Why do so many people here like the idea of a girl getting revenge on her ex-boyfriend more than the idea of a guy getting revenge on his ex-girlfriend?
And for those of you women who say the guy should just move on, if you yourself would happily take revenge on an ex-boyfriend if you had the chance, then why do you think the guy shouldn’t get to enjoy that same kind of revenge that you want to enjoy?
I’ve seen YA! questions here where both boys and girls post questions about getting revenge on their exes and I’ve noticed in the replies that more people seem to be in favor of the girl getting revenge on the ex-boyfriend, yet when it comes to the guy getting revenge on his ex-girlfriend, most of them say grow up and move on. Why are so many people here in so much favor of the girl getting revenge but not the other way around? Do these people consider women to generally be less emotionally stable than men and therefore think it’s justified?
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Me and my boyfriend had been together for 10 months when he left for missouri with my best friend to go through AIT for the national guards. When he left we were perfectly happy, and everything was fine. We both agreed we would stay together for the 3 months he would be gone, and both we ok with a short long distance. Two weeks into him being gone i open my e-mail to find a naked picture spread eagle over a bowling alley tiolet of my best friend sent to me from my boyfriends cell phone. i talked to him the next day about it because he only got his phone on certain nights depending on his physical trainings. i asked him instantly about the picture, and he had no idea what i was talking about. aparently when they have personal time they have to use the buddy system and decided because it was legal to drink on base, because they are both 18, to get drunk together, then meet up with others at the bowling alley. he says he doesnt remember sending me them, and i called everything off. he continues to call me and talks to my family as if nothing happened (none of my family know what he did), and tries to make me feel guilty for calling things off. he wants to go on a date when he gets back (Oct. 31st). ive told him repetedly that i want nothing to do with him, and he isnt listening at all. i was wondering if i should give him another chance, ignore him, or try to get him to back off by getting revenge and making him see how messed up what he did was?
i did talk to my friedn, and she started crying and apologizing to me about what happeend. i flat out asked her what happened and she said we had sex but its not like that between them, it was a one time thing, and it would never happen again.
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Okay, so long story short, we had a horrible break up, because of him.
WARNING:I DON’T WANT TO HEAR ANYTHING ABOUT "THE BEST REVENGE IS LEAVING IT ALONE" or "YOUR UGLY SIDE COMES OUT IN GETTING REVENGE"
so heres the plan:
he said that my best friend, (we’ll call her sandy), had a bangin body, soooo, Sandy and I planned this revenge out:
Sandy will flirt with (lets call him ryan) Ryan for quite a while. Saying seductive little things to get him going. Soon, Sandy will invite him to her house, where she will set up a hidden camera. I will be hiding in her closet. She will handcuff him to the bed, and whisper in his ear "i have a little suprise for youu" and i’ll pop out of the closet with a knife(just to scare him, promise!!) and say some revenge filled stuff(x
then we’ll send the video to all of his friends, maybe.
good? any better ideas?



