So, I’m a pretty nice, chill, laid-back guy. I’ve got a good heart, and unfortunately in my last relationship, my ex just kept taking advantage of my niceness. We dated from May until November of this year. It started with little things. Over the summer I would take her out for nice dinners, and she’d rarely manage to say a simple "thank you." Same with coffee/desserts when we’d meet up. Instead of thanking me for paying for her, she’d get angry and yell at me and tell me that if I pay for her she’s just going home? Then I have a friend that could get me New York Mets tickets in the front two rows, on days when he didn’t want to use them. So whenever he couldn’t use them, I would get them, and I would invite her, and never once did she come along, or thank me for offering them to her. For some reason I kept letting these things slide. Then, once we went away to college things got worse (we are at different schools). For her birthday in July I got her fairly expensive gold bracelet. For my birthday in September I got….nothing!! Not even a card….She called me, but still- not even a card? Come on! Then as time went on, she just was rude on the phone- as if she was PMS’ing, except all the time, but she said she still loved me and that she wanted to be together. I had had enough of her at that point, so I ended things. In the future though, how do I stop these types of problems earlier?!
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