My bf decided its ok if he goes out to the club and lie to me and treat me like shit but if I even speak of any other guy other than him he FLIPS out. I broke up with him and I wanted to know wat can I do to piss him off? Everytime he gets drunk he text me and exspects me to just jump right to him. But i havent. So how can I get back at him?
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Sick of missing your ex? Dying to get them back? Here are 5 tips to make your ex want you back again.
Break ups are not easy for anyone, but it is a misconception to think that everything is lost, just because your ex is stubborn and will not talk or see you. It is well known that emotions are high right after a break up, and most people are not in the best position to make any rational decision at this point.
This is especially true for you if you’ve just been dumped and desperately want your ex back. Right now you are more prone to panic and do something less than attractive in front of your ex. See why your ex has had time to prepare to break up longer than you are because they have been doing it in their minds for weeks or months now, so they are ‘waiting’ the worst.
So here are 5 tips to remember to make your ex want you back again.
# 1 Give your ex some space and use this time to settle your own feelings. In a way this post dump preparation phase.
# 2 Change your thinking. You may think your ex has dumped you, so you now have to ‘dump’ them to flip your roles, at least in your head. This is important if you want to gain any advantage over your ex. You do not want to be constantly trying to “catch up” by chasing after them.
# 3 Do not allow yourself to fill more than your ex, while holding minimal contact. Spying or trying to get dirt from friends and family will only set you back, and if word get back to your ex who know exactly what message it will give your ex. It is best to lay low.
# 4 Understand how the relationship went wrong and whether you still really want it back. Remember by not dealing with the issues that broke up the relationship in the first place, you will be asked about problems again if the relationship was resumed.
# 5 If you choose to stay friends or can not be a constant battle with himself. It is best to ignore the “friends” period as quickly as possible so your ex know for certain it is not friendship you want. You have to make this clear from the get go, and do not fall into the trap to be your ex’s doormat.
Feel like you’re about to die and all this seems impossible? It is not impossible if you’re in the right mindset and have the right tools to help you.
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