I just went through a breakup a little over a week ago and I want a song that will tell my ex that he’s gonna regret it BIG TIME. Preferably songs about how he missed out on a good thing and a really good girl + no one’s gonna do what I did for him. Please help! Thank you : )
Ok so I had a girlfriend last year in the middle of June 2008. We met through a site and I was 16 at the time and she was 15. She lived (and still does) about 50 mins away from me. We of course, flirted and eventually met. We met at a movie theater near where I live and made out. It was my first kiss and it was the best night of my life.
She’s a very good girl: smart, funny, attractive, etc. and she trusts me with a lot as she told me about issues she’s going through with her family and friends and so on. I was the best boyfriend I could be and always made sure my baby was ok. I listened to her and comforted her and everything like that.
So we were going out for about a month until she told me that she had to go to a different state because her parents enrolled her into some educational thing for business. Before she left, she promised me that she would msg me through the site we met on in order to keep in touch. She arrived to her destination and we still messaged each other and texted. But, as time went on, I didnt hear back from her for a while. I would leave her a comment on her page on the site showing my love for her and I guess she would delete it as to not let it show to page visiters. BUT, her friends’ comments were still there. I thought something was up and even when we instant messaged, she would be very short word responsed and she just seemed a little different.
So a couple of days later I started to IM her. I left her a couple of IMs hinting that something felt wrong to me. I got no response but she was online though. So, I felt maybe she was ignoring me, so I said some short last IM that signaled that I was going to sign off. But right before I could she responded and asked me what was going on.
I told her what I felt and that we only met once and it’s tough to see her because of the distance. So I broke up with her that night and we agreed to just be friends.
Now, that was all in the month of June. A couple of months later, sometime during September of October, she started to talk to me again through the site. We caught up to see how each other’s lives had been during the silent months and she told me she had a bf. I was single at the time, but she said that she really wants to leave him and be with me instead because she had never met a caring and selfless guy like myself before. She told me that she’s with him because his parents told her that he is suicidal and that she could make him happy. I know right? Isnt that kind of weird?
So, she was already his friend and so they started going out.
So her and I were IM’ing and she was talking about this whole thing. Then it hit me, she randomly blurted out the topic of sex. I was really caught offguard.
She asked me all of these questions and everything through IM and she told me she wants to have sex with me. I of course agreed. Why not? The average 16 year old would have. Plus she’s gorgeous. So, we started talking about it and about the next time we would see each other. BUT everything changed.
All of a sudden when we were IM’ing she said "wait, dont say anything, my bf is here. dont type or anything."
Me- "ok. whats going on? why is he there?"
Her- "We’re gonna get busy. I’ll ttyl"
I was lik WTF!?!? I questioned her why and she told me that I got her horny and it was why he was there. I was humiliated. She signed off and came back in about 15 mins.
She even described exactly how it happened even when I told her not to!
I didnt know what got into her! She never seemed that way at all! I was in shock and I though about it for the rest of the day. it was a mess.
So, I still talked to her and she told me that her bf broke up with her the next day because she referred to him by using my name instead of his because I was on her mind. I don’t really believe it, but yeah
So now its April 2009. Things have changed and she just left another guy because he didnt know how to treat her like a bf would. So she’s single. Ive been single this whole time lol
So we are talking again and we want to meet each other again. She’s apologized for what happened earlier countless times and I really believe she’s sorry for what she did. We havent declared that we will try to go out or anything, but should we?
I know that she’s done a lot that hurt me, but I feel healed and it happened in the past. It doesn’t really bother me anymore, because if I was "in the mood’ like she was, I probably would have done the same exact thing. Was it wrong for her to have sex with that guy? He was technically her bf at the time after all, and I wasn’t her bf at the time so it isn’t her fault is it?
Out of all the girls I’ve talked to she’s been the most caring and charismatic out of all of them. I really want to see her again, and we will very soon, but do you think we should give it another shot?
Men love to be single (I get it, more flavors of ice cream) but if you are with a really great good girl, aren’t you afraid of losing her. And if you’re the girl, how do you let him know that?
When my ex met me, he knew he wanted a gf and worked very hard to get me. I was "selfish" and very content w. being single and was cautious of being in a relationship but through time, came to find that he was loyal and the long term type who cared and respected me very much. He loved that i was not like other girls. I’m the "good girl" and completely different than all his exes who were "high maintinence" and b*tchy. He loved how i was confident, independent, smart, knew who i was and what I wanted in life, educated and will graduate soon and into a career, classy, mannered, and funny. I also loved being intimate w him and loyally to him 
I’m not too bad to look at either (his friends thought i was pretty) and right away, introduced me to all his friends, family and they liked me (they were grateful he found a good girl like me). I was a good girlfriend – we both have busy schedules and I NEVER chased him at all but did nice things for him now and then. I never held him back if he wanted time w. his car, video games, or friends – always gave him space and freedom. I always respected him, appreciated him for who he was and what he did to me but if there was ever a time i felt disrespected I stood my ground. I never nagged or criticized him at all.
Within the last few weeks my intuition told me something was off and no matter how much I talked w. him, he assured me everything was fine and how much he wanted to be with me. He was still affectionate and consistent in calling me but felt he wasn’t "there". He wasn’t giving me the sincere respect and attention I deserved. And now, he broke up w. me b/c of his indecisiveness, immaturity, insecurity, and infatuation. I was nothing but infatuation for him. He wants to be alone, no gf, no work, no spark, doesn’t wanna try…how can you not try if having a good girl and all that is here? I don’t wanna get married anytime soon, I’m not pressuring him to be "super serious", i just want a loyal, committed bf. And if there is no other "3rd party", then he didn’t even wanna try w. me? Being on the inside, i never knew (or cared so much) for people’s reactions. Apparently, our mutual friends thought it was "strange" that the "princess was dating the bum" and how "she’s seems to be too mature for him" but were happy he finally "had a princess". And fr. what people say, he still doesn’t know who he is or what he really wants; very immature and can’t think for himself and is easily influenced by his friends. We’re nearing our mid 20′s and i’m more mature than most girls my age (anyway) and he seems to be content w. his friends who have no ambition in life (and possible influenced him tht he’s always w. me, getting jealous but little did they know..). His best friend thinks he’s "stupid" for letting go of a "good catch" like me and that i’ll be the "best girl he’ll ever get". What’s confusing was tht I know he still cared – still consistent w. hugs, kisses, cuddles, taking care of me and phone calls but was distracted. Also, i’m VERY different than all his exes. Will he regret this?
note- for those of you who dont care to read the DETAILS or want to get to the point the question is at the bottom, seperated…
Well obviously there are so many different relationship and so many details but,
from anyone reading this’ experiences and knowledge, I have a question…
My girlfriend left me about a month ago… no infidelity, no abuse… It’s just that for over a year
I never got a job, never shaped up, and let myself go a bit. You know, drama, not wanting her to drink even though she’s a good girl even when she drinks, being a jerk sometimes, not fully appreciating her or treating her the best I could. Now we were really in love, we lived together, my mom also came to live with us and passed away unexpectedly a few weeks later… My girl was by my side this whole time and only knew my mom for a few months but they were close and my mom really wanted me to marry my girl… Well things got worse not better I became worse she lost her house we stayed here and there and then her mom ran into an old friend and it came to be my girl would stay with a family and babysit here and there… well, we were kind of having an off period, but were still loyal to eachother and slept together, but i became more and more needy… more crazed,
more pissed about never seeing her and not being able to date her, blah blah blah- because I need a job, I need to pull it together… she’s gave up on me before for worse, and ive won her back… but this time its more serious, and she has a better place than me to live, her quality of life has improved, she’s probably more pampered than she has been in years… but due to my sometimes crazy nature, i never got the phone number or even knew where the house was.. thats how weird i got… I NEVER was violent though just emotional i guess… so anyway naturally she got tired of waiting around for me to get a job and broke it off entirely… ive seen her once since then… we were kind of friends but i blew that with my crying and constant need to not break up… it could have just been space… now she wants nothing to do with me and on the phone called me a creep and a loser and that she hates me but she was really drunk and i guess i havent really respected her wants…
she says she still loves me of course, but it will never work. however I have reached a point where im ready to get sober get full time job and show her i can change… so far ive managed to leave her alone completely for four days… and its been very hard…
so ! my question is…
Is there a real chance that if I leave her alone, act like I’m over it, be pleasant if I do talk to her,
and get a JOB, get some dignity back, that maybe she will rethink things?
Obviously, I’ve led her to believe I’ll never change… she would tell me if other men were involved its nothing like that… so if i did change she would have to look at it all a bit differently eh?
Have any women reading this taking back men they never thought would change that turned out great? Any guys here won the girl back against all odds??? What should I do here?
Besides move on? I really really love her… I need all the help and advice I can get…
What’s the best way to be sexy, appealing, boyfriend material to her again?
Thank you all for your time…
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