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My ex-girlfriend, who before I asked her out, we would have on and off relationships since 9th grade and I have had a crush on her since 7th grade.

Well she’s a sophmore in college and I’m a freshman we were going out since September and broke up in December and it was really stupid, because I can’t remember the reason, but it wasn’t serious like cheating, deception, abuse or anything.

Well now I haven’t seen her since January because we exchanged our gifts and now I have a class with her twice a week at college but it is HUGE like 150 people big lecture hall, how can I approach her easily because it’s a mad bum rush to get a seat.

I still have feelings for her but I kind of played the dick and said “That’s fine” when she called before we broke up saying if I dont respect her and I dont seem like I care about her feelings then she’ll leave me, soooo wanna help

How Do I Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back?

Ways to get her back and don’t give me the “get over her” answer because I have had other relationships with girls my junior and senior years but there’s just a great understanding I feel with this girl..

Thanks

Oh yea it’s hard to get a seat next to her because it’s a mad bum rush to get a seat in the class, exactley like the begginings of Enemy at the Gates and Saving Private Ryan
Good insight Bob S

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me and my bf just broke up 2 days ago, but we said that we might go out later.. when school starts or later on
(we’re freshman in high school)

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I can’t believe im actually doing this… im usually the one giving advice to for relationships! i wish i could take my own advice. Okay so here it goes…

I dated this guy Ryan for a total of 6 months, we’re in high school im a sophomore and he’s a freshman at a different school that im at (it sounds stupid, but he’s only a month younger than me and he got held back because his parents wanted him to be the oldest for his baseball team) and we met one night at my friends neighborhood, and that night we ended up hooking up… but literally it was like ‘love’ at first sight, the 1st time i met him i knew i’d fall for him quickly, at the end of the night we got each others phone numbers and we text-ed all night-literally. Then the next night came and we hung out, we again hooked up, and then he told me he actually really likes me and wants to continue things with me and sooner or later we could try dating.

We kept hanging out for a month or two and he finally asked me to be his girlfriend. The first 2 1/2 months were perfect! His family loved me, my family loved him, and we fell in love so fast. We never got into fights, we were exactly the same, we never disagreed about anything, we were the perfect couple.

Summer came and then everything started getting harder- two months without each other. I would go to Florida all summer, and he went to New Jersey all summer. We started fighting because we didn’t see each other and i didn’t like the fact his ex girlfriend was on the trip with them (his ex’s best friend is Ryan’s best friend and her whole family is best friends with his whole family) and i absolutely hated that. So fighting a lot

We came back from summer and we were okay, but we weren’t the perfect couple anymore. The 1st day of school i went to one of my classes and this guy Cody that i used to like sat right behind me (Cody and I always liked each other since freshman year) so that day he texted me after school and we began talking again. Freshman year every time we’d start to like each other something would come up- id get a boyfriend, he was grounded, he’d get a girl friend, i was mad at him. We started to talk a lot, and me and Ryan were fighting A LOT so Cody helped me with every fight and told me he was there for me

Pretty much: Me and Ryan began fighting, he went to the Junior League National Championships for baseball, while he was there we decided to take a break since we were fighting so much. We agreed we could hook up with other people, but in 2 weeks we’d get back together. Cody and i were still talking, me and him hooked up, Ryan found out and got really mad, me and Ryan got back together, continued to fight, i still continued to talk to Cody all the time… and finally me and Ryan broke up

After we broke up we still continued to talk all the time, barely anything seemed different. All of his friend then started to hate me because we broke up. 2 weeks later me and Cody start to talk a lot lot lot more. We started to have a ‘thing’ and we were pretty much dating just without the title of boyfriend and girlfriend. I still talked to Ryan, until he found out that me and Cody did … (i think you can know what im saying) and that was it, Ryan was so mad.

Me and Cody ended after like two months … something around that. I still loved Ryan and thats the reason why i couldn’t fall for Cody. Me and ryan were still talking but just friends… I wanted him back so badly … so thats what i tried for… i did everything humanly possible to get him back, he just said he couldn’t let himself take me back because of what i did. He said he loved me still but he just couldn’t take the chance of getting his heart wrecked to pieces like that again.

Its been 5 months since we broke up. And i still love him. We haven’t talked for 2 months (because i got in a fight with my best friend O’Connor who is 20 and i called him a creep for wanting to hook up with me and him being friends with Ryan since he’s a freshman) because he got mad at me for that fight, last thing he said to me was like "whatever i don’t care who your friends with, i don’t care about you, you’re just a waste of my time" or something like that. But i can’t get over him… What do i do? Should i just give up, should i wait a little longer to see, what do i do? Its not simple because 1. Different schools 2. His family and friends hate me 3. We haven’t talked in so long. Is there something still there between us or should i just give up. Please help me

P.S sorry this was so long.

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me and this girl i met at college had a thing for two months. but then we started fighting so she said we wouldnt talk the rest of the semester. so, to get over her i had sex with another girl when i was really drunk one night. the following weekend she came to me and told me im the last thing she thinks about before she sleeps and that she really likes me. she also told me that she was coming down the week before to tell me she wanted to be with me but didnt bc she heard me in the room with the other girl, but after what i did she doesnt trust me. she spent that night with me but we didnt have sex and we never have bc she’s not that kind of girl in my eyes.

to make it up to her i sent her flowers for xmas. before this we were talking on the phone for 2-3 hrs each night before sleeping. but after i sent the flowers i didnt get a thank you or anything. i had to see what was up. two days ago i called her and asked her what the deal was. she said that she told we were just friends and i didnt have to do that for her and she feels nervous talking to me because if she does she feels like i get the wrong impression. then i told her how i thought before that she didnt want to be with me bc she didnt trust me and she agreed.

did she not say thank you because she feels that if she does it will go further and into a possible relationship but she’s afraid or did she lose feelings for me?

we both live in states 900 miles away so i cant see her in person. we are on break for college. I’ll see her next weekend though. She also told me that she was never expecting me to send flowers and she was shocked when she got them.

after not talking to her for two nights, i called her at 1am and she sent the call to voicemail after the second ring. she’s never done that before.

im 19 and she is 18. both freshman in college and we live in the same dorm, so i see her just about everyday.
Just to clarify. We both go to the same university however we are on Xmas break and I’ll see her next week when school starts again. For now, we are back home in states that are 900 miles away.

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so i’m a junior in highschool, and my ex girlfriend is a freshman in high school. we go to the same school, and she broke up with me about 3 months ago. we talked just alittle after the break up, but i haven’t really made any contact with her for about a month. i still feel like there is something there, and people in my school are always breaking up and getting back together, mainly because the girls can’t stand being alone. i want to explore, and ive talked to other girls, but can’t i save that for college?? she broke up with me, so you’d think she’d come back, but she’s a different type. we think alike, so i believe she feels the same as i do. she wants to be with me, but she doesn’t want to be the one to "give in". i just want her back, and i want to know a good, effective way to get her back with me. i really do love her, and there is no one else to date to get my mind off. any ideas???

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I’ve been with him for 5 months now- he’s turning 18[senior] this month and I’m just 15 [freshman].
Basically he started ignoring me and ignoring my calls last month
and when I decide to ask him, he said it’s because its "disturbing" having a gf in high school. He gave me false hope of us being able to be together, so I want to hurt him.

My friend asked him what happen to us and he said he NEVER CARED ABOUT ME- I was just an "object" to him. aka his make out and "touching" buddy.

I want to hurt his pride because he’s very prideful and he thinks he’s so popular- but he isn’t. What should I do? Any ideas?

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we’ve been togetther for 6 months but on the day before our 7 months he brok up with me. im a senior in high school, hes a freshman in college, our houses are 10 minutes away by car. he stays at home and goes to community college. and we see each other on the weekends. he broke up with me because he is stressed out from the distance and college and gf.

he says he wants to be friends but now im commited to coming over to his house more often than wen i was his gf.. i want him back and i know that because wen i was talking to him today, he still had some feelings for me that he was trying to hold in/back.

how do i get him back with out looking so desperate or easy?
lik i how do i talk to him so that he wants me?, i want him to want me back but how before its tolate and his feelings for me all together are gone… i dont want to look soo pushy and push him away, or be so in his face and force it on him so how can i get him back?? before its too late and his feelings are all gone..,

and since im not his gf anymore, he says he wants to be freinds, so i cant just grab his hand or try to kiss him cus then that would be to pusshy

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I am 18 and so is my girlfriend. I’ll be a freshman this year at a college in town and she is a senior in high school. We have been dating for almost 3 years and towards the end of the summer our intense fights were starting to get the best of us so she decides maybe we should take a break. I didn’t see the good in this choice but there wasn’t anything I could really do about it. The reason for her needing space is because our relationship has been stressful lately and she is always working or doing things with school and just didn’t need our stress. I know people think there is another guy or something but I can assure you there isn’t. She says she loves me very much and knows we will get back together and it will be ok. We have been apart for a little over a month now and within the past couple weeks we have started talking a lot again. We have even hung out a couple times just as friends, and its been great because I feel like we have been getting to know each other all over again. Well, a couple days ago we hung out and I was about ready to leave and she hugs me and then she kisses me. Of course I don’t really stop it because its not what I truly want. I end up staying for another hour in her room. We kiss heavily and all those kinds of things, and she starts crying and tells me how much she misses me and needs me and loves me. It felt as though we were dating and everything was just perfect. But she still says..we cant get back together yet, I love you so much but we cant..Im sorry for making things even harder. You know I understand her reasons for being alone and I can accept that, but how things have gone lately I feel as though she is just being selfish now. Its not fair to me to be on a roller coaster with my feelings and just having to wait around. Im not really implying the she is out having the time of her life and im crying at home, its not like that at all. I just dint get how we love each other but cant date yet? I truly believe her and everything, but I have been in this situation before and I fear the same thing will happen to me again. Based off what I have said what do you feel is going on?

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