heres the story me and my ex have been dating for about 11 months the whole relationship wasnt always good but we always worked things out and she loved me to death i was the one always telling her it was over and she kept coming back, well the last time we broke up i didnt speak to her for a week, i was misserable. i finally decided to call her and she was with some other dude she had spent the weekend with him, now we are talking again and she says she doesnt feel the same way but now i love her more than ever, i took her for granted in the past, and i dont want it to end like this i need one more chance ANYONE please help !!!!
My ex gf used to be head over heels for me but I really really messed up. She used to love me like a crazy but after I messed up, the feelings went away. She says she still loves me but it’s different now you know? The spark and the passion is gone, it’s like a friend love now. We discussed it over and decided to break up for now. This happened last Thursday.
She said she doesn’t want to lose me and she still wants me in her life, so we decided to be friends. Kinda like best friends. We were great friends before we started dating until I fell in love with her and made her mine. She said she is not moving on just yet and wants to see where this friendship goes. She has interest in getting back with me, but like me, she wants that old love and passion back. I always have been sweet to her so sweet talk is not working =/ How can I make her fall in love with me again, and make me her love me like she used to?
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Im thirteen. I know it might seem like young love, but I love this girl more than anything in the world. Me and her have been best friends for about two years. She tells me that she loves me, wants to be with me, and that I’m different than all the other guys. But she keeps going out with other guys. I’ve already asked her out, and she said no, because we were different than we used to be. How do I get things back to how they used to be, and how do I make her fall in love again?
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Two of my friends have been dating for more than two years now. They are 20. There is this guy who came along and basically made the girl fall in love with him. The guy is 25 and I don’t know exactly why, let her guard down and let him in. She loves him more at this point, and the guy loves her a lot too, but her bf pointed out that acting like this would get her no where in life if she doesn’t know how to stay committed. So she is going to stay with him until the end of the year to see if he can revive her feelings for him…if not, she will most likely go to the guy since he will most likely be waiting for her.
I was just wondering..both sides are really hurt..I mean I kinda feel the current bf was wronged in this since i believe relationships are about commitment. However, I’m more of a friend to the girl…how can I help her recover from such a fall?



