So, I am 23, and my husband is 27. We always get invited to his brothers house who is 25-26 and his wifes house who is also 23.. they have three kids, and we have one daughter.. well every weekend they invite us to go over to their house because they are "partying" with some friends and drinking whatever.. well we hardly go, but when we do go, I don’t drink and I make the night short.. (not past 9pm) so i feel bad for my husband because he wants to hang out with his brother.. but i want to get my daughter home bathed and fed and in bed at a decent hour now have her out all hours of the night so my husband can party with his brother. i understand that he doesn’t get to see him much.. but I mean.. i rather be a good parent and we made a commitment to our child when we decided to have children.. I want to be a responsible parent.. but I don’t want my husband feeling held back either.. how can I compromise with this situation?
by the way, my daughter is only 6 months.. she doesn’t do "nap" times and my husband would never "do something" to my daughter while she is sleeping.. that is just gross
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We had a HUGE FIGHT it ended with me fighting another woman…finding out i was pregnant and being so very depressed! Oh and now i am single. He broke up with me he called me crazy for fighting the girl. She kept pushing herself onto him and i had had enough so i lashed out. But now i am basically in need of getting him back. I allowed him to take my happiness. I need him back in order to get that back. So do you have any positive suggestions. Please do not judge me for you do not know our struggle. Just suggestions on how we could work on getting back together.
this is actually my first fight! i never lose my cool
as i see i am being judged anyway…we were together for 3 1/2 years i never got out of control as i did that day. we barely argued. We were happy and if we were not i would not fight so hard to get him back. it was an act of rage and anger and my self esteem i too thought was higher than what it turned out to be. I will be a good mother regardless of what the father turns out to be. Nevertheless he will be a great father. Husband im not so sure. We were engaged. I do not cause much drama nor do i like to be involved in any. So all of this is out of my element and i am just using this as a tool to express my feelings right now. Again please don’t judge me. I have enough people doing that. Thank you
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