a couple of months ago, my fiance and i broke up just because we weren’t seeing eye to eye and decided that we would be better off as friends than anything else. a couple of weeks ago i started dating this guy and i do think he’s a great guy but i am still deeply in love with my ex and now my ex has asked me for a second chance. i want to give it to him but i don’t want to hurt the other guy. can u pls help me?
ok so me and my fiance have been dating for 5 years, and engaged for 1 year. We are both dancers, mostly hip hop. We have two children together 2 years old, and 1 year old. We have been living together for 2 years. Well, we recently broke up and i made him move out. He basically said that he wasnt happy and that he lost that connection and he thinks he might be gay. We were supposed to get married next year. I feel at fault because i would go weeks, or even months at a time without giving him some (having sex). But im always tired, taking the care of the kids, cooking and cleaning, and I was in school at the time..working during the day and school at night. while he just played his video games all the time. Sometimes i just wasnt in the mood, and other times i felt like "why should i give you some when you dont what i ask" But anyway, i have no one to talk to about this. I dont know if i should believe that this is just a phase and that maybe because he’s a dancer and around gay people all the time ..that he’s just gettin feelings of friendship and attraction mixed up. He’s not used to havin close friends, and our gay friends are very friendship and warm hearted and feels good to be around them because they have good spirits. Should I think that he will come to his senses and come back to me and the kids? Or should I just prepare to move on. I cant do that so easily. i am too attached to him and i would be lying if I said i didnt love him. Would I be preparing to marry him next year..if I didnt love him?! For Better or worse right?
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We have been dating for 2 months now, so I felt comfortable enough around her to just be myself. Well, the other night, I let one slip while we were snuggled up together on the couch watching a DVD I rented from Red Box. It was a chick flick that I don’t even like, but I watched it with her just to make her happy. Either way, she overreacted about me letting one and says we now need time apart. I mean, I have done everything to make her happy. I paid off her credit cards and let her use my social security number to get a car loan and now she wants to break up over this? Do you think that is right?
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A day before our two month anniversary engagement…he gave me a note…here’s what it said…kerri I know you love me and you know i love you, but my feelings have changed and i feel its best that we break up. Right now there is alot going on that is making it hard on our relationship and i feel this is best for now. I know this is going to be hard on you and it is going to be hard on me because i care for you alot. but sometimes these types of things dont work out. Im sorry im doing this through a note but i didnt know how else to do it….and because of how hard this is going to be on us both i would greatly appreciate it if you would not come over for a while how long i dk but i feel it would be easier if youre not around at first for both of us…ur friend…his name…
What do you think of that? in a note! I was completely and utterly torn apart for a while…now im getting over it…i just need some support…any ideas on how to handle this? On how to move on…please dont diss on him though..i still love him…just its not going to be like that anymore…he is 19..im almost 18…so..ideas people? Thanks so much…
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Me and my fiance were together 2 years and just left Iraq together and moved to his hometown in Washington DC when we got out the military a few months ago. My fiance was the BEST the entire 2 years we were together. He treated me like such a gentleman and was always sweet and when we were in Iraq and found out I was pregnant he went out of his way to make me happy and comfortable all the time. Now we are in DC and I am 8 months…we just started not getting along and arguing all the time to the point that he has moved out and in to his aunts house. He goes with me to some of my appointments and still pays all the bills but he is not there for me emotionally at all anymore. He looks frightened when he touches my belly when its moving and he doesnt like talking about the baby anymore. All he wants to do is go out to parties and pretend like the baby is not on the way. It seems the further along I get the more distant he becomes. I miss him so much and it hurts that he is not here laying with me every night when I left my family all the way in St.Louis to move here and be with him…I have tried talking to him and pouring my heart out how I need him and he just says he needs time and that he will still be here for me. He says he is tired of my flipping out on him but I wouldnt flip out if he was there more. PLEASE HELP



