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I’ve been trying to apologize to this kid Chris Lowe, but he just blows me off every chance I get. He won’t listen to reason. I want to bring things back to the way they were before we fought. So what is your advice?

Please be understanding and show some sympathy?

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I broke up with him around this time last year. We had been going out for 2 in a half years and I spontaneously decided to end it all because at that point in my life I didn’t want to be attached. I was 18 years old and starting college, a new job, and viewed my ex as un ambitious. All he would ever do is want to stay home and be with me, never really going out to hang with friends, and feeling down on himself for having the job he had. He was a wonderful artist and I tried to be a supportive and encouraging girlfriend by telling him to pursue a career in the field. Yet lack of funds was the reason he said he couldn’t live out his dream. I tried accepting this but found that I might be growing out of him. I also wanted to experience other relationships since he had been my first, and though I loved him I found myself growing more detached. Spending less and less time with him even though he kept reaching out. I broke his heart and he eventually gave me back everything that was ours to cope with the break up, cutting me out completely. At that time this didn’t faze me. He came to my door step with the box and I could care less. I felt relieved, or so I thought. We didn’t talk much for 8 months, maybe passing one another since my little brother and he were such great pals and didn’t let our break up end their friendship. Eventually after working and going to school nonstop, boys being the last thing on my mind the summer hits. I find myself infatuated like I once was with my ex on a new guy. He’s a graphic designer and aspiring filmmaker, extremely driven and confident. All I can do is think about him. He seems to me to be the next best thing. Eventually we hang out (not an official date I had no idea what his intentions were, he was very hard to read) with a few of his friends and I find him to be the most obnoxious individual. He practically ignored me the whole time while being an entertainer to his audience; he thrived off of the attention I could tell. One of two questions I can remember being:

"What do you want to do with your life?"

This was such a turn off; a mutual feeling I later find out. He thought I was too quiet and smelled of tuna! I hate tuna. We go on to not talk for two months, and yet even then I didn’t think of my ex. Eventually The new guy starts to talk to me again and even though I was so disgusted by his previous behavior I still find myself immensely sexually attracted to him. That’s all I wanted from him. Funny thing is he was looking for a girlfriend and found a way of convincing me to be with him otherwise. I figured ok I like this guy why not give it a shot? From then on it has been a rollercoaster. Nothing like when I was with my ex. One day this blokes happy with me the next he’s unsure about our relationship. So eventually I end up feeling lonely within my own relationship because I don’t feel good about it. Where did all my confidence go? Sure I may have felt inhibited because he’d ask me "why are you so shy?" "I wish you’d contribute more to the conversation." I have never felt so much pressure in a relationship. Like if I don’t please, I can be dropped at any given time. So for the time being I had been unhappy, yet the messing around was great. What a trade off, not worth it at all when I look at it, but within the moment it’s a whole other game. All I could think about was how to sort the issues in my head over this relationship in a mature manner. Work out all the small things and focused on what we have that’s great. All I could think of was our similar tastes in music, movies, and fooling around. Sure we had conversations but for the most part they were short and the fooling around was to the point not long after. Than he’d tell me I got to get back to story boarding birdbrain. I’d be there reading a book instead of getting to know anything about him. My excuse was that he’s really trying to get this short film done before Sundance, don’t worry about it. And eventually things did turn around with a few hiccups, but on a trip back from Ohio I found out that my ex was going out with a new girl and the last thing that has been on my mind for the past month isn’t my new boyfriend. My brother disclosed to me some information that my ex was going out with a girl that we formerly couldn’t stand. When we were together we would actually make fun of her amongst ourselves. She was just such a typical high school girl. Going out to parties all the time, drinking, taking in controlled substances, bisexual one minute, straight the next. She was a total nut. Now he is with her. I really needed someone to talk too when hearing all this. So I wrote an email to a mutual friend of ours who still hung out with him. And I explained everything to her. It than finally hit me that he had moved on. Though I was in my own relationship (not much of one actually) I still had this terrible pain in my stomach thinking that he’s with her of all people. I didn’t care if she told anybody (we we

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i was in a happy relationship for about a month when my hormones took over and i made the worst mistake of my life – sleeping with my girlfriend’s best friend.

we obviously broke up, but i want to know if there is a way to recover from this. all her friends basically tell me to lay down and die, and most of my friends hate my guts too. sometimes she talks like there is nothing wrong, other times, she really concerns me.

i know what i did is almost unforgivable, and she has every reason to never want to see me again, but i realize the mistake i made and want to try to heal our friendship.

serious answers please

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This guy has been a really good friend to me for the past year or so and I can tell him anything. But for the past six months he’s been in college over 6 hours away and all he wants is a relationship with me… I think he’s a great guy but I won’t be in a long-distance relationship… plus I just don’t feel that way towards him. But he doesn’t seem to take no for an answer and I hate hurting him especially after all he’s done for me. But he continues to tell me how he is in love with me and I don’t know what to do. … Any ideas?

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Okay, so me and my girlfriend are split up. she wants us to get our friendship back before we get back together because thats what brought us together in the first place, but the thing is she still loves me and i still love her. I been reading all this stuff online and it says that i need to play a little hard and live life to get her curious about me to the point of coming back. So i did it and it does work, she started asking who I am chilling with, did I meet anyone new, and where I am going. But now I feel as if I am playing a little TOO hard to get. I listen to everything she says but I keep the time short and I would say something polite like..How about you call me later because I’m kind of busy right now, cool? But now it seems like she is getting a little upset at the fact that I am busy all the time. When is playing too hard to get? And my ex is the nervous type so she will probably wait for me to ask her back out. We have been apart for about 2 weeks now. So what should I do???? When is the perfect time to ask her out again??

And please no negative answers like "just forget it" and stuff ..we still want to be together so I am looking for advice on how to make my next move..Thanks in advance!!

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I was in love with my best friend for almost a year, the only reason i got over her was because she has a boyfriend of 3 years. And i didn’t want to ruin our amazing friendship. We went through alot this past year with me being in love but it worked out for good. I still cant help but realize how PERFECT we are, we are so similar in so many ways and are perfect together. I am so much more compatible with her than her boyfriend which is kinda weird. I am over her but could easily fall in love with her again i just dont let myself… Deep in my mind i think somehow someday we will end up together. Will we ever end up together?

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I dumped him back in may and now I miss being with him. How should I get him back? He is currently single and is extremely shy. Even after our break up we are still extremely good friends. His friends say that he has never lost feelings for me but just hides them away so our friendship can continue. I am not sure if I should believe his friends cause half the time they lie to me and the other half they don’t. What would you do if you were in my position? How would you get your shy man back?

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My Girlfriend & I have been together for almost a year now & things were (up until recently) going really great. Just yesterday when we had been spending some quality time together, she tells me that she loves me, but she does not want to get into a serious relationship anymore (I understand where she’s coming from because she’s a free-spirited, fun-loving person that can’t be tied down to commitments & I for one will never keep her like a prisoner or some sort of prize. I also know that she’s been through relationships before that really changed her mindset about taking that route or ever finding that perfect love – a guy who will appreciate her & love her for who she is – ever again).

She then says to me that she would only be wasting my time & end up hurting me, so it’s best that we remain good friends. I don’t know if she’s doing this just to protect me, but I don’t believe that she would be wasting my time (as she put it). I realize that maybe she just needed space to think for a while (especially with the stress she had during the past week), but I love her with all of my heart & soul. I have mentioned to her that if ever she needed anything, I will be there for her (& I have done so already, never expecting anything in return because just being able to be there for her makes me happy – she appreciates that & it only makes her love me even more).

I don’t know why she’s changed her mind about us (because I know I haven’t done anything wrong & I know she isn’t anyone else), but it’s not going to change the way I feel about her & it’s not going to stop me from caring. I love her, but I don’t want to lose her.

Is this all it’s ever going to be? Are we nothing more than friends?
I made that mistake once before (& I nearly lost her), I promise that I will do whatever it takes to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

Yes, I AM prepared to wait for her & I know that she needs a little space to breathe, especially after what she’s been through last week (I have thought about everything & I know what I want. I love & adore her & I will be here for her no matter what).

What can I do or say to reassure her of this?
I know that I shouldn’t be asking for too much & I don’t mind our relationship being open-ended with no pressure, no expectations & not being tied down or feeling like a prisoner. I just don’t want to lose her by messing up, that’s all.

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The girl I love is dating another guy. We started off dating, then stopped for a stupid reason — at least it was stupid to me — but we became really great friends (though we were always a little more than friends) and eventually I fell in love with her. I believe without a doubt that, if such a thing exists, she’s my soulmate, and she’s admitted as much to me. I never understood why she didn’t want to pursue a serious relationship with me if she felt that way, but she just felt that we wouldn’t work out. Anyway, when I found out she was dating this other guy I kind of lost it. I felt really hurt, a little jealous, and very confused. She wanted to remain friends with me, but I told her we couldn’t. I moved about 2 weeks after we had that conversation, but I decided to make up with her before I left. I asked her to get a drink with me, told her that maybe it would be easier to be friends since I was moving, and we kind of left it at that.

That was over 2 months ago and we haven’t spoken since. I think she’s waiting for me to make the first contact, since that would basically mean that I’m okay with being friends (hope that makes sense). Well I’m not okay with just being friends. I want more, and there’s no doubt in my mind that we could make things work. Admittedly, being in a different town does make it somewhat easier to be friends (since there’s not really a way for us to date right now), but it doesn’t change my feelings for her.

I’ve been going back and forth over what I’m going to do. I know what I want — us to be together — but that’s not really an option right now. BUT I don’t want her to think that I’m okay with being friends. I don’t think that’s fair to her, especially since we’ve already been through a ‘friendship breakup’ a few months ago.
I’ve been writing a letter that basically tells her exactly how I feel and that I want us to be together. It’s a pretty good letter if I may say so myself. The letter really leaves only two options: either she comes running to me or I never hear from her again. My other option is calling/texting her and being her friend and just hope that things could work out from there.

She’s told me that she wants me in her life for as long as we’re alive, so I know she’d love hearing from me. But I don’t want to hurt her by leaving her again if things don’t work out like I hope they would. I don’t mind having my heart broken again, so either option is okay with me. The thought of never hearing from her again scares me, but I want more than just being her friend.

Hope this made sense. Any advice will be appreciated.

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My wife recently found out that I was having an emotional affair with another woman via my blackberry and we are thinking of divorce after 14 years of seemingly a normal up/down marriage.

When she confronted me with this I initially lied but confessed 5 mins later after a wave guilt

Poor decision making on my part as I met the younger woman through my job. We went to lunch three times and shared "how doing" and "whats going with you?" type of text messages over a 3/4 month period. The lunches were 1 group lunch and two lunches by ourselves.

My wife asked why.. and I gave her a very honest response of the different type of attention that I received from this other woman was something new and unexpected. I just liked the attention from this pretty woman and purposely hid this from my wife as I knew it was somewhat wrong.

I was never physical with this other woman but it doesn’t seem to matter to my wife much.. I feel like a total scumbag..

My wife questions my true intentions and doubts that we were not physical..I would doubt the same. .. I’ve lost her trust and friendship an want to try get it back..

Thoughts or ideas would be appreciated from today’s biggest Loser.

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It has been 20-+ years since I have been friends with my BFF. Some of our most awkard moments in life we went through together. High School would of been embarable without her. However.. here we are 20+ years later and our friendship is dead as ever. Moving thousands of miles away did it but we kept in contact. Her marriage hitting the skids..and being a single mom we managed still.. Her new marriage of a few years and a new baby have pretty much be the causative root of her attn elsewhere. She openly admits that she is too busy to keep in touch ( please save the conclusion of me not being married or without children out of this as it is not true… no jelously here. ) Too busy to keep in touch… means… no calls on my recent wedding, no return emails, no return calls and often when a call is placed she has to go after a minute because family duty calls. ( It was never like this with her 12 year old when she was born.. ) Also the few emails I have gotten are all about the
48 minutes ago – 3 days left to answer.
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her recent child’s birth. I am sad and I sent an email to talk to her about this… and she immediately went defensive. SO I said it was time to say official good bye…. as I felt no need to keep myself around for nothing but disapointments.
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I have been married for 8 months, been with him for 2 and a half years. Our marriage has turned into a legal friendship. I have had 3 serious relationship talks with him in the past 2 months. Here are the problems. One is that he is on Lexapro, has been for over a year. The side effects are that they lose interest in sex. I excepted that at first, but we haven’t had sex since November. I told him to talk to his doctor about another med and he has seen his doctor twice since I said that and he has done nothing about it. The other thing is that he doesn’t want to do anything together anymore. He does not like my friends for whatever reason, doesn’t even try to get to know them. He does not want to go out with me and my friends even though he is invited every time. Even with out friends, he does not want to do anything. I go out, but I feel like I am married living a celibate singles life. The first talk I had with him, I was nice, trying not to hurt his feelings, I just said we need to do more things together, there are things we can do that don’t cost money, even play a game of cards or something at home. He said he understood and everything was fine, but then he did nothing to change. The second time I talked to him, I was a little more blunt, I told him that I feel that we are friends who kiss once in awhile and he agreed that he thinks we have turned into roommates. I suggested marriage counseling so that our marriage won’t get worse, and he seemed ok with it. Still, he has done nothing to change. The third time I talked to him, I didn’t hold anything back.
I told him how I feel lonely, how I feel like I have one life with him in our house and then another life with me out in the rest of the world. I told him that I feel like we lost it, he doesn’t feel that way. He feels things are fine. I told him that he feels things are ok, me here at the house cleaning and cooking dinner and that he has me to come home to. I feel that something is wrong, that I want to get back the passion we once had. He really had nothing to say to me when I was talking, he felt bad because he started to cry, but that was it. Still, no changes! My mom and my friend say that I might have to be the one to say let’s go do this or that, be the one to hook up with a counselor, basically be the one who carries this marriage. I don’t want to have to do that ALL the time. I want him to show some input, show that he cares. When we were first together, things were great. Then he went on that med and our sex life went to hell, and then after marriage, he just totally changed. I know that he loves me to death, he is never mean to me, but it feels like he is content with what we have now, we don’t even hold each other anymore. What else is there for me to do? Should I mentally have a time frame to give him before I say that’s it?
As of now, I don’t see myself leaving him, but I need to feel wanted, ya know? Any suggestions, thanks so much!
I am not ready to give up on the marriage, as the question is, what else can I do to save it and that I don’t see myself leaving him right now. I am in my late 30’s by the way and I know what marriage is.

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I dated my ex for 2 months and slept with each other after a month of dating. He was my first(I was 21), now I’m 22 and I wanted to do it and get it over with and I was really attracted to him and we knew each other for 4 months until I decided to sleep with him. We had a lot of complications during our relationship, I would usually dump him after he does something I don’t like and he would talk me out of it or ask me to take him back. I said things to him I shouldn’t have and he broke it off. After a month of broken up, we started talking again as friends. At first he tried the typical booty call and I yelled at him. I said I will never give in to what you want and until you get that to your head then we can have a platonic relationship. After I said that to him we’ve hanged out and it got to his head that i’ll never be his booty call, we went hiking on Vday (he asked me) and asked me to go to a beach party this past weekend, but I couldn’t go. Now I miss being with him. I would never have sex with anyone unless were emotionally attached. I still have feelings for him, but I’m trying this friendship thing with him and I don’t want to ruin it. I guess deep down I want him to make the first move, it seems like he still likes me. I’m pushing it to him that we’re just friends now, so it doesn’t look like i’m longing for him desperately and being clingy. He was the only I had sex with. Should I just tell him how i feel or wouldn’t that push him away?

I don’t know if he still likes me, i think he does. I was looking at his past mood and status on myspace. I saw after I talked to him on the phone (friday night) before we went hiking on Vday that he put "<3" "I’m out of it". During the whole conversation, he would flirt with me and he would stare at me when we went hiking.

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It has been 20-+ years since I have been friends with my BFF. Some of our most awkard moments in life we went through together. High School would of been embarable without her. However.. here we are 20+ years later and our friendship is dead as ever. Moving thousands of miles away did it but we kept in contact. Her marriage hitting the skids..and being a single mom we managed still.. Her new marriage of a few years and a new baby have pretty much be the causative root of her attn elsewhere. She openly admits that she is too busy to keep in touch ( please save the conclusion of me not being married or without children out of this as it is not true… no jelously here. ) Too busy to keep in touch… means… no calls on my recent wedding, no return emails, no return calls and often when a call is placed she has to go after a minute because family duty calls. ( It was never like this with her 12 year old when she was born.. ) Also the few emails I have gotten are all about the
5 hours ago – 3 days left to answer.
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her recent child’s birth. I am sad and I sent an email to talk to her about this… and she immediately went defensive. SO I said it was time to say official good bye…. as I felt no need to keep myself around for nothing but disapointments.

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It has been 20-+ years since I have been friends with my BFF. Some of our most awkard moments in life we went through together. High School would of been embarable without her. However.. here we are 20+ years later and our friendship is dead as ever. Moving thousands of miles away did it but we kept in contact. Her marriage hitting the skids..and being a single mom we managed still.. Her new marriage of a few years and a new baby have pretty much be the causative root of her attn elsewhere. She openly admits that she is too busy to keep in touch ( please save the conclusion of me not being married or without children out of this as it is not true… no jelously here. ) Too busy to keep in touch… means… no calls on my recent wedding, no return emails, no return calls and often when a call is placed she has to go after a minute because family duty calls. ( It was never like this with her 12 year old when she was born.. ) Also the few emails I have gotten are all about the
her recent child’s birth. I am sad and I sent an email to talk to her about this… and she immediately went defensive. SO I said it was time to say official good bye…. as I felt no need to keep myself around for nothing but disapointments.

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I have written an email to him.
1) Can you please let me know this email is perfect or do it need modifications ?
2) Should i send this through phone text message, in this case i will be guaranteed to me, it is delivered.
3) Actually he was also supposed to pay me back my power bill that was in my name only. i called him, he did not picked. finally after some days he picked, when i messaged him you are not picking because of non-payment of power bill. then on phone we had an verbal fight, using the abusive language each other.
4) Also in US he is working on some work visa, could this prove some beneficiary to me in small claim suit case.
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Look dude, it is time to paying me back.
I am attaching this in-person testimony as a evidence(joint lease sign agreement). There was a joint security deposit of 250$. A check no – 3006 was send on April-24, 2009 to
…………………………………………………….
It was me who spend 6-7 hours of cleaning, that is why this amount of security deposit came up. I trusted you; you will give address for both of us for refunding of security deposit. But I was wrong.
Money has already destroyed our friendship. it will be best in your interest to return it timely.
Best of Luck.!
NOTE: this email has a notice period of 10 days. Beyond this time, as per my right and evidence, I will be filing in small claim court.

Best Regards,
Johnny,
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The problem here is, i do not have his address. All i know is 1) email address
2) phone number

These are the options available with me.

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I have a facebook page and a younger man requested a friendship I accepted in july of 2009 and we didn’t talk until nov 2009 he was toured to Afghanistan and i would offer prayer and advice to him in Jan 2010 he professed my love to me and I to him and life goes on. today, i was visiting one of his pages and he posted a poem asking some woman to come back home to him. and his mom commented and said that his poem was beautiful and added " I told you about the love of your life. I was floored. Is he asking his ex-girlfriend to come back to him? Did he use me to heal from his ex and only to find that he’s still in love with her, and yes, She has posted on facebook that she still carries him in her heart after him reading her comment he says, lol…Should I step back and allow their relationship to work even after we both have spoken of our love for each other Was it just a poem? Should I ask about the poem? Should I wait to see what happens? i really could use everyone’s opinion. Thanks everyone

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I want a normal friendship with no more drama and fights. He wants romance and for me to sleep with him. He’d put up with me pretending to be in love with him, even. I’ve been giving in a little to keep him alive because I’m scared for him.

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Long story short. My husband can get away with calling his ex wife that he was not in contact with for many years and I was the one that pushed him to contact his (kids) Now his kids are 23 and 21 but when they are not home he is talking to his ex for about 1 hour and calls the next night for another 1/2 hour. He doesn’t tell me when he calls (very seldom) but I know when he does call. I have the right to know I think being married to him for 14 years.
He and I have a good close marriage but he told me she is my friend.
I am so upset and hurt inside that I find when he calls and I have spoke to him about it but he doesn’t seem to cut this back. I understand a father should keep in touch with his kids but I tracked calls from November until now and it has been 15 calls and sometimes for one hour at a time.
My father doesn’t call me or my sister or brother this much maybe once every week or two.
His kids are 23 and 21 and they are out on a friday night so I found he called at 1015pm and spoke to her until 11pm
She is 56 and he is 49 and I wonder why would he do this to me. Is he wanting another friendship ? Is he lacking something with me? They live 5 hours away from us and maybe this is his mid life crisis?
She never remarried so of course I am sure likes speaking to him but how much can they speak about and about what.
They were only married for 5 years and during those years he was away for 2 years and then left her in 1990 ( not for me)
I am truly hurt over this and don’t know what I should think?
My mom said they have a past and history together. They have kids. I can understand if the kids were older but 23 and 21 … he can call once every week or two but not 1 hour on xmas the next night at 10pm for 1/2 hour then on 12/29 and 1/2 for 1 hour … while I was out.
The thing is I never met her and the kids do not want to meet me. He tried over and over to talk to them but they can not accept all these years later that he is not with their mother.
It is driving me nuts because I was the one who told him about 3 years ago get to know his kids & it backfired in my face.
Of course I know he should call his kids but if you saw on the bill how much he calls and your not around and wonder what can be said, what can be spoken about…
My husbands mother is close with her and dislikes and she adds my fire to this whole deal by telling them things.
it truly is taking an effect on me. As much as I tell him it is bothering me, he seems to be ignoring and disrespecting my feelings.
Any advice.

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I am a seventh grader. I have liked this girl for a long time. We have been friends for a long time. Recently I got a haircut and she liked it a lot. I was told she liked me so I asked her out and we went out for a couple of days. She texted me this morning saying that we were too good of friends to be dating. She also said that she was afraid that us dating good ruin our friendship. How can I win her back?

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newyears eve i slept with my ex-boyfriend.
we were together 2 years ago for about 6 months.
lately we rekindled our friendship and have been really close.
new years eve, i had a party.
after his girlfriend (of 7months this month) left my house at 1am
me and him cuddled in my bed and one thing lead to another,
and we ended up having sex.
no one knows.
and now i want him back.
his girlfriend and him were having issues for the past month or so, and she told me that night that she was gonna break up w. him the next day.
she never did.
hes constantly texting me, and calling me
he texts me goodnight, and goodmorning everyday.
so im obviously the 1st and last thing he thinks about every day.
what do i do to get him back?
what do you think hes thinking.
have you ever been in this position?!
hellppp.

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Well, I just broke up with him and he is with someone new. I miss him so much it hurts. he is my best friend and we were together for three years. He says he still wants to be firends, but I don’t know if I can. I want more than a friendship. I want him to want me back! What do I do. He tells me he misses me, but things just got so screwed up between us. I need ways to get him back – I know deep down he’s the one, we just had a bad spell. Help!!

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Here is the story:
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A woman, 23, successful, very good job, decent looking, sweet, smart, well rounded, relatively well-off has never dated before (her problems: a little aggressive, shy, distant).
One day she meets a great guy. There is a spark, they go out for three months.

Her shyness and distance alienated the guy, he was patient for the three months but could not take it anymore. He breaks up.
She regrets her attitude and she tries to get back, but he wants out.

A month has passed by and she still likes him a lot. She wants to give it another chance. She knows that she has so much to offer, and that he would have liked her so much had he shown him the real her, and been herself around him. She just wishes there was a way for him to realize it was just her shyness that lead to her distance, and that in reality, she’s a very different kind hearted person.

Here is the question:
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What should she do? If you were that guy, what would make you get back to her? How about just restoring friendship? If so, how to get back this friendship?

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me and my gf broke up a couple of days ago and she said we can still be friends and hang out every once and a while but i asked her if in the future do you think we could try and go out again she said she doesnt know i told her i still had feelings for her and want to just have a normal friendship and she said we can have a normal friendship but she will not call me much its only been a couple of days after the break up so could that may be the reason she doesn’t have feelings for me at the moment? and the reason we broke up was because she gave me a bj in the car and she told her mom her mom didn’t make us break up it was her dicision and she said she just wants to move on will there be a chance in the future that she will love me again? and i think she might be confused because she said she doesn’t know anymore please somone give me some hope on this please and thank you!

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OK, you don’t know what this girl is like. Please don’t talk to me about life lessons. I wanna fight fire with fire. I don’t care if I get hurt. I need to get revenge. I had this bff for two years. She pretended to be a good innocent little girl but she is a mean backstabbing fake. She keeps criticizing everybody and then pretends to be their friend. Now i have a new bff, *Kate. I used to hang out with my ex bff even though our "best" friendship had ended. she kept telling me, "OMG I hate *Kate so much, she’s such a bitch!" Then she would hang out with her and say the same thing about me to *Kate. Then Kate told me what she was saying about me. She didnt only say she hated me, but she also spread loads of rumors about me. we were only 12 and she said that i wasnt a virgin anymore and that i was a prostitute and that my boyfriend only went out with me coz i paid him. she also told everybody that i was bulimic. anyway, none of that is true. she also spread rumors about *kate. please help me get revenge. and dont tell me not to. i just want revenge ideas, thats all.

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