I asked out the girl that I fancied for 1 month, but it didn’t go so well.
To be honest she rejected me straight after a VERY UNCOMFORTABLE PAUSE. The only reason I did it was because the dickheads of my friends bullied me into doing it, I was gonna ask her out later when I got to know her a bit better. But I now think I can’t do anything about it, my friend said as a joke oh her face book that she broke my heart, and she actually did, then she writes on my friends face book that she feels awful. I still feel sad about it, it was the first time I ever asked out a girl, and she rejects me, that made me feel so sad, I cried that same night. I need help, FAST!
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so i was in relationship for, but i love this guy already 4 years. he had ugly and fat girlfriend, who wont’s him back.
he is on trip for 2 weeks and we had fight on phone, because his ex wrote some stuff, on his face book wall.
we had fight and i was kinda mean and told him: what you feel to ME??
and what he wrote is that:
"we are in relationship for 1month and i cant understand you, but you are understanding me, so i cant say anything about it and its all about me.. i don’t want to hurt you, or make you suffer, he wrote to me like that…
and i wrote that that’s ok, the thing is i know the truth and i’m not in misunderstanding anymore.
and he didn’t wrote anything that means we broke.. but after he’s back from his trip i want him back!! and want to deal with his ex cow gf
SO pleas can you give me some advices?? please i really really need help
they were too young, immature and self centered to make a real go at it and ended up divorced but had a daughter together. it was a bitter divorce and in an argument he threatened to sue for custody. she made up a bunch of lies to the police had his arrested and make sure he couldn’t have visitation let alone custody.
4 years ago he met and married me. then last year he was searching on face book and got in contact with the ex again. He got to talk to his daughter on the phone, started sending Christmas presents. That’s all good and well, I’m happy for him. But him and his ex have started chitter chattering on the phone, text messaging for hours, instant messaging on line, and emailing. He knows it bothers me. I have told him over and over again the only correspondence he should have with her is about their mutual child together. especially because she is unmarried without even a boyfriend. it is easy to fall in love again when two people who have been married before start talking with this level of intimacy. Her father has been sick, almost died, she kept calling him for the should to cry on. Her brother just died a few weeks ago and again, was on the phone with him for hours.
Then it hit. she told him she misses him. her mother got on the phone and told him he is still considered her son. my mind is going freaking wild. He knows how I feel. but he doesn’t seem to think he’s doing anything wrong so he don’t care he’s going to continue "being her friend" meanwhile she’s forming an attachment. his pastor has told him he’s treading on dangerous ground and so has his best friend. His best friend even told him it doesn’t matter if their is nothing wrong with it if it bothers your spouse this much then he needs to put his current wife’s feelings first and its wrong based on that merit alone. So my questions on the situation…hard to pick just one…am I overreacting? is this marriage worth trying to save or should I just take my cats and leave? CAN it even be saved or is he headed toward being reunited with her? he says he’s not but he does nothing to discourage her advances.
this is a letter she last sent him after i called her to see what her intentions were with my husband friends or wanting him back ect.. anyhow she says I am out of line when she is the one that contacted my husband threw facebook I was being nice until she got upset when I told her that he deleted her numbers and his facebook account she called me a ghetto bitch and went off on me so I got mean right back she hung up on me and i never called her again but she wrote him this
Hey.
I know you wrote something on my wall on face book before you tore your account down but once you take your account off, the messages erase.
So I’m not quite sure what transpired but I do know that your wife called my cell phone the other day cursing at me. She demanded I leave you alone and never contact you again. She said she made you take your account down off face book and made you erase my numbers off your phone.
I just want to let you know that I understand. I am unsure what your feelings are of this situation but since you complied with her demands, I can only assume how you feel. Again, I understand. Your marriage is much more important than any friendships you aquire.
I do request that you have your wife leave me alone. Her calling me with all that ghetto talk is not appropriate. I asked her to talk like the adult she is but she just kept on with the barbaric language. T told her that it sounded like a conversation she should be having with you, not me. I, of course, told her to leave me alone.
And just to leave you with a final thought: James, you are a beautiful person. You always have been. It was nice to speak with you again and to hear of everything you have done with your life. I hope you are happy or find happiness in your life. I need not speak of the possesive nature of your marriage, I’m sure you are dealing with it the way you know how. I just hope she learns to treat you like her partner in life and not like a possesion she can keep hidden from eveyone. You have so much greatness to share with people, I hope you do. I am always here if you need a friend. I have no hard feelings from what occured. She turned everthing around and made me out to be the bad guy whe she is the one who was intruding on our marriage my husband chose not to contact her back after this letter my question is what were her intention with my husband was she trying to get him back or what they were talking for a month and a half on his cell and I didnt even know until we had a 300 dollar cell phone bill hour long talk s and all when I wasnt around which scares me he keeps telling they were just getting caught up but does it really take that long and he did stop talking to her for me but I am having a hard time trusting him what should I think
she lives in MT and were in TX thank god
she said I was being ghetto and using barbaric language she was doing it too maybe I shouldn’t have contacted her but if she would have been nice to me I would have said they could keep talking as long as it was in secret i can be reasonable but not if her intentions are bad
sry wasn’t in secret lol cant type tonight I also did discuss everything with my husband first but hes not a real good communicator need I mention we was injured in Iraq 3 years ago and I have been there threw everything with this man I think I deserve resprect
