my friend broke up with her x boyfriend. the fault was on the guys side but my friend loved her truely. now she is being arranged for amarriage by her parents, she is feeling guilty abt her first love. she is not able to consider some one else in her life. she feels that she is about to cheat her future husband by coz she was in love before. how will i convince her?pls help



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I broke with my long term girlfriend (first love) of 3 years. after several months, I fell in love with someone. After 2 months in the relationship. I miss my exgirlfriend. My love all of a sudden for this new girl feels wrong.

How do I move on? i feel like I am pretending. i dont know why. Also this all happens right now currently oversea studying. I will soon return back home in 2 months. This means my time with the new girl is 2 months. Why do I feel so miserable? How do I move on. I dont know what to do



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Ok, so here’s the whole pathetic story. I’ve been (mostly) happily married now for almost 9 years (been together for more than 12), I have two beautiful children and I love my husband…wouldn’t want to be with anyone else (for a long period of time). The sad thing is, 13 years ago, I dated this guy for…wait for it…wait for it…FOUR MONTHS! Yes folks, four measly months and I can’t forget about the guy. Granted, he was my first love and I was all googly over him and he dumped me. But come on….it’s been 13 years already! Why can’t I get him permanently out of my head? He’s married with a child….met his wife 3 weeks after we broke up. I KNOW I wouldn’t want him back as a boyfriend, no way. But I can’t forget about him and still look him up to find out what’s going on in his life. So what gives?

I’m not really asking anyone how to fix this situation, I think it’s hopeless, what I want to know is if there is anyone else out there in the same boat and how do you deal with it?

Oh, and if anyone knows of a forum that is dedicated to this sort of thing, that’d be great, it’d be nice to meet others who are in similar situations.

THANKS!
I’ve spoken with the guy a few times, he was friendly over the phone. Deep down I think it’s just that I want us to be friends and we can’t be (don’t think he wants to be). I’m not sad in my marriage, and I adore my children and my life, I just can’t figure out why this guy keeps popping into my head. I’ve thought about seeing a psychic (for giggles and grins) ’cause I know what a psychologist would say (I have a psychology degree…HA…oh the irony).



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Well the story goes: Me and my Ex-girlfriend went out for 1 year and 7 months. She broke it off and things werent the same for me. In about 6 to 8 months or so. She found someone else and I was still in Love with her. My jealousy and feelings of being possesive over her made me mad to the point where I didnt want to be her friend anymore. I told her to not see me as a friend also, even though she said that no matter what, she’ll see me as a friend. But I told her no. A big arguement happen and she finally snapped and said that were not friends anymore and shes not seeling me as a friend back aslo. Months pasts and I finally got over her. We havent spoke for awhile and just thinking on what I did, I was stupid. Now Im not even sure if she will forgive me. Cause I want us to be friends again. Im just not sure if I should just leave this as it is or ask her back to be friends again. Considering that I was her first love & everthing else, should I say im sorry? I still miss her at times



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im still in love with my ex boyfriend. We dated for a year. He said that if we were to talk again he would fall in love with me but he has moved on and now has a girlfriend which is my best friend. i know they are happy together and i dont want to ruin that but its so hard getting over my first love. I want him to want me back, to realize that he still does love me becuz i can tell he still does. What do i do? Please be nice to me.


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