How can i get my ex girlfriend back?

Hi.

Im 16 and my ex girlfriend is 13. We had been together for about a year and a half, sometimes on and off, but we always came back to each other.

However now we are not together anymore. It was neither of our faults, but she told me that she didnt feel wanted by me, so she dumped me in a nice way. I keep feeling as if i lead her to do this aswell. :(

We had been through so many arguments and this one was really smal yet it still ended us. I had recently moved to college, and she didnt like it as we were not going to see ach other as much, but we still seen each other quite a lot. We were still together, but then she moved schools.

We were so close, we used to do so many romantic things, like cuddle in the cinema, have really great sleepovers. We were always kissing and we have pretty much been everywhere in our area together.

We argued and now we arent together, it was right after she moved school pretty much, and now she is going out with a boy who she has known for three weeks, when she has known me for about 2 years with so many memories :(

we are still friends, but i still love her as much as i always did when we were a couple. We went throgh so much trouble together regarding our age difference, yet we were so in love so we stayed together.

I really do love her, i have rote her songs, poems, i spent £60 on her for christmas this year, i spent £80 on her last year, but it is still a lot.

I cant stop thinking about her. We argued really bad last night and now we agreed tht we wouldnt talk for a week so that things could calm down, but my real plan was for her to miss me and ralise she luvs me, but now she is with him and i found out they had been snogging a lot tonight.

I think she might still love me, but i think she luvs this other guy too, and i really dont know what to do, i want her back so much because she was the best thing in my life and our friendship seems so much less than what we used to share. Just put it this way, we have so many romantic and special memories together and i really cant let her go. Can anybody help?

Please can u help, i really need to know how i can get her back because to be honest i actually need her and i feel like i cant live without her.

Thankyou to anyone who answers my question

Please help

:(


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