my wife was 100% loyal to me while i was in the army and deployed. but as soon as i got out and we moved back to the states she cheated on me. i decided to give her a second chance and moved our family to florida to start over, but she acts as if she doesn’t care about me anymore. all the reasons she had for cheating on me i changed. so that she couldn’t use that as an excuse anymore, but she doesn’t seem to care no matter how hard i try. she shows me absolutely no affection whatso ever and the worst thing about it is that i am stuck with her because i went 100’s of thousands of dollars into debt for her and if we split up i will not be able to afford to pay all the bills i made while working on our relationship. when ever i ask her why she is this way to me she says she doesn’t know. but i know she is not telling me the truth. i ahve no way of going out to make friends because i have to watch our kids. i don’t work anymore because i was wounded during the war. I do pay all the bills, and do my best to take care of my family. but no matter how hard i try she act as if i am a ghost in the house. i have givin her my entire heart and now i don’t know what to do. my heart hurts so much from being depressed that i literally have to inflict massive amounts of pain upon my self to get my heart to stop hurting. i have no idea what to do. if i loose her then i give up on life,love and trust. the only one i have to talk to is my dog, who was a gift from her when i got back from the war to help me with my problems, but now i found out that soon my dog, who is also my only friend will have to be put to sleep in a few months and then i will have no one to keep me company or come to me when i am down. my entire life has been a downward spral no matter how hard i try to make the best of things something always bad happens to me. i don’t know how much more of the this i can take. and i have already attempoted to hang myself but she cut me down then had me arrested and thrown into a mental hospital for awile. i have no where else to turn so i thought i would see if anyone on here may have an idea that may help me. all i want is to be loved again and not feel so alone.
We have been married a little while now and have a 6 month old son, things have been pretty good all in all but when we fell in love everything was so perfect and now he works really long hours and I take care of the baby all day and when he comes home he never wants sex and he rarely hangs out with me, he works on the car, or spends time on the computer or watches football (or another sport at different times of the year) and lately I have been feeling like I live with a ghost instead of a husband. I have told him I feel lonely and he told me he felt I complain too much. I cook for him, I clean and I take care of the baby. I also try to get him into bed but he pretty much just isn’t into sex anymore but he says it’s just him and nothing to do with anyone else and he says he loves me. I don’t know what to do. I need help to get things back on track as I have no idea what more to do for him.
