FIRST of all, thank you for reading all of this. I really appreciate it! :D

Just so you know, we are both Freshman in high school. I know, nothing should be serious at my age. I understand that. I just miss her, I don’t want to be alone, she is a great person. She is the best person for me right now. I don’t want to be single, because all the other girls that are pretty at my school are sluts or are really stupid, and I don’t want to date anyone at any other schools. I just want her. She showed me how much fun it is to have a couple.

I used to be a big flirt like her, and i refused to date anyone. Now that she finally got me to ask her out, after much hard work on her part, I love to have a girlfriend (or her as it). She used to be obsessed with me, and now it is all gone. If she felt like that before, can’t she feel like that again?

Anyway, My ex-girlfriend and I have been broken up for four months now. She broke up with me because we went through some rough patches, I lost interest, said that I was about to break-up with her, then went on vacation and missed her and changed my mind, but then she turned around and dumped me. I never wanted to hang out, talk on the phone, or text. I was a really bad boyfriend at the time. But I learned from my mistakes. And she knows that now. I have proved it to her.

The only thing is, another guy came in the picture. She went to winter formal with him (I went to homecoming with her, and that was the night I asked her out). Now he is attached to her. He is a lost puppy that follows her around anytime she goes to her locker. He has lost his life, it revolves around her. Of course, she liked it at first, because it was the attention that I never gave her. But now it’s both me and him giving her the attention.

Also, they are not together, and never have been. She tells him that she does not want a relationship right now and wants to be single (she also says that to me). She likes being able to flirt with any guy that shows her attention. She doesn’t want to restrict herself to only one guy. Anyway, he tries to call her a lot, too, and they talk on the phone. That really bothers me.

I’ve changed so much, in a good way. I mean, I changed all my BAD habits like not calling or texting, and ignoring..and not appreciating..and not noticing. She finally believes me that I am going to be better this time. I did every trick in the book to try and get her back, hah. I asked 50 questions on here, read 5 e-books, and did research on the web on how to get my ex back, and how to attract women. Haha, yeah I’m pathetic, but it will come to use again later in my life when I’m in the real world.

So yeah, she’s decided she wants to try and make things better between us now. She want to try and get us to work again. But HE is in the way. She is a nice person, and she doesn’t want to crush him and break his heart, because he is literally obsessed with her. She has try letting him off slowly and easily, but he just lets it blow by him. And he keeps on following her and talking to her like nothing is happening. It’s so frustrating for the both of us. She still likes him a little, though..

Although, I think she is lying to me. Maybe she just doesn’t want to hurt MY feelings. Maybe she just doesn’t like me anymore, even though she flirts with me and dirty texts me.

She and him are not going out. Her and I are not going out. Everyone is single. She says she wants to stay single and have fun, without being tied down.

Anyway, what could she do? What could I do?
How can I get "us" to work again?

I KNOW that it would be a way better relationship this time if she just gave it a chance.

Also, could there be a possibility that she actually just doesn’t like me anymore, and is just playing me because it makes her feel good?
She made a deal with her best "guy" friend the other day. It was that she had to choose the other guy, me, or her single life. That day she told him that she likes the other guy and that she is over me.
The stupid thing is, she is still calling me "babe", she is still calling me up randomly to say that she misses me, and she is still getting angry with the little things I do. I don’t believe she is over me, but she might be.

>>>>>How do I get her back? …If not that, How do I move on from her?

Thank you for reading all of this :) I feel that I need to give detail in order to receive good advice.

BTW, I actually prefer long answers (unlike other people on here) if you don’t mind. Don’t be afraid to say everything on your mind.



Related Information:

Ok, so a couple months back I started talking to this guy who is a junior in high school (I am a freshman). We kissed and everything and we really liked each other, but two weeks later he ended things because of the age difference. We don’t talk that often anymore but i miss him so much..how do I get another shot with him?


Related Information:

I’m having a bit of a crisis here.
My ex-boyfriend and I have been broken up for about a year. We used to HATE each other because we broke up in a very nasty way. We went out for 6 solid months and we were each-other’s first real boyfriend and girlfriend.
*the break up*
My mom did not like him and forced me to break up with him and I was upset and sad for months. To get me back, he decides to go out with girls he knew I hated. It hurt me so badly to see him be affectionate to the girls I hated. He didn’t even like them, he just wanted me back. Instead of drawing me closer to him it pushed me away. I didn’t want anything to do with him.

*In between the year*
We talked rarely to each other and if we saw each other at school we would turn the other way. One day he goes out with this innocent, clueless little freshman. (He and I are both Juniors) and She doesn’t know how mean he can be. I warn her and say "I just want the best for you! I think you deserve better because he can be very mean sometimes and you are a sweet girl." Sweet girl my foot. She told him and he cursed me out and sent me nasty text messages for a week.
After they broke up a week later, he calls to apologize and leaves a very long message saying how sorry he was and how he was just hurt because he really cares for me. (Forgot to mention above, he goes to a different school now and we don’t really see each other that often.)

6 months later, he calls me again out of the blue. Says he thinks of me all the time and how things used to be when we went out. We talked for hours and we were back to the way things used to be. A few weeks later we are talking for hours and hours and he wants to get back together with me. I say yes because I really do care for him and he was my first love and I still have feelings for him. A few weeks later after seeing each other numerous times, he pops the question. "Kim, will you marry me?" I am speechless. I really don’t know what to say. I haven’t told him my answer yet and I just have no clue what to do.

My friends are against the idea of him and I completely. They hate him and they want him as far away as possible. My parents…they don’t know about "us" yet. They hate him too. Anyone who hurts me is evil to my friends and family.

I want and desperately need an opinion of what you think I should do. Thank you very much!


Related Information:

She "doesn’t want a relationship right now"
She "wants to be single"

I want her back. I have done so much to change my bad habits of bad communication and laziness.

I have way more and better traits than this other guy, she has told me. Plus, this other guy follows her around, I do not. I just try to get her back.

We are freshman in high school.


Related Information:

How to get my ex boyfriend back?

Help!

So I am 14 and im going to be a freshman. My best friends cousin is now my ex boyfriend. I still am in complte love with him.

We went out for almost a year on and off. He is now rude to me and tells me he wouldnt care if i died, he’s so immature but I just can’t get over him.

I have tryed everything,  I read quo0tes, I have been ignoring him for a week so far (playing hard to get, basiclly so he would miss me)

He called me today but I dont know why, I textd him and asked why but he never texted back.

I really miss him.

How can I get him back or even get over him( he may have called cause me and his friend who is a girl got into a tiny quarrel last night)

Please I know this is long but I need help!


Related Information: