Alright so one of my best friends and I went to our freshmen homecoming and it just led into one of the best relashionships I’ve ever had. We went out for 5 months and it ended really abruptly, and left me crushed. She never really wanted to talk to me and just a couple days ago I sent her a message telling her how I felt:
Theres one thing i want to ask of you and thats a second chance. Things ended out of nowhere and just left me wondering, like, what happened. I’ve tried to move on, and I think I would be able to if I could know that we didn’t belong together but I know thats not true, right now at least. I’ve been laying in bed trying to get to sleep and this is all I can think about and if I try to forget memories come back stronger. I can just feel your arms around me sometimes like were back at the park the night of our first kiss and just things like that.
So this is the reply i got:
well….this is kind of difficult because that night that you and geoff came over screwed up my life. im not aloud to date until junior year and im still not alowed to hang out with friends i can only get on the comp one time a week unless for homework purposes. basically my life is living hell right now because i cant really talk to anyone and all this would make it like impossible to have a relationship for one and two i dont want to get into anymore trouble for a while… Sorry its just not easy with all that is going on right now…maybe when my parents possibly trust me maybe ill give you a second chance but idk how long from now that will be.
In case your wondering what the reference is, its was me and my friend snuck over to her house and her mom caught us and she got in trouble. So my question is if she genuinely wants to get back with me or if she is just trying to be nice?
Hey guys my bad, meant to put this in singles and dating
. We both decided to break up because he was under stress at home and school and i understood where he was coming from and i made it easier on him to just agree to break up. We were both each others first boyfriend and girlfriend and freshmen in high school. I really did love him but today he confessed that the only reason that he said i love you was because it was in the moment and he said the only people he would ever love is his family and i didnt really take it personally and i understood as well. he also said that we [the relationship] were going to end someday. He got to a point we he talked about home and how he said he was an a**hole to his family and how his mom think he hates her and i was just there trying to make him feel better. Him and his dad wants to move to Wisconsin where his dad side of the family is and i hate that and he told me if he was then he was going to miss me he also wants to go to the Navy when we graduate which i also hate to. Before we started to talk about this he came over today and we just hang out and i guess he just felt like it was wrong leading me on and he told me and that just made me have more respect for him. I am going to miss him and thats what makes me sad and want to cry. Im going to miss texting him, waiting for him after school and hanging out whatever we can and the memories we had. Im not mad at him for breaking up with me on Valentines Day and no matter what i will always love him and will have a special place in my heart for him. We dont have any classes and when we were dating we didnt see each other in the halls unless you wait for a while. So i guess thats good and he told me before we left that can we be friends and not ignore each other in the halls. i said yes and we hugged goodbye. Our relationship started with a hug and ended in a hug. I know he feels bad but i said dont worry about me im okay but the truth is that i was crying a river inside. Im not going to date anymore because i dont feel that there anyone in hs for me. the reason besides him being stressed was that he wasnt ready i guess..he said he wanted to wait because we did move fast and got into some what in a physical relationship. i deleted all the messages from him except his number. i do believe everything happens for a reason and i dont regret dating him or the things we have done. in 10 days we would’ve been dating for 4 months. Again i did love him very much and i guess i will always love him and if he doesnt move to Wisconsin then we still have 3 years old high school left.. and maybe down the road whatever life takes us i hope we can try again. Can anyone else help me get over him or any adivce?
