I was dating this girl on and off for about 7 years. I decided to ask her to marry me and she said yes. After being engaged for 7 months, buying a house together, and furniture she decides to end it. Her reason was that I drank too much. I will admit that in the past we have had our problems with the drinking issue. But I honestly feel that I have changed. I went out three times since we had been engaged. She claimed that I was turning into my old self and that when we were married that I would leave her home alone while I was out at the bar.
I guess I dont know what my real question is. She tells me she still loves me and that this is extremely hard on her as well. She also says that maybe someday down the road we can work this out.
What do I do with my life now? I am living in our house completely alone. I feel very lost and dont know where to go or what to do.
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My boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months, but we broke it off after an arguement that we had.
It’s now been two months since the break. We’ve both dated other people since then, but the relatioinships only lasted for a couple of weeks.
I miss my ex boyfriend so much. He’s been talking to me. The other day I was talking about a new piece of furniture that we got at my house and he said "Oh, That wasn’t there when I was at your house last."
Today he talked to me a some too.
Maybe I’m just looking into his words too much. Maybe he just wants to be friends. Or Maybe he wants to try to get together again.
What do you think? What are some signs I can look for?
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I am from Hyderabad city of AP India. My daughter is going to be married very soon. How shall i cut expenses.?
My daugter is a commerce graduate. She is 22.Her marriage has been fixed to a boy who is working in KSA. I need to know what are the important things i should keep in mind till conduct of the marriage.
This is the first marriage in my family. Hence i am not experienced. I am not in favour of unnecessary formalities. more over the best marrigae is that in which the expenditure is very less but these days it is difficult to conivince the other party. I have to spend about 3 lakhs.
I have ordered for furniture and paid advance the cost comes around 47 thousands. Almarah is for 8500/-. Food arrangement for marriage costs 70to 80 thousand for 800 persons.Clothing costs 50000/-.I have to book a two wheeler vehicle for the groom which may cost around 50000/- the groom is not taking any dowry.even then I have to arrange for certain items as per the custom.
Can any body give me tips to how to aviod unnecessary formalities and how to save expenditure.
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My husband and I split a year ago on my terms. Being apart from him for the last year made me realize that I love him and want to be with him and that I miss him. He waited for me for awhile to come back home then decided to date one of my friends who is also my brothers ex whom she has a child with. HE broke up with her because he said she was using him for money. He is now dating someone else and I told him how I felt and that I think about him everyday and wish I could turn back time and change things. He told me he catches himself thinking about me to but other people are involved now. His new gf and her two kids live with him now. But he was talking to me on the phone and we talked about the fun things we use to do together and little things like that. It brought a smile to my face talking to him and I was happy as I use to be. He was talking to me for 3 days in a row and I called him one night and he was very short with me & hung up. I called him back the next day while he was at work and asked what the problem was. He told me that it is causing problems with his gf talking to me. I told him I am not trying to start problems. It sounded to me like he wanted to talk to me just as much as I wanted to talk to him. He will only talk to me when hes on work time and not when hes around her or at home. We have not even taken care of any divorce paper work or anything and to tell you the truth I don’t want to move on. I want him back with me and I am not sure if he would want that to but he now has people involved. I don’t know what to think. Any suggestions?
Ok! I am going to move forward now. I will no longer initiate contact with him until he contacts me to move forward with the divorce. Although, he has kept all my things from me. Before we were married he made me sign a pre-nuptual agreement stating that I will never get any part of his home. Which, I was ok with signing because I did not marry him for his home. But….that gave him no right to keep my car, all my furniture that my grandparents gave me, I even had a hard time getting my clothes from him. I had to leave with no where to go and with nothing. I had to go and get a new car and a place to live on little income. But, since he has moved on now with this new girlfriend, then why does he feel the need to keep all my things that belong to me?? I wonder if that bothers his new girlfriend that he kept all my things. But then again, maybe not as she was also going through a divorce when she met him. But no matter what I do still care about him and want him to be happy.♥
Oh yea…and she is not pregnant. She is 40 and has two teenage kids and has her tubes tied. Her kids are 17 & 19 whom all three live with him. He is 36 & I am 28, big difference and big change in life-style for him. He wanted to have babies and we had tried for 5 years but It never happened. I went to the dr. and they said that I was fine but he did not want to go get checked out.
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My man and I had promised each other before moving to our new location that what happened in our old location stays in our old location. I have made conscious efforts not to mention exes or previous boyfriends. He was married once before, and I understand that they still have business-type loose ends (like a car that she has that he is paying for even after the divorce because she refuses to). However, he still keeps bringing her up and I am sick of hearing about her. For instance, I have been trying to find a job (I was laid off prior to our moving) and he decided to mention how his ex would quit her job in the morning and find another one by nightfall (let’s bear in mind that these were retail and restaurant jobs where the employers never thought to check and see if she was a job hopper. I am not past working those types of jobs, but I have been interviewing for jobs with better benefits and pay so that I can pay my own way and not sponge off him like she did). Of course, that ticked me off.
Then, he and his dad got into an argument because when he married his ex, his family never came to the wedding. Mind you, this argument occurred six months after the divorce was final, and occurred right in front of me, which I found rude. There have been other instances where he would mention what a good cook she was and a few other things. I am certain he is not wanting to go back to her (of course, I know it is not impossible, I am not stupid). The woman stole his money, furniture, and car, plus left him for another man while he was out to sea, and has other issues as well. I am glad he has some fond memories of her, despite all this, but I am really sick of hearing about it. I had a rather tempestuous relationship with my ex, and truthfully find it hard to remember the good times, but have decided to let it go, not only in accordance with the agreement with my man but also because I want to move on and make new memories in my new life. It is hard to do that when his ex is constantly being brought up. He doesn’t understand why I am so angry but has made an effort to stop talking about her. I don’t mind that he has happy memories of her, but am I wrong to not want to hear about them anymore?
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