Why do so many people here like the idea of a girl getting revenge on her ex-boyfriend more than the idea of a guy getting revenge on his ex-girlfriend?

And for those of you women who say the guy should just move on, if you yourself would happily take revenge on an ex-boyfriend if you had the chance, then why do you think the guy shouldn’t get to enjoy that same kind of revenge that you want to enjoy?

I’ve seen YA! questions here where both boys and girls post questions about getting revenge on their exes and I’ve noticed in the replies that more people seem to be in favor of the girl getting revenge on the ex-boyfriend, yet when it comes to the guy getting revenge on his ex-girlfriend, most of them say grow up and move on. Why are so many people here in so much favor of the girl getting revenge but not the other way around? Do these people consider women to generally be less emotionally stable than men and therefore think it’s justified?


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When my ex met me, he knew he wanted a gf and worked very hard to get me. I was "selfish" and very content w. being single and was cautious of being in a relationship but through time, came to find that he was loyal and the long term type who cared and respected me very much. He loved that i was not like other girls. I’m the "good girl" and completely different than all his exes who were "high maintinence" and b*tchy. He loved how i was confident, independent, smart, knew who i was and what I wanted in life, educated and will graduate soon and into a career, classy, mannered, and funny. I also loved being intimate w him and loyally to him :) I’m not too bad to look at either (his friends thought i was pretty) and right away, introduced me to all his friends, family and they liked me (they were grateful he found a good girl like me). I was a good girlfriend – we both have busy schedules and I NEVER chased him at all but did nice things for him now and then. I never held him back if he wanted time w. his car, video games, or friends – always gave him space and freedom. I always respected him, appreciated him for who he was and what he did to me but if there was ever a time i felt disrespected I stood my ground. I never nagged or criticized him at all.

Within the last few weeks my intuition told me something was off and no matter how much I talked w. him, he assured me everything was fine and how much he wanted to be with me. He was still affectionate and consistent in calling me but felt he wasn’t "there". He wasn’t giving me the sincere respect and attention I deserved. And now, he broke up w. me b/c of his indecisiveness, immaturity, insecurity, and infatuation. I was nothing but infatuation for him. He wants to be alone, no gf, no work, no spark, doesn’t wanna try…how can you not try if having a good girl and all that is here? I don’t wanna get married anytime soon, I’m not pressuring him to be "super serious", i just want a loyal, committed bf. And if there is no other "3rd party", then he didn’t even wanna try w. me? Being on the inside, i never knew (or cared so much) for people’s reactions. Apparently, our mutual friends thought it was "strange" that the "princess was dating the bum" and how "she’s seems to be too mature for him" but were happy he finally "had a princess". And fr. what people say, he still doesn’t know who he is or what he really wants; very immature and can’t think for himself and is easily influenced by his friends. We’re nearing our mid 20′s and i’m more mature than most girls my age (anyway) and he seems to be content w. his friends who have no ambition in life (and possible influenced him tht he’s always w. me, getting jealous but little did they know..). His best friend thinks he’s "stupid" for letting go of a "good catch" like me and that i’ll be the "best girl he’ll ever get". What’s confusing was tht I know he still cared – still consistent w. hugs, kisses, cuddles, taking care of me and phone calls but was distracted. Also, i’m VERY different than all his exes. Will he regret this?


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What is the best way to get back at a guy that dumps you? Long story short, I cheated on him but we got back together because I realized the mistake I made but he never had full trust in me. Tonight I wrote on my exes(the on I cheated on him with) wall and asked him how he was(because my boyfriend that dumped me was getting jealous over the guys on my facebook) and my ex responded with "we should hang out sometime". My boyfriend threw a fit and then decided to dump me, I wanna get even. What should I do? I’m thinking about telling him he had a small dick and that my the guy I cheated on him with pleased me much more in the bedroom even though that wouldn’t be far from the truth lol.


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My boyfriend needs knee surgery and is almost 17 and has no insurance. How do we get him the surgery?

My boyfriend’s parents are divorced and neither of them have him on their insurance and he torn a muscle in his knee and needs surgery to fix it. He turns 17 next month.

Well, one of his parents needs to get him on their plan. That’s the only answer.

Is you entire mind and soul completely occupied with the following: “I still love my ex boyfriend and I would give the world to get back together with him again? This article provides you with a great deal of understanding and also comfort when it comes to what you need to do, how you should act and how you become able to control your emotions.

Being jilted by someone that you love and care about is never a fun experience to have to go through. If you have broken up with your boyfriend and you are starting to get that feeling that you want to be back together with him, then you may want to keep reading. While it might seem like it is just one of those wishes that will never come true to get back with your ex boyfriend, it does not have to be that way.

Getting back together with an ex boyfriend is actually a lot simpler than you would think, as long as you know what it is that will motivate him to want to get back together with you. And when it comes to motivating a guy to want to get back together, it does not always end up being that hard. Men and women are wired differently when it comes to relationships and dating, so if you are going to pursue him with the same methods that would work on yourself, then you are not going to get him back.

What can you do if you still love your ex boyfriend and you want to get back together with him?

As hard as it might be to confront your true feelings, you definitely want to do this before you go after him. Once you do get him back, you don’t want to realize that it was a mistake. So, before you do anything to try and win him back, take the time to think about whether or not this is really what you want to happen. If it is, good. Knowing what you really want in this situation is really important.

The next step is to try and figure out whether or not he is open to the idea of getting back together.

This can be really simple to do. Call him up or send him a text message and see how he responds to you. You don’t want to come out and say that you are calling him or texting him to try and see if he wants to get back with you, just send him a little pleasant message to measure his response. Or, call him up as if you just wanted to chat for a few minutes. If he seems to be eager to talk to you, this is a good sign.

From there, you want to be slow about actually getting back into a relationship again. Spend some time with him just on a friendly not to see what you are feeling. You don’t have to rush things just because you feel as though you are still in love with your ex boyfriend.

If you are struggling with trying to find out how to get your boyfriend back, then you need to really know what works and what does not.

You can find the solution and win him back by Clicking Here.

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