Has your spouse ever cheated on you?
If yes, did you go sleep with someone else to get back at them?
What did you do to get back at them? Did you think on that plan long and hard or did you do it right away? My husband cheated on me New Year’s Eve with an ex-fling and he even had unprotected sex with her. We have lots of problems besides this, but I love him dearly.
However, right after it happened I was thinking about finding me somebody to date on the side (not necessarily to have sex with them). I didn’t act on that thought at all, but I quickly reminded myself that two wrongs don’t make a right and if you love somebody you CAN make the marriage work.
I am just curious to hear what others have done.
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I divorced my wife about 2 months ago. I had no choice she was stuck to her new man. It was veeery hard to do I even cried at the attorneys when she asked to see a family pic. I was a good hubby and all my friends where shocked. I feel that it is a case of thinking grass is greener for her. My friends think she might try and come back when her fling is over. Now for the part that will piss off most of you. I still Love her and I believe that everybody deserves a second chance. We where highschool sweethearts and together for 15 years. We have two boys 7 & 9 which took it very hard but I am with them most of the time and they are doing great now. It seems that more guys return than women after an affair is this correct? Might she come back? thanks for your time.
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I Hand a Pokemon holding it and i accidentally used fling and lost it how do i get it back?
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i was with this girl i courted her and she answered to me. we last for about 2 months. after that she gave me a tons of reasons and broke up. i finally learned that she just broke up with her ex-boyfriend when I courted her, and she said that i am only a fling and she is not considering me as a boyfriend? i am so pissed off! what things i can do to recover?
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Ok so I got together with my boyfriend 3 months ago. We only dated twice before getting officially together. My reasons for going out with him might seem wrong to some (I was going through a depression state in my life and desperately wanted a companion). But regardless of this, I learned to like him and care for him deeply (still questioning if I love him though..might be too early to tell). This guy saved me at the deepest point of my life and he made me happy. He accepted all my faults and made me feel better all the time. Everything is going right with him. So here comes the ex girlfriend..
They have been together for almost 3 years. After two year together, she broke up with him and got together with another man. When the guy dumped her, she came running back to her and he took her back. However, things are not the way it used to. He tried to love her again but his feeling changed for her. And so he broke it off with her because according to him "its not fair for her that she love his and he cant love her the same way." Two weeks after they broke up, we started dating and got together with him quickly after.
Some may say that he used me to get over his ex or that I was just a rebound. My other friend said that he might just want a fling before he leaves for the navy in 3 months. Regardless, I believe and trust him though.
So his ex girlfriend still keep bugging him and calling and texting him. He tried to ignore it but she uses other numbers that he know so he cant really ignore it. On her friend’s birthday, he got invited and dared by the birthday girl to kiss his ex and he did. He told me this right after and it made me upset. But i forgave and appreciated his honesty.
So Im not really sure if I really like him or I jsut want his friendship or company. HAving his ex wanting him so much makes me not want to ever let him go. I do know that I care for him very much though. We broke up 3 days before he left for his navy bootcamp but talked it over the next day. We decided to have a cooling off period and decide on things again when he comes back.
His ex girlfriend, of course, rejoiced that we broke up and got her hope up again. She visited him before he left and told him that she’ll wait when he comes back to see what he decide on…if he still wants them to be together..he gave her a quick kiss and said their goodbyes…
This made me upset of course. But I know that I was the last person he called before landing the plane and before it took off..and the first person he called when the plane landed and tha last person he talked to before he got his phone taken away. and last person he texted to say I love you..
So should I wait for him until he comes back in two months or should use this time to try to get over him.
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