I’m 18 years old.
I really like my girlfriend, we have been together now for over three weeks. I asked her to be my girlfriend on our first date, which was on valentine’s day. Every day that goes by I keep wondering when the next time I’m going to be hanging out with her is exactly. I get excited whenever I’m going to be seeing her again. She loves picking on me and telling me that I fail haha. Me and her talk a lot and we like to take turns asking each other questions like when we talk online, as a sortof way to get to know each other more and more and because it’s fun and we use it to flirt sometimes. One question she asked me was if I was in love with her, I told her that I wasn’t there yet but I felt like I was falling for her at a steady pace. She said okay and I asked her how she felt about me, and she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me, but she likes me and she likes kissing me. I told her that it might seem bad since I’d be a step ahead of her if I’m falling for her and she isn’t falling for me, and she said "or we can be at the same level =)", reminding me that she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me yet but could be blindly.

How will I be able to tell if she’s falling in love with me? And how do I know for sure that I am?

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Hello everyone. I am hoping for some help on this issue.

I met my ex girlfriend almost two years ago and it started off great. We hung out every weekend, and after a month, we decided to consider ourselves a couple. I was divorced for over a year before I met her but her ex-boyfriend had just broken up with her two months prior to us meeting.

Things started off great for the first few months. She is very outgoing, smart, has a great sense of humor, and the sex was amazing. After the first few months it started to go downhill. One time we went out to a club and she told me this guy was trying to get her number. I thought she was lying because she thought it was cute to tell little fibs. Later I saw the dude try to dance with her and she didn’t do anything about it until I walked up. Also a few weeks later we went to my friends wedding and I was told afterwards by alot of people that I should leave her alone because she was being overly flirtatious and that I would get hurt. I also noticed that she could not control her alcohol intake. She would get completely obliterated and would act out of character. Of course I didn’t see any of this prior to me falling in love with her.

We stuck it out for a while and noticed that the arguments started to get more intense and she started saying hurtful things on purpose. The hurtful comments happened more and more to the point where I would get angry and call her names and even got soo angry that I would hit my steering wheel. One day we went out and she got soo mad at me and she cheated on me to get back at me. She said she felp pressured by her "step sister" because I treated her like crap. After about a month break we started dating again and it started all over again. I got blamed for her cheating on me. The night she told me what happened we were both drunk and she started to get physical with my by hitting and kicking me. I never thought I would do it but I ended up hitting her back in the arm. It got so bad that a month later she did it again but I ended up going to jail. By court order I was not to contact her but she contacted me. We started seeing eachother again and everything was fine for a few months and then it started to go downhill again. Two months ago we went out and she got physical with me again. I held her back and she somehow got a huge cut on her arm. A month ago we went out and got into it bad. She hit me so hard that I had a bloody swolen lip and had huge scratches on my face. We saw eachother a week later and both decided that we should end things.

A few weeks ago she texted me saying that she was going on a date. I asked her to tell me if she would start dating again. I thought she was joking until I walked in a bar and saw her there with another guy. I was crushed. I begged her the next day to see me and she refused. For a few days I couldn’t sleep, eat, and had not motivation to do anything. I broke off all communication for 10 days, and just today, I sent her a text asking how she was doing because one of her friends from high school passed away. She did not text me back.

I know I should just leave her alone but it’s easier said than done. It’s apparent that she is not mentally stable but I love this girl more than I ever loved another girl. I want her back more than anything.

My question is…What is the best course of action for me to take to get her back? I did the no contact for 10 days and was starting to find myself again. I wasn’t angry with her anymore and felt comfortable sending her a text. Should I text her again in a few days? Should I call her? I know that we both still have feelings for eachother and I want nothing more than to get her back even though most who read this will tell me I am crazy. Any suggestions will be helpful.

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Only one out of my friends parents are still together
and I don’t even know what their marriage is behind closed doors

The saying about love is that it lasts forever and it never dies
People tell me that all the time,
they tell me to wait and it shall happen for me

but I find that the majority of the people on this world haven’t found it yet even though they may think they do

My friends all say they are in love
Love at the age of 16,17,18? That’s almost impossible in my opinion
From an outsiders perspective;
I can see every teen relationship ending poorly.
They all say they are so in love, but they honestly don’t have a clue what love is.
I have a different perspective on this then most I’ve known..

It seems as if everyone is so ready to grow up,
they want to lose their innocence before it is even their time to.
Then the thing they may realize a few years later is that they will never get that innocence back..

Innocence has got to be the most precious and greatest thing on this world that is being torn away from kids and young teens so unknowingly. They think they are so ready to experience the world, but they are no where near ready.

I’ve heard of 12 year olds loosing their virginity,
12 years old… 12 years old?!
Thats still a child..
I am 17 years old, and I still don’t think it is right at this age to lose your virginity.

There are more years in our life time of having to be an adult than a child..
Why choose to grow up at such a young age?
It’s society’s poor image on teenagers that most look up to and try to duplicate.

Anyways, My point is,
Why doesn’t anyone become best friends first before a relationship,
because I guarantee it’s the best way to fall in love with someone.

I noticed everyone is having sex before they are even ready to do so,
they may even be ready to…but they let sex be the thing to make them fall in love..
instead of falling in love before the sex..
hmmmmm

I wish people would mature
no one has a logical mind about relationships

and you are all on here rambling about ohhhh DOES HE LIKE ME???
OHH THE OTHER DAY WE HAD SEX AND HE DIDN’T TALK TO ME SINCE, AND I MIGHT BE PREGNANT…
honestly…if you even have to say something like that in your lifetime…that really sucks for you haha, time to grow up a bit more and have some respect for your body.

I’ve dated many guys,
There is no point in having sex with someone unless you know you love them,
I have dated over 7 guys I’m sure,…if I had sex with the majority of them I would be regretting it now…because am I still with one of them right now? NO! i’m not, and I don’t think your little teen relationships will last forever either, so stop trying to impress other people by hooking up.

I know what it is like, having the peer pressure to do things,
but it is sooooooooooooooo dumb.
You guys are all frustrating.
Where are the REAL questions about dating& single?

Stop posting things like this;
DOES HE LIKE ME?

HOW DO I GET MY EX BACK?

ehh …..why would you want your ex back first of all?
if he doesn’t want you don’t force it.

Thanks everyone.
stop being so immature about your relationships…cause odds are …you were never in love in the first place like you thought you were
FYI…ive experienced it ALLL. haha..been there done that..and matured since
I’m not putting down everyone, so stop getting so butt hurt.
just the guys and gals who don’t realize that they don’t need to have sex with someone to be liked.
i had a boy friend..thought I was in love[age 16] Didn’t have sex with him for the 6 months we wend out. We had a strong relationship and ended it because we began changing and fighting everyday. Relationships aren’t always effective until you are matured because at such a young age ….everyone is changing rapidly.

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My girlfriend fof six years has fallen otu if love with me she said it was not me. It was her. This was Sept of last year. We agreed to take things slow. Well, we have sex once a month if that. It sucks. I am just unsure of wether she is falling in love with me again, or just unsure of her feelings for me. I ask her and she flips out. I do nto know what to do. She emails her best friend, writes her letters and calls her. She tells her everything and her friend tells her to leave me all the time. And my partner wants to at times, and sometimes I feel she wants to leave me. Please help me.

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He lives at the base of a mountain near appalachia I believe. This family comes down to shop in the town. He see a beautiful young woman with long blonde hair shopping with her family. He really likes her. He finds out who she is and goes up the mountain to meet her and ask her father if he can court her. They fall in love and get married and she dies in childbirth giving him a son. He stays with her family to raise the boy. The book has charming stories about mountain folk. A little man has a wife who is so fat she can’t get out the door. When she dies they have to take the wall out of the house to get her out. They bury her in a piano box. He also installs an indoor bathroom for her family when he gets to know them. Can anybody help me please?

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Don’t marry the person you want to live with, marry the one you cannot live without. But whatever you do,
you’ll regret it later.
Forgiveness is giving up my right to hate you for hurting me.
Laziness is nothing more than the habit of resting before you get tired.
Marriage is give and take. You’d better give it to her or she’ll take it anyway.
My wife and I always compromise. I admit I’m wrong and she agrees with me.
Ladies first, pretty ladies sooner.
A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
You’re getting old when you enjoy remembering things more than doing them.
Real friends are the ones who survive transitions between address books.
Saving is the best thing. Especially when your parents have done it for you.
They call our language the mother tongue because the father seldom gets to speak !!
Star it if u like it:-)

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We’ve known eachother since we were 2 years old, and have been like best friends ever since. But now we’re both grown up and started falling in love with him. But I’m not sure if he likes me back, and not sure how tell him the way I feel. How should I tell him?

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What are the reasons a man would go back to an ex-wife he chose to divorce and even after supposedly falling in love with another girl?

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Me and my ex are getting back together after being broke up. Help me find something about falling in love again, or songs about another chance.

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I was so hurt and bitter after divorce (cheated on me)after 15 years of loving him…tell me it’s ok to feel love again…so scared of falling in love again..can’t go through any more pain…tell me true love does exist? I am in love with a man that is everything I have wanted..but so scared of getting hurt again. He is everything my ex husband wasn’t and everything I have always wanted..but scared of getting hurt? What can I do to convince myself that he will be someone I can grow old with…I love him so much but am so scared to tell him how I feel.

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I was married to the love of my life for 19 years and then suddenly alone, she left me a shattered man. That was 8 years ago, had a girlfriend for 3 years, she verbally abused me then sent me packing once she found a replacement. When the money dries up so does the relationship. people say time, the right one is out there etc etc. Find it hard to believe but the only woman I can trust is my daughter and my mother. I don’t know if I could ever ever handle another broken heart as I only have one and it never never healed. I miss my ex wife even after 8 years has gone. I am bitter, hurt and my attitude really sucks. I am soo sad, soo lonely and dread the idea of christmas coming and new years again on my own. To stay on my own, whilst lonely, at least stops me from falling in love again and setting myself up for a big thud of a fall again. I am now 48 yo and maybe this is just the way it is suppose to be until my final days.

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Right now I feel distant from her and is not that we’ve done anything wrong like having affairs, or lying etc. it’s just that it doesn’t feel the same as before I know that she loves me to death but honestly I don’t and I don’t want to tell her anything cause she doesn’t deserved to get hurt, sometimes I feel like giving up and split but I’m just here waiting for something to happen, like falling in love again with my wife.

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what things should i do? I’m the one who do the cooking. and taking care for our son. I want him to be happy and I want him to feel like what he felt before about us, like falling in love again….

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I am having trouble falling in love with my husband again?? I’m not quite sure what to do about it. I want nothing to do with him. I’m pulling away from family functions….I’ve been through several medications and they all screw me up in different ways…..I can’t handle it anymore….

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