Here is my opinion of the new movie but I’m curious to hear other comments and opinions as well.

I am a huge fan of the original Alice in Wonderland movie. I saw the new movie and it was enchanting for some of the same reasons. Of course the graphics were amazing but the graphics in most movies now days are. It seemed to pick up where the old one left off; therefore, it was able to capture the creativity of the original movie while adding on a twist of it’s own. Taking one of America’s most beloved movies of all time and altering it in any way is risky business but I think they pulled it off well.

Director Tim Burton worked magic once again but I was surprised that it wasn’t more dark and twisted like most of his films. For the story to be based around imagination and madness, I definitely thought it could have been just a tad bit more mad. The acting was for the most part well casted. Mia Wasikowska’s real life version of the cartoon Alice was somewhat different than I imagined her, but she played the part well. Johnny Depp was brilliant as usual. Depp has the ability to transform himself in such a way that I am convinced all of his many unique characters are real life people somewhere. The casting directors made a huge blunder by casting Ann Hathaway as the White Queen. She parades around with her arms bent upward with her hands up by her shoulders in almost every single shot she is in. I assume this posture she portrayed was her bizarre interpretation of a benevolent and graceful queen but I found this over acted role to be very monotonous, irritating and a bit comical, which is definitely not good if you aren’t aiming to be funny. Hathaway is a good actress but this roll was not for her.

I liked the way Alice was torn between the pressures of society and the world of fantasy inside her mind. I think the story reaches people on a personal level, though most probably don’t realize or even comprehend all of the beautiful metaphors tied into this story. The whole concept of the story parallels struggles that we have faced or will face at some point time in our lives. It takes on the belief that not everything in life has to make sense, when in fact most things don’t. Being able to let go of inhibitions and be a little mad sometimes is a gift given to each of us if we just have the guts to use it. The story reminds us of how we would love to escape and be free from societies traditions and taboos, how we would love to let our thoughts and ideas, our what if’s and how comes and our deepest visions and dreams be exposed. There is an Alice in us all that longs to be heard. This story conveys the message that we must be brave enough to think freely and speak up. Of course there will be opposition and uproar. There will be challenges, obstacles and dragons to slay, as Alice found to be true. You must face your dragon and slay it in order to find the Alice deep within yourself, the person you were born to be. They may call you mad but all of the best people are.
I just love the story of Alice in Wonderland so much, but I realized everything I liked about the new one was mainly the same stuff I liked in the old one. If given the choice to watch the old movie or the new again, I would probably choose the old. Graphics are neat and stuff in the new movie but that’s not everything to me. I definitely think it could have been better. I hope directors don’t start relying too much on graphics and slack off on the story lines.

I agree with Bloggart, The Mad Hatter was doing some weird voice manipulation and I wrote it off as him just being mad but it did annoy me a bit. I think I was so distracted by Ann Hathaway’s performance to really be bothered by the Mad Hatters strange voice changes.


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Thank you in advance for reading my extra long question…

So my wife and I haven’t really had a great relationship in the first place. We met when we were 19 and started dating over pure lust and physical attraction for each other. We had some things in common but not really that much. No less than a few months of dating, we moved in with each other (mostly because we both needed a second chance at life because our childhoods sucked). Then a few months later she was pregnant with our first child (now have 2). So life was in the fast lane for us. Like many rushed relationships, we developed over time but it’s still developing and it’s been 8 years…

We kind of have this "power struggle" relationship. If I want something, I’ll nag her to do it until she does it. If she wants something, she’ll nag me until I do it. It’s a constant childish struggle to see how we can manipulate the other person to do something we want them to without doing anything in return for it… Again, very childish… Well until I stopped playing it…

See, I’m trying to better myself, I gained 60 lbs since I met her and I’m trying to work it off. She gained about the same but after the birth of our 2nd child she lost it all (damn women luck). So in the effort to try to better myself, I’ve been too busy dieting and working out that I don’t beg her to do stuff any more. I’m actually just trying to get to know her and see if we can FINALLY have common interests so that way when I come home from work I don’t have to be bored any more because I’m being ignored… She’s decided to watch movies alone, ones that she knows I wouldn’t sit down and watch with her (I can stomach romance movies but old 1920′s films with bad english accents is where I draw the line).

Since my wife would rather play on facebook, watch movies alone, and sleep than hang out with me do you think she’s getting bored of me since I’m not nagging her to dye her hair blonde any more or nagging her to wear 3 inch heels any more…? Shouldn’t correcting my negative behavior be HELPING my marriage???

Part 2 to my question is: What are things that I could do to improve my relationship (besides watching the movies)???


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While posting on an "adult" message board for erotic film enthusiasts I brought up how turned on I used to be as a kid about the prospect of seeing naked women in playboys and films like Porky’s and how watching porn today can be a joyless almost numbing experience.

We all agreed that the most fun we ever had watching porn was during sleepovers at friends, one of our friends would bring out the tape and we’d see the hot chick on the box cover covering herself with a pillow and I’d have to stamp my feet as fast as I could on the carpet and chew on my t-shirt to keep from screaming for joy. The first time the woman would get naked we all couldnt believe it and we’d pause the movie and we’d have to cover our boners with our pillows and then go use the bathroom so we could jerk off.

Looking back on those sleepovers I don’t think I’ve ever been happier in my entire life, and it has been impossible to recapture that sense of naive joy and erotic wonder, even my first time having sex with a woman was a letdown by comparison.

We all agreed this was true and I came up with the idea of holding "sleepovers" and pretending we’re 11 years old again, and several posters who lived in my area agreed this was a great idea.

A few dozen posts later we were able to work out some ground rules. One big rule is that we all had to be at least 18 years old (most of us are 35 and older). Each member has to try to hold at least one gathering every 3 months (there are 12 of us) and we have to stay in character at ALL times so as to not break the spell. (kind of like live action role playing)

The host of the party has to provide the material, usually old playboy tapes, Penthouse Magazines, and hardcore porn (must be from 1992 or before, preferably 80′s "golden age" porn.

We all have to wear pajamas and bring chips and pop. We tend to play old nintendo games for an hour till the hosts "parents" go to bed then the host goes "look what I got guys!" then takes out the porn and we all jump around and high five and then wait with giddy expectation. During the movie we turn to each other and grin and talk about how horny we are and comment on the "action". Like if a women with huge breasts disrobes for a shower we have to pause the movie and go "whoaaaa!" "I’d like to suck on those" "Imagine if you touched her boobs with your penis!" "I heard that girls will put their mouth on your penis and lick it!" etc. There used to be a no masturbation rule but that was quickly nixed, the whole purpose of the gatherings is to feed off each others erotic energy the pent up erotic energy is too much to resist, we tend to all whip down our pajamas at the same time and masturbate , we try to keep a silly naive quality though and jokingly point at each others members and try to shout out different things when we *** "That sure beats Super Mario Bros.!" is my ejaculation catchphrase.

Since starting these gatherings I have never felt more alive and my sex life with my wife couldn’t be better, that is until one gathering where she caught an early flight home for the purpose of "surprising" me and ended up walking in on a dozen men masturbating in her living room. I will never forget the shocked look on her face and she immediately left and stayed at her sisters house.

I managed to talk to her and explain what she witnessed but she isn’t really buying my story, she keeps going on about how I am having "gay sex orgies" behind her back (we never touch each other!!!) and that I am living a lie. She has even started to indicate that she wants a divorce!

Is there any way I can get her to understand what I have been doing? I love my wife and ironically have never been more attracted to her than I am now, I realize I had been somewhat childish and now realize that I have a gorgeous voluptuous woman that my 11 year old self would have sold his Super Nintendo and Bike just to be able to touch her naked breasts and I could lose her. Please help me get her back!


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