I was going out with him for 3 months he was so in love with me or that’s what he said to me. He introduced me to his parents and met mine and plan the weeding also i felt it’s too soon though but he said i’m the one he surprised me with gifts and we were so happy and suddenly he said he is not sure im the one and he doesn’t feel strong about me and loosing interest and wanted us to be friends as he doesn’t want to lose me because he loves me and care for me but he can’t commit to me as a boy friend as he has to concentrate on his work and that he is not feeling srong towards me . Then we were friends and i had a hope that we will be getting back together someday and aftre 3 weeks he said he is loosing interest in that too but he is attracted to me still and he said it’s his problem because once he give up someone he doesn’t feel like being with that person again and he had 5 girl friends in the past and all of those relationships were ended by him as he was not sure about himself he said when he ended it with them he was relieved but after ending it with me he was sad and guilty but he says he can’t be with me though he loves me he wants to be alone. It’s really hard for me to accept it because i don’t understand why he has to break up with me after planning the wedding and all i taled him 3 months is not enough to know eachother but he says he can’t commited to me . I want to know what happened he says he doesn’t know as he value being alone and it’s a lot of hard work to start it with me so i said fine and now i’m trying to get over him it’s hard how can i do it?I mean he says it’s because he ca’t make a stedy decision in life when it comes to relationships and he get fed up sometimes with the time and he doesnt feel strong towards me like he used to.It’s over but i cant forget him i want to but i miss him ,can you please tell me how to be strong and move on?
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ok so i have to write an essay on: are todays famous people good role models for young people
so this is wat i have can anyone help me edit it and use proper grammer
Today’s famous people are not a good role model for young people because there doing inappropriate things like plastic surgery, bad relationship, and are on too many bad diets. Young people should look up to people like Raven Simon, Oprah Winfrey, and Barrack Obama.
On of the most terrible thing that celebrities do now days is plastic surgery. People like Ashley Simpson, Mickey Rourke, Michael Jackson, Pamela Anderson, and Jessica Simpson have done much plastic surgery and now they look unappealing. Plastic surgery make people look fake, unnatural and make them lose there respect. Plastic surgery has some side effects like disfigurement, illness, infection, and birth defect. This is why it’s not good to do them. Many famous people are obsessed with plastic surgery so they are considered as a bad role model.
Bad relationship is another big thing today. Famous people like to have boy/girl friends but they are not too smart about there decisions. They often make mistake and choose people who are rich and good looking. Most famous people are abusive, sexual, and are not honest. Some example of bad relationship would be Pamela Anderson /Tommy Lee, Charlie Sheen/Denise Richards, and Rihanna /Chris brown.
Bad diets are another big thing today with famous people. Diets like Jenny Craig, Herbal Magic system, my fit, and fit for life often has side effect like gaining weight, gas, throwing up, and stomach ache. It is better not to take these diets. To maintain a healthy fit body its better to eat healthy and exercise. Most celebrities often starve them self and end up with a bad illness.
Young people should look up to teachers and family members as their role models. So as you can see famous people are not a good role model for young people because they do plastic surgery, have bad relationship, and are on too many bad diets
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big rift in our relationship esp when he d go out with them& conveniently not invite me, or when he d hug up on them &talk dirty, or kiss them(on the cheek). He broke up with me in nov 2007 cause i was too jealous, but we still talked on the ph, in dec he found out i wasnt really divorce(even though separated), he changed his number, and i wouldnt let up, we started talking again 1 wk later & cont till april. Will from dec through april he told he still loved me but we could never be together till i was truly divorced… I didnt get a divorce, but he finally met up with me this past april by that time i had gained 15 lbs. i wanted to wait till i lost wght, but i was stubborn and saw him anyway and i told him like a dumb A he nds to choose tween me or girl friends.. And no lie, the next day, he told me he just wanted to be friends. do u think he sd that cause of the weight, or cause of the friend thing. and what should i do, how can i get him back.
thanks trysta, it really helps hearing it fr a guys point of view, i guess. it just really gets to me cus this guy is 44, hes been there done that, divorced after 18 yrs(&cheated at least with 6 girls during his marriage), and still its not out of his system… i love him so much, i wish i could let him go for good, but i always think about him, its been 6 months, and i cant let him go.
sorry meant thanks, bart is in the house.
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Me and my BF were together for almost 1 1/2 yr. I have to break up with him because I been hurting a lot because he hangs out more and give more priority with his other girl friends. I thought that dispalying such behavior is telling me that there in no more reason to continue our relationship. He ignores me whenever I sign on AIM, and don’t even leave me comments on myspace but he talk to his girlfriends. I just felt so left out. So, to get over all these heartaches I broke up with him. I did everything to keep our relationship but I’m just so tired of gettign hurt. Now, even tho’ i broke up with him, i still want us to be friends. I think he was hurt too because he didn’t expect that I was going to do it. I tried to IM him, he said he’s not ready to talk to me yet. What do you think are the chances that we could still be friends. How long will it take for him to recover. It was painful to me too when i did it, but I have to do it so I won’t get hurt anymore.
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I don’t want to bore people with the long details. Let’s just say that a lot has happened. We didn’t exactly break up but at one point we were almost there.
Something happened in the past that triggered this. And because of it, she was never the same again. Now, she’s telling me she wanted to do things on her own first. She wanted to spend less time with me so she’d miss me she said. And she’s spending more time with her girl friends than with me. She said she still loves me but she said not fully now. I’ve been a bit patient and though I can see some progress, it comes really really slow. Thing is, in 6 months time I’ll be moving to a different place and we won’t be able to see each other for another 6 months. I wanted to re-establish our bond before that time comes. I really love her and I want to see my future with her. So what can I do? Should I just continue on giving her space?
Honestly, though she’s technically my girlfriend, I feel something’s still missing. And please don’t tell me to break it off with her. I at least still want to try until the time I leave. Thanks in advance.
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