My boyfriend and i had been friends for more than 10 years. He split up with his exwife and about 3 monthes later he wanted to start seeing me. I advised him i was worried that it would hurt are friendship but he stated that would never happen. We have been seeing each other for 1 year now very seriously. In the beggining of our relationship his son died and he was deeply hurt. I have conforted him as much as possible and helped him through his divorce which was final in June. He tells me how much and deep his love is for me and we get along very well. He has always worried that people in including his exwife thought we had a affair but we didnt. We never were seen much in public. He has called it off three times during this year in fear of people talking. He assured me things would be ok in time. Now he called me up asked me to come over and tells me he wants time to be alone and wants us to go back being just friends and maybe we can get back together someday and that our bond will always be there. I am very hurt because our love was very deep and i trusted him so much. I told him if thats how he feels he must go do what he needs to do to make him happy. I need some advise on what to do. I have not contacted him just returned a text he sent wondering if i was ok. I have been physically sick and feel so depressed. Help if you have any advise please.
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I’ve been through alot with my husband this is the first time i’ve been married.But his exwife likes to control him still like they are married still and we’ve been to court i forgot how many times.We now have a 2 year old together.I really do thank that he still has feelings for her not becuase of the kids but for each other.They got married when they where young and started haveing kid 2 boys. I love the boys with all my heart.But one day i was talking with his youngest and he said that his mother which is my husbands ex-wife.Said that her and her husband of 7 years was going to spilt up.Then after 3 mins told me that his mother never would get back with there daddy which is my husband.When i was telling my husband this he told me that he wouldn’t take her back becuase she’s on drugs and he would make her stop and she wouldn’t stop,and would’nt take are son around her.I told him that it seemed to me he would take her back and he told me i was reading into it to much….What does that mean to you i i’m so confused.And then she called lasnight on his cell but waited untill her husband left for work and the kids where in bed i know it had to do with the kids but she was all talking nice and he didn’t want me to say something to make her mad that’s what he told me.
For the poeple tha judge they really don’t know what i’ve been through at all ok..I’ve put up with his crap for 3 years he has lied and we have a kid together.He has cheated in the past and they do have a history together i can deal with that but that ex wife always tryed to get us split up…
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As soon as she was back on her feet, she began cheating on him. He is a little pissed off.
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My exwife has bipolar and borderline personality disorder, all I want is her to take me back so I can go home. Part two of this is her Father hates my guts. I really would like a way so that my ex would come live with me.
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im currently going thru a divorce and have a 15 month old daughter. i still love my wife (exwife what ever you wanna call it) i dont thnk so i believe its a bond that not everybody gets to share and you should cherish that. but i dont think its a love love its just that bond kinda love? my main point is that i am seeing this other girl who doesnt admit it but obviously gets jealous whenever the subject comes up, and constantly tells me why dont i just work things out with my ex when we talk about it… any advice is welcome or help on giving advice to this girl i am seeing… she also has a child by her ex husband to if that helps out with giving advice? thanks ya’ll
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