my ex (almost fiance) broke up with me three weeks ago after the WORST weekend ever where he ignored my calls and texts (first time hes ever done that) and for the first time ever cheated on me 
and i was so frustrated (i didn’t know he cheated yet) and i told him i wanted a break and he told me hed rather just break up and he said its not me and i deserve better (all the stuff) and he was like weee can be friends and stuff and i told him i don’t want to be friends i still love him and we can fix it and then i talked to him again and told him i love him and want to be with him and hes all like IM A LOSER, IM NEVER GOING TO COLLEGE, I CHEATED ON YOU, IM DONE F**** TRYING so then i finally accepted it and i started dating a new guy CUZ HE TOOOLLLD ME to move on and now hes saying the reason we broke up all my fault he called me a fake bi*ch and he was cursing me out for a few days and i was just taking it and crying and i told him to stop a million times and i told him how much he hurt me and i told him i want to be friends and to stop fighting and he said i don’t know so then i said well if you really have to think about that then F*** you and you can have it your way im never going to talk to you again and we haven’t talked since and its been a week (longest we have ever gone without talking EVER)
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my ex (almost fiance) broke up with me three weeks ago after the WORST weekend ever where he ignored my calls and texts (first time hes ever done that) and for the first time ever cheated on me and i was so frustrated (i didn’t know he cheated yet) and i told him i wanted a break and he told me hed rather just break up and he said its not me and i deserve better (all the stuff) and he was like weee can be friends and stuff and i told him i don’t want to be friends i still love him and we can fix it and then i talked to him again and told him i love him and want to be with him and hes all like IM A LOSER, IM NEVER GOING TO COLLEGE, I CHEATED ON YOU, IM DONE F**** TRYING so then i finally accepted it and i started dating a new guy CUZ HE TOOOLLLD ME to move on and now hes saying the reason we broke up all my fault he called me a fake bi*ch and he was cursing me out for a few days and i was just taking it and crying and i told him to stop a million times and i told him how much he hurt me and i told him i want to be friends and to stop fighting and he said i don’t know so then i said well if you really have to think about that then F*** you and you can have it your way im never going to talk to you again and we haven’t talked since and its been a week (longest we have ever gone without talking EVER)
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I am 18 years old and I have been with this girl for 4 years. We did everything together during highschool. We told eachother that we love eachother after 3 months and have been ever since. But something happend. I lied to her about me trying pot and i have been truthful ever since and i have never cheated on her or anything. We had planned on moving together in an apartment together while going to college, which were doing right now. 1 week after we moved in she said that she wants to leave cuz i got mad at her for telling her mom that i broke her computer and i was only mad cuz i was like is it really necessary to tell your mom everything? Then we decided that we arent right for eachother. Basically what happend was that i changed into someone that i am not and she fell out of love with the new changed me.I am trying to show her that the person she fell out of love with wasnt the real me.I think she has a friend that is coaxing her to forget me and move on. that friend doesnt know me
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I ask this because it adds on to the misandry that is accepted in today’s society. (An example of that misandry would be this link, although it is used to sell Dodge Rams http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-NpIMOMXAJY . Women may think it’s funny but if it was a man doing this, it would have to be taken off the air. (Guaranteed.)
My mother never did this. She would say good and bad things about my father and even herself but did explain to me why they broke up (which was a "dead-beats" decision done by him.). She didn’t try to turn my mind against my father, who I don’t really have a "relationship" with (by my own choosing for personal reasons) but respect because he is my father.
So let me ask, do you single mothers or remarried mothers make your ex husbands to be total devils and yourselves (even if you were the cause of the break-up) out to be angels or do you share both the good and bad between you both?
Because I wanted to know about mothers. Not about fathers at the moment since I know answers may be different by genders. If you want, you can beat me to making that question. Please stop making "comparative" answers.
unavailable. your father sounds like mine. I’m going to college now and trying to become a criminal lawyer….22, almost 23, years of age, and now he is calling me saying, "You don’t know how to call me?" What happened to the other 20 years of my life, lol…? Couldn’t pick up the phone then? When I graduated high school, he told my mother "You should make him go straight to work." My mother never talked bad about him either because he spoke for himself.
Good point, cope_acetic. It’s just that many single mothers have a lot of influence on their children at younger ages and they don’t know what questions to ask or how to think about the answers. It’s like, for example, if I had a child (Maybe 5 – 12) and I said, "Your mother is a selfish jerk and I’m glad I divorced her before she got a hold of my money.", I’d be pretty sure that my child would automatically take my side of the story without listening to hers.
Maria H, I know someone who has turned against her mother because her mother told her, when she was younger, to never speak to her father because her father would try to make himself look good and herself look bad. When she got older and confronted her father, her father told her the whole story and even admitted up to his cheating habits. She told the class (it was a religious studies class and we were just randomly talking before it started) that they had a tearful reunion and now she despises her mother since her mother said, "I told you not to talk to him."
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She fucking hates me now and she won’t talk to me at all. I mentally lost it for a while. We are both going to college about 2500 miles away, and i’m training to become a Marine. She has blocked me on skype, facebook, and all forms of communication. I love this girl and i’ll do absolutely anything to get her back. What should i do?
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