My exhusband told me in his last email….(didnt ask anything about the kids) that he is going to take legal actions against me just because I have not changed back to my maiden name. First of all, I have decided to keep the last name due to our kids carrying the same name….I feel that if I remarry again, that will be the only way I will change my name…of course. The problem I have here is that I have written emails to him about calling the kids and he chickens out and says that I push the kids to try and want to talk to him on the phone too much and he feels that I should not force them to do this….so if they do not want to talk to him…why should he call? My ex does live in Germany now with his wife and four kids…he hardly has anytime to spend time with his own family, let alone call to talk to our kids here in the states…I can imagain how it is…he is in the military. This I understand but you would think that he can at least spend five min of his time to try and find time to talk to the kids. I may be pushing it too much in this aspect but I do not know much of what is really going on over there. So I have stopped the emails. Heck, I can not even call either because his wife answers the phone. He is not home…or so it seems.
I also have reason to believe that he may be contacting his friends and other family members but not wanting to try and talk to his own kids…so I posted an blog on myspace about that and because of this last blog he got upset and wrote me this email about "taking legal actions" on me so that I can no longer use his families name….I just laughed really because I never have heard anything like it before….so I want to know for certain if this can happen though.
(You see to me…it has always been about the kids in the emails and to him…I don’t even think he really cares to know how his kids are doing…..it is now, that I will see what the kids think of him sometime later down the road..)
I think also, that since he married another woman with my first and middle name…he thinks that I should change it because of that too….his wife even told me once that he actually wanted her to keep her former married name due to me keeping my married name….he lothes me that much, I guess.
