I feel like I maybe falling out of love with my husband.. We have had to deal w/ so much in the last 9 years and there is some resentment I have towards him that I have tried to get over, but I seem to be unable to release it and am afraid if we keep going down this road it will be the end of our marriage… How do you fall back in love?
Okay, so I have been in a relationship for about a year and a half. Everything was great until around December, when I started getting these obsessive thoughts about falling out of love with him… It completely destroyed me. I felt like I was going crazy and losing everything good. The Thanksgiving before I went to visit my family in Oklahoma, and I hadnt seen my mom in about 10 years (she was/is a drug addict, etc) and she showed up, unannounced, with a kid that I didnt know about. I was in shock and I never really got upset about it. I actually thought that It was kind of funny. In fact, I never cried about my mom even when I was younger. I was alway numb to it. When I got home I had mono. During mono I got very depressed and I didnt even realize it.
The first day I was better I was with my boyfriend and I were talking and all of the sudden this rush of unfamiliarity and doubt rushed over me… I dont know why. Ever since then I have been obsessed with "what ifs" what if I dont love him anymore, what if we arent right for each other anymore, what if I dont even like him, what if I never loved him? And so on… I just obsess about it and then eventually convince myself that I dont care about him… and then it just goes away for a while. I see everything clearly and nothing feels forced, he doesnt annoy me much, and I just feel natural and like myself. I dont know what is going on. I just feel numb! I feel like I am sabotaging myself!!!
Oh, by the way, I am 18, and this is my first real relationship. I am on zoloft.
PLEASE HELP ME
Okay please nobody tell m oh you shouldnt have gotten married so young, i am looking for help not i told you so’s!
Okay i met my now husband in college at the age of 19 we got married right after i turned 20 we were head over heels in love, i didnt want to spend a second without him. He joined the army after we got engaged and the we got married after his AIT and then he got stationed in germany. Our relationship feels like it has changed so much, okay we have only been married for about 6 months but i feel like i am falling out of love with him and dont know what to do, my dream in life is acting/singing and he dosent really support me in that career, all he does is sleep wake up go to work come home eat and then sleep, we barely talk cause when we do we fight, and there is no romance between us anymore not physically or emotionally. It feels like we have been married for 16 years instead of just 6 months. I dont know what to do, i dont want to hurt him but i dont want to be stuck in a dead end marriage for my whole life. And i feel guilty sometimes cause the only way i get through the day is by day dreaming about a different life, and then i sometimes have to imagine being somebody else or being with somebody else to even be able to sleep, i get probally about 3 hours of sleep a night, and there is no chance i would ever cheat on my husband, i just cant do that, i try to keep myself busy during the day cause if i dont i cant stop my mind from thinking of all the bad things in my life right now that i dont know how to fix. I dont know what to do. Please i need some help!!!!!!!!
I have a wonderful husband whom I love with every inch of my heart. Together we have a beautiful baby boy who is almost 3 months old. My husband is the best father that I could have ever asked for my son. He loves his baby boy so much. And I know he loves me too, but I’m questioning whether or not he is IN LOVE with me anymore…
Like I said, I know he loves me. I have been going through alot with family and he is always there for me with a shoulder to cry on. Anytime I am sad or upset he is always there to make me feel better. He goes to work 7 days a week to provide for me and our child. He comes home every day after work and takes care of us. I know there is no other woman in the picture…
I just don’t know if I make him happy anymore. We seem to always argue over the smallest things. He is not as loving towards me in terms of affection and whatnot. He used to help me cook and clean and things of that nature but now he is acting like most other men in the world in thinking that I have to do all that myself, on top of working a full time job. I just don’t know what to do. I love him so much. And I am still very much in love with him.
Does it sound to you like he is falling out of love with me?
And any advice on things I can do to make him feel happy again?
I guess I should have mentioned that I have been very sad and upset lately about work and family stuff so do you think maybe he is just tired of dealing with my sadness??
Advice…
when i started with him i was very much in love now i feel nothing for him, after i found out that he was having an affair with another woman, it hurt me so bad, i decided live him but i coudnt because of my son, although we did not wed in church like others do people told me that because im a christian i cant live him, i told them that we didnt marry in church but they said still im his wife since we have lived together for 9 yrs. so i decided to stay, but the problem i feel no love, im trying to lern to love him again but still nothing seems to work
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