~ i want him back so badly
~i was thinking of making him jelous…how shuld i do that?
~ i love him and i was thinking of telling him that on a txt since i cnt see him right now. just tell him that lke i love him and blah blah
~ he said he broke up with me cuz he didnt want a girlfriend(i doubt that) and he thought i didnt like him.
~ i dont think he knows i like him still anymore
~ We were fighting.were just frends now.
~What shuld i do
okay bye the way i dont see him in person alot so dont ring up the "do it in person" shit cuz it will have to be over a txt or call. cuz i wont see him in person..
My ex boyfriend stole my dog. How do I get her back?
ok, so here goes.. ill try and make it as short as possible:
My exboyfriend, and I broke up about a year and a half ago. While we were together, we bought a dog from the humane society for me. (He had a dog too and i wanted one i could call mine) He paid for her up front (in his name) and I paid him back in cash (no record). I had no clue what that horrible decision would lead to. So, a year and a half ago we broke up and i moved out (we were living together in his home).. i took my dog, Kaili, with me and she has been with me ever since… i have been taking very good care of her… im not sure if you have a dog, but my dog to me is like a real daughter, a best friend, a sister. She means everything to me. I even have a perscription from my psycologist for her so that my apartment complex would let me keep her. .. along with a pet deposit and everything.. so what i am saying is that there is proof that Kaili has been my dog for the past year and a half. ….
A few months ago, __ and i started hanging out again as friends. I would let him take Kaili on his own when i worked doubles so that Kaili had the other dog to play with and __ just lost his job, and she makes him happy. On February 15th, I took a trip to the keys where brad was, and didnt hang out with him, so he got his feelings hurt. Ever since, I have been dealing with his psycotic behavior. He started harassing and threatening all kinds of things (including taking my dog away from me) in text messages and emails. He has been doing the same to about 5 of my friends, my sister, my mom, my dad and my dad’s girlfriend. He even wrote a long letter pretending to be one of my friends to my dad’s girlfriend and it made her throw up. I have emails of him pretending to be me writing them. Each of my friends and family members have received over 50 text messages each. And thats not where it gets bad. I was told I should have filed a restraining order right away, and i didnt, and i still haven’t. I figured his behavior would die down and that by me ignoring him, that he would stop. But, it just got worse. About a week ago, I was working a double at work so on my break i took Kaili to my moms to watch her. after i got out of work, i picked kaili up from my moms house and brought her home to my apartment.. as i was walking to my front door (which is in the back of the apartment building) ___ came out of nowhere, running fast at me, wripped the dog’s leash from my hand and kept running with my dog! I had no clue what to do so i called the police. Basically they told me that this was a "civil thing" and that a dog is "personal property" and if the dog is in ___’s name, that he can do what he did. I explained to them that i felt assaulted and scared, that ___ literally could have been waiting hours for me in the dark b/c i get out of work at all different hours so he couldnt have known an exact time.. they told me the most they could do is escort me to his apartment or a place i know where he is and they can try to reason with him but they cant just take the dog back. I kept asking them "how is this not a crime?" "how did he not just assault me?" and they basically told me to take it to court or let him have the dog. They also told me that they couldnt do anything to me if i stole the dog right back.
SO… here i am now. i just got all the paperwork from my vets and i can come up with all the proof she has been MY dog.. but im guessing i need to go to court… i can use any advice on what to do next… there are two issues here, my dog and my safety.. do i go file a restraining order now? and then take him to court later? what do i do?? i am so lost and i feel so hopeless… I am not in the wrong in this situation but i feel like nobody cares to take on this matter. again, she is my daughter, i need her back. Please help me with whatever you can… maybe you know a good lawyer i can use??
any information can help. I would also like to stress the fact that i don’t have a lot of money.. i am not a dependent on anyone (including my parents) i am a single waitress with my own apartment so im not the richest person.
Can anyone answer me this: How do I get my girlfriend back?
My girlfriend dumped me over a stupid mistake (it wasn’t cheating) plus she felt as though our relationship was getting to serious for high school. Sadly I did the worst thing possible and acted a bit desperate after she dumped me. How do I get her back? I am currently ignoring her seeing if that works, do you think it will?
I don’t want answers that just say just get over her, I am doing my best to get over her, but my question is how do I get her back? and so be it, if there are none then I will have to just get over her.
How does a guy get his ex girlfriend to trust him again?
If your girlfriend dumped you because she said she had trouble trusting you, how can you prove to her that she can trust you?
I love my ex and she really can trust me but she doesn’t think so because I kissed another girl at a party one time when I was drunk.
Please help, how do I get my ex girlfriend to trust me again?
I KNOW they get married but during their 7th year at hogwarts(book 7, deathly hollows) do they get back together as Boyfriend and Girlfriend??? Like as teenagers and before the epilogue at the end of the book……
This is a Petrachan sonnet that I wrote and I want to know what I should change around. The Rhyme Scheme of a Petrachan Sonnet is ABBA ABBA CDE CDE (or CDCDCD but I used CDE CDE) Each line must consist of 10 syllables.
I lost you and I hurt everyday
And this is the reason my heart is sore.
Now I regret acting like such a bore.
I cannot believe he took you away.
This is all true, though it may seem cliché
But I could not help feeling insecure.
I feared you might not like me anymore.
I cannot perceive why I am this way.
I did anything to show you romance
And I certainly showed it all to you
Why could you take it from him and not me?
I even asked you for a second chance
But you just turned me down for someone new
And you just lied thinking I would not see.
I honestly don’t want to change the meaning of the poem because this is really how I feel about my "situation" of my girlfriend dumping me for somebody else and etc. etc. but thats a whole other story.
Like I said before I don’t want to change the meaning of the poem maybe just switch or change some words to make it a little more proper. Don’t be too easy on me just give an honest opinion on what to change. And the teacher said we could use words like every and ue them as two syllables or three, whatever we wanted, and I used it here as three.
I’m 18 years old.
I really like my girlfriend, we have been together now for over three weeks. I asked her to be my girlfriend on our first date, which was on valentine’s day. Every day that goes by I keep wondering when the next time I’m going to be hanging out with her is exactly. I get excited whenever I’m going to be seeing her again. She loves picking on me and telling me that I fail haha. Me and her talk a lot and we like to take turns asking each other questions like when we talk online, as a sortof way to get to know each other more and more and because it’s fun and we use it to flirt sometimes. One question she asked me was if I was in love with her, I told her that I wasn’t there yet but I felt like I was falling for her at a steady pace. She said okay and I asked her how she felt about me, and she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me, but she likes me and she likes kissing me. I told her that it might seem bad since I’d be a step ahead of her if I’m falling for her and she isn’t falling for me, and she said "or we can be at the same level =)", reminding me that she said that she doesn’t know if she’s falling for me yet but could be blindly.
How will I be able to tell if she’s falling in love with me? And how do I know for sure that I am?
You say u don’t but I they say you do
I don’t know who to believe
I don’t know what to do
I want to love you
But I want to hate you
I want to think they are all wrong
And that you are perfect
Your strong hot nice and fun to be with
But what I didn’t know is I got you all wrong
You’re strong but not strong enough
Your hot but not hot enough
You’re nice but only when you want something
And you’re fun but not fun enough for me
What I thought was the perfect guy is nothing more than your normal every day man whore
I hope I don’t feel for you any more
Your kisses are sweet
But never sweet enough
To cover
The pain you have caused me
You must not feel for me
Because you no longer adore me
It was a one day thing
I hope your girlfriend understands
I’m glad its over
Cuz you don’t deserve me
you don’t deserve some one who loved you so truly and pure
Now I have to find a cure to mend my broken heart
There are many fish in the sea
But you are no longer for me
So please let me be
We can still be friends
But I need some time to think
I need some time to know
If I should ever forgive you for making my heart shrink
I just need some time to grow
Maybe we can try it again
Like you said every one deserves a second chance
But I will never forget when
Our hearts connected our lips touched and I was in love
My heart did a dance
It was young romance
Now all I need is a little shove
To get back to the now
The present were you have a girlfriend
And I have no one
Now I will have to allow
The time for my heart to comprehend
The changes of everything to become undone
I’m crushed
But I don’t expect you to care
ummm well i didn’t finish it yet but i wanna know if its good or if im just wasting my time cuz it sucks
hey i just wanted to say im 13 soo yea this is what i wrote and how i felt or still feel about a guy i had a one day relationships with
I broke up with my gf because i was getting a lot of crap from other people and even some of my friends about dating her. They said she was not my type and that she is obsessed with me. my day was really bad and i kind of just broke up with her. i did it very nicely and told her that i feel like i don’t need a gf and that i need a friend . her and i are still really close friends but i told her how i wanted to get back together and she still said that she likes me. But she doesn’t want to get hurt again and that people will give us crap if we do go out again. i need to do something to get her to go out with me again… i never told her that i really loved her until i asked her back out. what do i do to get her trust back!? please help i love this girl and i cant let her go!
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Step 1 – It is important that after you have initially broken up with your girlfriend give her not only space but time as well. Don’t automatically start contacting her after the breakup, but rather give a month or so and then get in contact with her once more.
Step 2 – Because you were together you are going to be the one who knows more about what she likes and dislikes than anyone else and certainly gives you an advantage over others who know her. Arrange to meet her in locations that she feels comfortable with and try to avoid having yours or her friends with you when you do. If she is unwilling to meet with you then start off by talking to her on the phone, but don’t just turn up unexpectedly in places where she is going to be.
Step 3 – It is important that when you do get together on when talking on the phone you don’t talk up about the break up or the problems that your relationship was having. Rather talk about those things that were positive in it. When …
Whether your ex broke up with you yesterday, last week, or last month, if you want him or her back it can be hard to move on. You replay the breakup over and over in your mind, wishing that things would end differently. You wonder what would have happened if you had just changed a few of your bad habits, or picked up after yourself more often, or listened more when your ex talked to you… maybe the breakup never would have occurred. Does this sound familiar?
If you have talked to your friends or family about reversing the breakup so much that they are all sick of listening to you, you probably feel like you have no where else to turn. You can’t keep talking about your relationship with them, because they all start to tell you the same things. Get over your ex. Move on with your life. If you let someone go and they come back to you it is meant to be. Get a hobby. Get a life. Find someone else.
Are you tired of hearing that you need to move on? If you really feel like your ex was the one for you and you will never find someone else like him or her, how can you ever move on? If you feel so deeply that your life is over if you don’t get your ex back, someone telling you that you need to get a life isn’t going to help much. If you knew how to move on, you would, right? If you knew that moving on wouldn’t be the biggest mistake of your life, it would be easier, wouldn’t it?
Look, your friends and family are only telling you that you need to move on because they want to see you happy and they don’t know what else to tell you. But when you know deep down that your ex is the only person you’re meant to be with, you know that moving on won’t make you feel better. When all you can think about is how to get your ex back, you know that you can’t move on until you’ve tried everything you possibly can.
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the situation:
the girl has an ex and she broke up with him because she is so wasted from him because the guy didn’t cherish the girl’s love for him? now i comforted her and told her that i love her and now were together but our problem is, she want to go back to him because the guy is begging for her but she’s not sure if she will be happy to him if she give him a chance, but I told to her that i will give to her all of the things she want to have from his ex. Is it right?
I broke up with him around this time last year. We had been going out for 2 in a half years and I spontaneously decided to end it all because at that point in my life I didn’t want to be attached. I was 18 years old and starting college, a new job, and viewed my ex as un ambitious. All he would ever do is want to stay home and be with me, never really going out to hang with friends, and feeling down on himself for having the job he had. He was a wonderful artist and I tried to be a supportive and encouraging girlfriend by telling him to pursue a career in the field. Yet lack of funds was the reason he said he couldn’t live out his dream. I tried accepting this but found that I might be growing out of him. I also wanted to experience other relationships since he had been my first, and though I loved him I found myself growing more detached. Spending less and less time with him even though he kept reaching out. I broke his heart and he eventually gave me back everything that was ours to cope with the break up, cutting me out completely. At that time this didn’t faze me. He came to my door step with the box and I could care less. I felt relieved, or so I thought. We didn’t talk much for 8 months, maybe passing one another since my little brother and he were such great pals and didn’t let our break up end their friendship. Eventually after working and going to school nonstop, boys being the last thing on my mind the summer hits. I find myself infatuated like I once was with my ex on a new guy. He’s a graphic designer and aspiring filmmaker, extremely driven and confident. All I can do is think about him. He seems to me to be the next best thing. Eventually we hang out (not an official date I had no idea what his intentions were, he was very hard to read) with a few of his friends and I find him to be the most obnoxious individual. He practically ignored me the whole time while being an entertainer to his audience; he thrived off of the attention I could tell. One of two questions I can remember being:
"What do you want to do with your life?"
This was such a turn off; a mutual feeling I later find out. He thought I was too quiet and smelled of tuna! I hate tuna. We go on to not talk for two months, and yet even then I didn’t think of my ex. Eventually The new guy starts to talk to me again and even though I was so disgusted by his previous behavior I still find myself immensely sexually attracted to him. That’s all I wanted from him. Funny thing is he was looking for a girlfriend and found a way of convincing me to be with him otherwise. I figured ok I like this guy why not give it a shot? From then on it has been a rollercoaster. Nothing like when I was with my ex. One day this blokes happy with me the next he’s unsure about our relationship. So eventually I end up feeling lonely within my own relationship because I don’t feel good about it. Where did all my confidence go? Sure I may have felt inhibited because he’d ask me "why are you so shy?" "I wish you’d contribute more to the conversation." I have never felt so much pressure in a relationship. Like if I don’t please, I can be dropped at any given time. So for the time being I had been unhappy, yet the messing around was great. What a trade off, not worth it at all when I look at it, but within the moment it’s a whole other game. All I could think about was how to sort the issues in my head over this relationship in a mature manner. Work out all the small things and focused on what we have that’s great. All I could think of was our similar tastes in music, movies, and fooling around. Sure we had conversations but for the most part they were short and the fooling around was to the point not long after. Than he’d tell me I got to get back to story boarding birdbrain. I’d be there reading a book instead of getting to know anything about him. My excuse was that he’s really trying to get this short film done before Sundance, don’t worry about it. And eventually things did turn around with a few hiccups, but on a trip back from Ohio I found out that my ex was going out with a new girl and the last thing that has been on my mind for the past month isn’t my new boyfriend. My brother disclosed to me some information that my ex was going out with a girl that we formerly couldn’t stand. When we were together we would actually make fun of her amongst ourselves. She was just such a typical high school girl. Going out to parties all the time, drinking, taking in controlled substances, bisexual one minute, straight the next. She was a total nut. Now he is with her. I really needed someone to talk too when hearing all this. So I wrote an email to a mutual friend of ours who still hung out with him. And I explained everything to her. It than finally hit me that he had moved on. Though I was in my own relationship (not much of one actually) I still had this terrible pain in my stomach thinking that he’s with her of all people. I didn’t care if she told anybody (we we
My girlfriend of one year broke up with me because she didn’t feel that i showed her that i loved her enough and i didn’t show her i cared enough. But i love her more than anyone i have ever liked and i care about her more than i care about my parents. She means the world to me but she won’t see it. What do i do? i have been telling her for a week this stuff and it hasn’t worked.
so im pretty sure he thinks i like him. or he knows. but i really don’t. i just don’t want to bring up the subject w/ him so i don’t say anything… he still says hi like normal. still talk to meh… but he has a girlfriend. so that’s why it’s so awkward. we used to be really close, we talked a lot everyday… now, the longest conversation we have is "hey, watsup?" and those things…
how can i get it back to the way it was before?
So this past year has been very rocky for my husband and I. I was at my husbands military christmas party and one of his lady co-workers seemed to be acting very strange. I felt funny about it. When we drove home I asked my husband about it. I also asked him how he felt about her. He casually said, "he was close to her, No really close to her". I about dropped my jaw at him saying that so openly. I talked to him about it and asked him what he meant and he said, "we’re just friends close friends from being in the same platoon together for so many years." I still didn’t feel very good about it, So I got snoopy. (No Im not proud of it) But glad I did. I found in his e-mail that he left open on accident that he was e-mailing her and asking to have lunch with her at drill weekends. He was e-mailing her regularly. The e-mail did just seem friendly – not sexual or anything, but he would say maybe we can have lunch this weekend. Then I found he was also signed up for a Adult web site. Which REALLY HURT. I have always loved my husband and been faithful to him so this was a blow to me. Because I had already forgave him for cheating on me when we lived over seas in Italy. He went to school (in the military) and on his off time he would go to a bar and drink with another Navy guy and was sitting with two ladies which over the five weeks turned into dancing and kissing. I was so hurt the first time because I was pregnant at the time and far from all my family. Took a long time to get over but he promised it would NEVER EVER happen again. So to get back to the recent…..I am having a hard time dealing with all of this again. He swearer’s he did nothing with the lady from the military other than a dinner and talking at lunch and swearer’s most of the time other people from the platoon was there.
But then I found out he was flirting with ladies on Myspace, man things just kept getting worse. I was going crazy. I even found a saved phone number from an old girlfriend. He said they messaged each other on classmates and then later looked her number up and saved it in his work phone, but that he never used it. How do I trust him. He has given all his codes to me and swearer’s I am his only one. But I know Cheaters will lie till they go to their GRAVE. So I am always on my toes. We have been to counseling a few times, it did help, But I am still having a hard time…..He promised me the first time he cheated he would never be with a lady alone again, but then he went to dinner with her and lied to me about it, He says, He lied to me because he knew i’d be mad and there was nothing to the dinner, but friendship.
He gets very mad at me when I bring up his past, or when i tell him I don’t trust him. He just doesn’t get what he has destroyed. We are very very close as a couple, (I know that sounds weird) But we are always holding hands, kissing and everyone tells us how cute we are as a couple and wish they could find a relationship like that. Yes our sex life is GREAT also. At least everyday and usually more than that. Yes we have four kids. Yes we have to be creative. We have been married 19 1/2 years now. But I just don’t know what to think. Does he really love me, Why do men flirt with women "IF THEY LOVE THERE WIFE’S SO MUCH" I JUST DON’T KNOW IF I CAN EVER TRUST HIM AGAIN. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. But I feel like things will never be the same again. We have a week or two that goes great and then all my frustrations come back from a flash back. How does one EVER REALLY know if someone is Truly sorry????????? I wish I could really know if he love’s me. I cry often, but he doesn’t know it. I cry because I miss (the KNOWING my husband LOVED ME) It’s a feeling I wish I could get back.
I haven’t told anyone about all this (except the counselor) and I have to always acted like my marriage is great to our family etc. I don’t want everyone to know what he has done. One its embarrassing for me and I don’t want anyone to think badly of him. I know that’s sounds stupid. But You gotta understand I LOVE HIM and I don’t want him hurt in anyway. We have enough pain between us dealing with it than to involve others. Also another reason is our son went though Cancer for a year and We’ve had enough pain, so involving others just would add to it. This is way I am sharing it here. I need to get it out. I know he doesn’t want to loose "US" when I mentioned leaving him he feel apart crying begging me not to leave. He is constantly tell me that he love’s me and never has Cheated since Italy with the Kiss. He tells me he didn’t realize the things he was doing recently was going to hurt me or that I would call it cheating. But I am so confused & not sure if I can trust him. Guys what are some signs that a guy is really sorry. HELP!!!!!!!
This one is complicated I’ll try and clarify the best I can.
I was dating this guy (Jake) and things were going great. Then my ex (Sam) started calling and begging me back and of course like most naive young girls I took him back. Naturally about a month later I found out I was pregnant. Go figure.
The doctor determined a certain due date and according to that due date it would mean paternity was in favor of Sam. Then I had a bad episode and had to go to the hospital about a week and a half ago and it’s looking more and more like I am about a month farther along than previously estimated which coincidentally matches my last period. This would mean paternity was in favor of Jake. I had a feeling from the get go that it probably is Jake’s. Sam and I slept together unprotected for 3 1/2 years and I never got pregnant.
Jake is back with his ex (who he left right before me). When I left him he was devastated and badly wanted me to come back. He talked many times (before our breakup) of having a family in the future and how bad he someday wanted a son (and of course the baby is a boy). I’ve had many people tell me he is unhappy with her. There is now a really good chance this baby is his. This is my question. By the latest ultrasound I had I’m about 37 weeks meaning baby could come at any time. Even though it is this late I did just find this out and I feel the right thing to do is to tell him. I know how much family means to him especially a son. But I don’t want to tell him and be wrong. However chances are looking far more in his favor (like 75%) and I wouldn’t want him to be angry or hurt that I didn’t tell him. The only problem is I don’t want to cause problems with him and his girlfriend because I know they’re not real steady and have problems. I do still have those strong lingering feelings especially now that it looks like he is the father BUT I do want him to be happy. I know that most men would want to know even if it’s just a chance and I think he has that right. What would you do?
I am getting a paternity test done anyway but I wouldn’t want him upset that I didn’t share this with him before hand. I know he’s the kind of guy who would step up to the plate but as I said I’d just rather him be happy. What do you think is the right thing to do?
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Silly me forgot to mention. Both Sam and Jake know that I’m pregnant. From the time I found out I was pregnant until I was 4 months I was still with Sam and now am single focusing on the baby. Up until I went to the hospital paternity was thought to be Sam’s. Now it looks like paternity lies with Jake. Help please. Guys especially. Should I tell Jake now that there is even a chance paternity is his?
I love him and he does love me…ok? We broke up about a month and he kept saying he wasn’t wanting to be in a relationship right now…well last friday we made love…but we still aren’t together and he says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now…well today on tuesday and at lunch he told me he had good news and some upsetting news…good news he got kicked out of the house with all his stupid friends…but he wouldn’t tell me the "upsetting" news…It took like one guess then it came to me…he has a new girl friend. Now here’s the problem I want HIM back. please help me!
I love him and he does love me…ok? We broke up about a month and he kept saying he wasn’t wanting to be in a relationship right now…well last friday we made love…but we still aren’t together and he says he doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now…well today on tuesday and at lunch he told me he had good news and some upsetting news…good news he got kicked out of the house with all his stupid friends…but he wouldn’t tell me the "upsetting" news…It took like one guess then it came to me…he has a new girl friend. Now here’s the problem I want HIM back. please help me!
Is it acceptable for my girlfriend to accept a belated B-day gift from her High School Ex-Boyfriend?
Just a few months ago it came to my attention that my girlfriend got back in contact with an ex boyfriend of hers that lives out of state, when confronted she claims that he found her on social networking (i.e. Facebook, and/or Myspace, and that there is noting funny going on.Aparently they are back to being friends automatically after we got into an arguement one weekend a few months ago, My girlfriends b-day passed in June, Her Ex has been staying in touch once every so often they would text and talk, One time according to my girlfriend they were on the phone for 3 hours.. They went a while without talking, but its funny whenever my girlfriend gets mad at me he comes back into the talk and texting picture with her.. She had asked me yesterday if we received a package at our PO box that we share, I said I have not seen anything.. She quickly advised me that he ex had sent over a belated b-day gift and it was returned to him RTS (Return to Sender) She asked me if I had rejected delivery.. I DID NOT!!! Now the gift is on the way and I dont quite know how to handle the situation, I did not reject delivery or even see a package come to us, nor will i reject it. She claims she loves me.. and we have and are still having our share of typical relationship issues. I also love her and dont want to lose her. But i feel that this is the top to the lid, As well one week ago he wired 80.00 into her bank account to help her buy college books, I did not have the money to give her so she called him for it. and this really bothered me.. She was able to find some money using another means and I advised her to return it, She supposely did!! She told me last night when I asked her ( why are you still talking to your ex and wanting to accept money and gifts from him) she simply answers" (Its none of your concern what I do or who I am talking to, I can talk to anybody and do whatever I want and you cannot control that.. )
Ok I’ve been dealing with my depression now for a while and I’ve tried everything I could think of to get out of my depression.
1.) I’m going to counseling and that doesn’t get rid of it.
2.) I’ve picked up smoking cigerates and that doesn’t help
3.) I’ve tryed changing my religion and that doesn’t help.
4.) Tried making friends but that always goes wrong with me.
5.) Tried drinking that doesn’t help.
6.) Tried writing down the way I feel in a note book but I always feel awful even if I do.
7.) Tried weed but I still felt like crap even when I was doing it so I don’t do that anymore.
8.) Tried making pretend friends for myself I wanted to buy some fake GI joes and they could be my friends and I even wanted to buy a blow up doll and make it my girlfriend so I could have someone to talk to but I’m still depressed.
9.) Tried magic spells and that doesn’t work.
The only thing I haven’t tried is anti-depressants. What should I do to get over depression?
i was in a happy relationship for about a month when my hormones took over and i made the worst mistake of my life – sleeping with my girlfriend’s best friend.
we obviously broke up, but i want to know if there is a way to recover from this. all her friends basically tell me to lay down and die, and most of my friends hate my guts too. sometimes she talks like there is nothing wrong, other times, she really concerns me.
i know what i did is almost unforgivable, and she has every reason to never want to see me again, but i realize the mistake i made and want to try to heal our friendship.
serious answers please
My girlfriend and I broke up for the second time back in January. It was because she needed a break from me and it was to much for her. She had be avoiding me so I pushed to find out why and I guess she thought it was to much and didn’t like where we were. We have not spoken much since. We talked briefly two weeks ago about our weekend and that type of small talk and then she texted me on friday night. It was the usual back and forth talk and then we preceded to mention that she missed sex with me and how amazing it was. and it was. when we had sex it was so good. She we talked so more and agreed that we should do it that night. I was studying that night so i could not go out like she wanted me to so she was drunk when she sent it but had sobered up when we got together. So we had sex and it was great. It wasn’t awkward and we talked a bit after to catch up. It was not weird. I asked about us and if she wanted to get back together and said no. Didn’t really want to talk about it so she made it clear that she does not want to be with me.
So i left and the next day i talked to her and told her that last night was great and wondered if we could do it again and see where we are. She said we could another time if it worked out and such. But it wont be a regular thing that happens. I can control my emotions and i want to do it but I want to be with her.
She is a very stubborn person and when she makes up her mind on something she sticks with it. So no matter what i say about getting back together she didn’t want to talk about it. But it makes me wonder if she dose not want to get back together and dose not feel the same then she would not want to have sex. When we had sex we had it like when we were dating. It was very passionate.
Now I know a lot of you are going to say to move on and she is not worth it but I love her and I know that she feels the same way. She just does not want to get hurt or make the mistake of getting back together and it dosent work out. My view is we try and what’s the worst that can happen? Then it wasn’t meant to be. I have changed a lot since when we broke up. I have had a lot of time to reflect and realize what I did wrong and I want her to know that and take a chance on me again. I just dont know what to do and want this to work.
Thanks everyone for your help!
Okay, so me and my girlfriend are split up. she wants us to get our friendship back before we get back together because thats what brought us together in the first place, but the thing is she still loves me and i still love her. I been reading all this stuff online and it says that i need to play a little hard and live life to get her curious about me to the point of coming back. So i did it and it does work, she started asking who I am chilling with, did I meet anyone new, and where I am going. But now I feel as if I am playing a little TOO hard to get. I listen to everything she says but I keep the time short and I would say something polite like..How about you call me later because I’m kind of busy right now, cool? But now it seems like she is getting a little upset at the fact that I am busy all the time. When is playing too hard to get? And my ex is the nervous type so she will probably wait for me to ask her back out. We have been apart for about 2 weeks now. So what should I do???? When is the perfect time to ask her out again??
And please no negative answers like "just forget it" and stuff ..we still want to be together so I am looking for advice on how to make my next move..Thanks in advance!!
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 10 months now and i really love her, last night we got into a major argument over her ex, things got bit ruff and i started to yell at her on the phone. her mom saw her crying and told her not to see my again… i visited her the same day to talk to her in person when she came in the car she told me that her mom wouldnt allow for her to talk to me…. after the arguement i triend to explain my self… over the phone but her mom told me that no guy ever made her cry and be down and that she has also dated guys and no one has made her this sad… and im a horrible person< i wanted to tell her mom that she prb never treated her boyfriend like her daughter has treated me but i didnt say it regarding respect. her mom hanged up on me and now her parents are ignoring my calls ( only called twice) … and they think that their daughter bf< me is a very bad boyfriend when they dont even know the whole story… today is second day, yesterday i saw her at college, and i told her i care about her and wish her luck we went away with strong emotions.. towards each other…now im confused on what to do .. i cant really move on without her. i have litterally spend each day seeing her… and i feel like iv lost some really close to me ? i need an advice on if i should move on ? how? if i should try to get back with her? how? how can i fix things with her parent? please i need help!!!
