My fiance has broke up with me and we are 23 weeks pregnant with a boy. This is our first kid and im lost and very upset. She is very stressed with a fulltime job and she is doing a high level of uni / Collage plus being pregnant. What is happening. Pls help..!!!
I’m pregnant and alone… How do I get him to want me back?
My boyfriend and I had a great relationship, of course there were occasional arguments here and there, but nothing bad. We found out I was pregnant and everything was okay, then when I got to be about four months pregnant, he just left me. I don’t know if it’s because he was scared about becoming a father, or if my hormones drove him crazy.
But I still love him more than anything in the world, and I’d do anything to be back with him and raise our son together. It’s been almost three months since we split up, and we still talk to each other and stuff. And when we hang out, we act the same as we did when we were together (holding hands, kissing, etc…) I’m just so confused about everything, I’m having a baby in a couple months, and I just want us to be happy again and be a family.
Some of my friends say he’ll come around once the baby’s here, and others tell me to just move on…
Any advice?
My boyfriend and I had a great relationship, of course there were occasional arguments, but nothing bad. We found out I was pregnant and everything was okay, then when I got to be about four months pregnant, he just left me. I don’t know if it’s because he was scared about becoming a father, or if my hormones drove him crazy. But I still love him more than anything in the world, and I’d do anything to be back with him and raise our son together.
It’s been almost three months since we split up, and we still talk to each other and stuff. And when we hang out, we act the same as we did when we were together (holding hands, kissing, etc) Im just so confused about everything, I’m having a baby in a couple months, and I just want us to be happy again and be a family.
Some of my friends say he’ll come around once the baby’s here, and others tell me to just move on. Any advice?
PS. Im NOT some 14 y.o little middle school girl that made a mistake… I’m a responsible woman with a fulltime job…
P.S. Im NOT some 14 year old little middle- school girl that made a mistake… I’m a responsible woman with a great-paying fulltime job…
It’s not that I can’t take care of a baby on my own, I just want the best for my son, and I think it would be best for him to grow up in a family with a mother and father.
Wow, that turned out weird lol… I’m still kinda new on here.
I’m out of school lol…
I hate how people assume if you’re having a baby and you’re unmarried, you’re a child who made a mistake…
I’m 27 and my boyfriend just asked to marry me and I want to say no- not because I don’t love him. but because after listening to all my guys friend and brothers deal with their marriage and relationship, I’m convinced that women get SCREWED IN MARRIAGE.
Let me just say I’m not a man basher- I love men- the world would be boring without them. I’m independent- though I like when a guy does something for me without expectation and thus show my appreciation. I have a good job, take personal development classes, keep in good shape, and love to travel and do it often. I’m just afraid if I GET MARRIED I WILL LOSE MYSELF.
As women we are taught to grow up, get educated,get a career, get married, and maybe have children. Men get mad if we make more than them. If we get married, we are constantly told we forced him to settle down despite the man is the one, more often then not, who proposed. We then have children, which takes a toll on our bodies making us less attractive. Now strapped with most of the child-rearing duties and a full time job outside the home (with the economy it is to me expected that both work so that the family can survive) we have no time to get back to pre baby status. And if we try to it costs money (nails, new clothes, hair, makeup) we are then called golddiggers. After making money, raising the couples children, doing most of the domestic chores, men then complain that the wife will not have sex due to tiredness and they wonder why? We can not ask for help because it would be nagging. They don’t listen if we did approach them with a problem anyway. We give them their guy time to get away from the house despite being saddled with most of the domestic obligations ourselves. They put their friends first and we put our families first. They constantly complain about THE WIFE and then expect their wives to stroke their egos Men then use that time to cheat claiming that we became boring, no sex, or bad sex. I’m sorry, but a women with children, chores, and a fulltime job does not have time to get away to maintain herself ie girls night, waxing,take a class, read a good book or anything to she used to do that made the women interesting to the man to begin with. In divorce men complain that they get half their stuff taken- YA SO DO WE. ( I have a substantial saving pot, no debtat all, and two incoming producing rentals that I do not want to lose.) They complain that they lose the children when it has been my experience most of my divorce female friends say that their ex expected them to take the children because they don’t want to hassle with raising them. Anybody with children know that matter how much child support they get it is never equal to half the cost of raising a child. Alimony- I do not believe in unless you can prove without a shadow of a double that the women had to give up her career for somebody to stay home and raise the child -daycare is equivalent to a months pay nowadays making it pointless to have someone else f-up your kids when you can do it the right way by staying home.- In the end the man can go and start a new family forgetting about his old one and a women is looked down upon in the dating world for having children.
What should I do?
Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?
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