can be done by an american, taken away to another country!
if we could bring back those jobs, we can get stricter with welfare and try and help the homeless and get them working again too.
i have heard all the excuses in the book. there is no excuse in betraying your country.
do you think this is just an excuse ? or do you really think he could really be thinking this ?
What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do? Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happened to be a friend. Really confusing behavior! They ended the relationship several months back.
They keep warming to me and running! they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. He has just joined somewhere that i go to…
He got in touch again, hinting how he could get his DVD back.. saying post or would you like to meet in person? but won’t come flat out and ask to meet, he gives me the options… then asked ‘if im STILL single’ but nothing else!!!
He still keeps hinting about the DVD, so decided to leave it at the gym for him so he can pick up. Forcing him to stop hiding behind this reason any longer…
Bumped into him again last night, he asked if i wanted to go for coffee before xmas and said i was looking hot. He also came straight over and asked if the person paying me attention was my new partner (it wasn’t)
Keeps getting in touch in small ways since.. but is very proud and doesnt like to admit they are wrong
Ok so, my girlfriend of a year broke up with me about two weeks ago. Just a week before our year anniversary. She claimed that i never gave her space to breathe and that for the past month or so we were arguing about everything. I have no problem admitting that i was extremely clingy and always trying to hover over her via texts, calling, asking to hang out, ect. She told me she needed space and i didnt know how to handle it. I begged and cried and pleaded for her to let me have another chance but claimed that she just couldnt do it right now. The next week was my birthday, i asked her to hang out with me just because it would make me feel better about everything (big mistake, i think) I went out and bought her 2 life sized teddy bears, 2 dozen roses, a card, and like 10 balloons shaped like hearts. She agreed to come over and i presented her with everything. She was happy and started to cry and i thought i was doing great. Then, she began to tell me that she had told me to be less clingy in the past and that i had gone back to being the clingy person i am for the last year we’ve been together and it wasnt going to take a week for her to notice that i changed. I cried and we hugged and talked for about 30 minutes and then she left. I have started going back to therapy to try and work on becoming less clingy, and work on my short temper and just have been doing everything i possibly can to show her that i have and can change. Its been a week and a half since my birthday and i havent talked to her since. I feel like the best way to show her that im changing is by giving her that space that she asked for. a few days ago i got a text from her asking what happened at school that day but it was a very short lived conversation. I felt like that was her way of trying to talk to me again or coming up with an excuse to talk to me.
I haven fallen deeply in love with this girl and we were together for just about a year. She said that after new years she would see how she was doing and that maybe we could try things out again. She goes away for christmas and new years to visit her family and will be gone for a week and a half. Do you think she’ll realize how much she loved me and wants to still be with me? I need to know how else to get her back because i love this girl so much and i would do anything to have her back. Please help me 
What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do?
Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other?
But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happend to be a friend. Really confusing behaviour! They ended the relationship several months back. They keep warming to me and running!
they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. I do want to work things out.
he said he needed time to clear his mind. is that just an excuse??????
he was acting weird for a week straight, not giving me attention, so i told him im not sure if he can balance work and play and that maybe we should take a break. he said good idea.
he changed his facebook status to single a day after. if he really liked me why would he do that?
What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do? Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happened to be a friend. Really confusing behavior! They ended the relationship several months back.
They keep warming to me and running! they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. He has just joined somewhere that i go to…
He got in touch again, hinting how he could get his DVD back.. saying post or would you like to meet in person? but won’t come flat out and ask to meet, he gives me the options… then asked ‘if im STILL single’ but nothing else!!!
He still keeps hinting about the DVD, so decided to leave it at the gym for him so he can pick up. Forcing him to stop hiding behind this reason any longer…
Bumped into him again last night, he asked if i wanted to go for coffee before xmas and said i was looking hot. He also asked if the person i was with, was my new partner (just a friend)
Thanks in advance 
me and my ex- have been on and off for many months now… every time we break it off something happens and we start talking again. When i wanna be strong and not get back w/ her, we normally end up in a bed….she invited herself this weekend to see me…i don’t want to hurt her…but i don’t want her to come…should i make up and excuse and get out of town (again) or what…i’m wanting to get on w/ my life…i’m pretty much willing to lie cheat or steal as long as she kinda disappears quickly and quietly….w/ as little tears shed as possible
me and my ex- have been on and off for many months now… every time we break it off something happens and we start talking again. When i wanna be strong and not get back w/ her, we normally end up in a bed….she invited herself this weekend to see me…i don’t want to hurt her…but i don’t want her to come…should i make up and excuse and get out of town (again) or what…i’m wanting to get on w/ my life…i’m pretty much willing to lie cheat or steal as long as she kinda disappears quickly and quietly….w/ as little tears shed as possible
I split up with my boyfriend of 6 months 2 weeks ago because my ‘best friend’ lied to me and said she saw him with another girl when she didn’t because she fancies him. He said he didn’t want to sort it because I made him look like a n*b. Some of my stuff is at his house and for the past 2 weeks hes been saying hes been too busy to bring it round…although hes been at his nans round the corner so he could have brung it then? Anyway my brothers girlfriend lives on the same street and he said he’s seen him with another girl who has a blue car. He said he seen the car there yesterday but my ex has been working away so I dont know whether this girl is his cousin (who he lives with) or someone hes actually seeing. He’s been nasty with me saying hes thrown my stuff in the bin but I knew he hadnt. So on Saturday, I text him saying ‘I dont mean to mither but when do you think you will be able to bring my stuff? My sister said she can bring me 1 night if it’s a problem? I just want my stuff back so I can move on like you have. I wish we could have sorted it but if you just bring my stuff you don’t have to hear off me again do you?’ I didnt get a reply back until today when he text me saying…’Ive found your dvd but not your top so I’ll get it to you tomorrow. Ive been working away.’ In the last texts hes been pretty mean about it but in this one he’s beeing pretty nice? I don’t know whether he’s lying about not being able to find my top so that he has an excuse to come round when he misses me or whether he actually can’t find it…although I’m sure he told me it was in his drawer =/ So hes coming round tomorrow with my dvd…do you think this is going to be the end or does it seem like he wants to sort it out? Also, do you have any tips on how I can make him want me back when he sees me? Thanks
What is going through my EX’s head! what can i do? Why would my ex bf get off with his new partner in front of me in bar, when we bumped into each other? But couldn’t stop starring across in my direction all night, and giving evils to the person i was out with that night, who happend to be a friend. Really confusing behaviour! They ended the relationship several months back.
They keep warming to me and running! they put update on facebook saying ‘hungover and disappointed in myself’ then deleted me from facebook a week later! no contact since..
This week my ex unblocked me from MSN, making excuse to get in touch for a dvd.. he will be online, but doesnt initiate conversation. He has just started to hang out in places where i go…
He got in touch again, hinting how he could get his DVD back.. but won’t come flat out and ask to meet, he gives me the options… then asked ‘if im STILL single’ but nothing else!!!
He still keeps hinting about the DVD, so decided to leave it at the gym for him so he can pick up. Forcing him to stop hiding behind this reason any longer…
My ex broke up with me after 9 months. I was heartbroken, and spilled myself to her for 2 days after the breakup. But I did some research and found out the best thing to do is give her space and not contact her.
So a week went by and she sent me a text saying,"I hope you don’t hate me"
Another week went by without talking and she sent me this email:
Hey
I hope everything is going well for you, we haven’t talked in a few days.
Hope you can help me with the graphs from this article too :)
I need Figure 3 on page 656, figure 4 and figure 6 on page 657.
Thanks you soooo much I don’t know what I would do with out you!!!
Always,
ME
I want her back. The article she sent me doesn’t even have graphs and the pages arent even in the article so I’m thinking this was an excuse to contact me. Is her contacting me first good? Does is show she still has feelings? What should I do next?
My wife left me on Friday, moving back home with her folks. (The same people who she claimed beat her and made her life a living hell!) However, when i asked her in front of her mother she denied it! WTF!?!?!?!? Was she lying? I really dont think so but, I just dont know why she would leave to go to THEM! Her father hates me anyways! She has said that he resents me for having the things that him and his wife didn’t have when they were Jenn’s and my age(26/28) I never felt like I was a member of her family in all of the 8.5 years that we were together and NOW I feel like SHE has sabotaged all of that! Her father is def. loving the fact that she left AND that she/he took both of OUR cars! I legally have rights to one of them but I am not going to shitty like them. It just goes to show how LOW/NO CLASS they are! I always knew that though! I am just so blown! I guess what I am asking for advice on is how long should I wait to go out and start having fun as far as hooking up with the ladies again? It has been almost 7 months since I have had sex(if you were interested) and I was stupidly faithful. I am in THE BEST shape of my life and I am only 28. Green eyes, brown hair, olive complex, 6′1, 180 Italian/Peruvian I think that I am a catch for any honey. They only problem is that I am married! I am catholic and it DOES mean something to me.
She left me after counseling didn’t work! The therapist dumped us because she wouldn’t get her own therapy; i have been seeking my own! (her excuse, she didn’t have per visit to save our marriage) it wasn’t/I am not important enough(my words,not hers) so after that i said there is no point in sharing a bed. she moved to the spare room and then moved out because she claims I told her to. That is her rational behind leaving and taking both cars. She thinks that we are just separated and that we are going to "work" things out! Well its been 5 days and she has made NO attempt to contact me in regards to counseling, talking, anything other than ebay took fees out of her bank account and that I intentionally STOLE the money! Not the case! I am so lonely and she knows how bad its been for me. Were I was emotionally I am not going to kill myself BUT i WAS in DARK DARK place and SHE DI DNT CARE!
that just tells me she never loved me at all! marriage is about honor and commitment and unity!
I want to be happy and I dont want to be alone! I am SO ALONE! I JUST WANT TO BE HELD! i know that it sounds gay(im not) but I havent had any affection for months! my favorite thing before sex use to be kissing and the last kiss that I got other than a dead fish grandma kiss was i would say at least before new years. I know that I did kiss her maybe a month or so ago in the car or somewhere but she didnt like it and she didnt respond well. we were arguing and i figured that we had to connect SOMEWAY! I am not going to pay for sex but I AM TIRED OF J@$#ing off . There is NO REASON( I feel that either she is lesbian now or she HAS to be cheating) i dont know its too late now i guess….
How long should I wait! I want love or atleast a warm touch of a woman’s hand. I miss the scent of her hair, the touch of her skin. I just miss WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WTF??????
HOW LONG? I am serious!!!! I am not going to base my life decision on strangers advice, I am just looking for feedback. To base my decision off of. THANKS
My ex is currently owes over three months in back child support. He just stopped paying and has had every excuse in the book. He is getting ready to go back in the army after ten years out. Will the army let him re-enlist and leave if they know he owes this money? I am currently awaiting documentation back from the court in regards to this matter, and was planning on taking it to an attorney. But now I am afraid he will be able to get out of town before I can do this. Do I need to make the army aware of this? Will it matter to them? It is a violation of a court order.
Just recently i broke up with my ex girlfriend. I really let her down, we were childhood sweethearts and i guess i always thought we would be together. For some reason, though we have been kinda drifting apart lately. We have both been real busy in work and stuff and haven’t been making enough time for each other. Well last week i was out with a few of the guys and i ended up kissing some girl in a bar. I had never done something like that before (no excuse) and i felt so guilty about it. As it happens one of my girlfriends work colleagues saw everything and thought it was her duty to inform my girlfriend. Since then everything has been a mess, she won’t talk to me, won’t even let me apologize, i just don’t know what to do. I love her so much and i know she loves me. Please Help.
Thank you
