I was in a marriage of 24 years. When I met him..he kept things from me for like 6 months. Big things like he had been married..had 2 children..wasnt divorced but just separated. We of course had sex within that time..so he cheated on her..In time of course I found out about it and told him to go back to his family. They couldnt get along so he came back to me. Within time..they divorced. He said he finalized the divorce. As years go on..she let me know that he wouldnt have ever divorced if she wouldnt have finalized it. We ended up having 3 children of our own. They are now..21, 18 and 16. My 2 oldest ones are boys and are in the Marines. My youngest is still at home. This year we divorced. Before my divorce became final..I met and fell in love with a guy..who was also married. He told me that he was divorcing. I believed him. We seen each other for 6 months and my divorce finalized. His wife pulled out all that she could and talked him into coming back home. Although he no longer sees me or talks to me ..from mutual friends at work..he still isnt happy at home and continues to talk about divorcing her. Since then..I had gotten laid off and brought back to part time. There wasnt any way I could make it on my own at part time. My ex husband told me I could come back. So I did. He now tries so hard to make me love him again. He even tries to buy me back..a car..flowers..but I cant or wont be bought back. We are better friends now than ever but I dont love him any more. He wants sex but I refuse to do that when I dont love him any more. I feel wrong for living here and not love him. I dont want to use him. But what do I do? My family is gone. Parents have passed with cancer..grandparents are gone. Friends are married..dont want to push in on them. People tell me to use him because of the bad years that we had together of his drinking and fighting but ..its not in me to do that and yet in reality that is what I am doing. But if I could make it on my own..I wouldnt be here. Any suggestions? Please dont be mean..I know sometimes the truth hurts but some people just like to be mean. Thanks for your time.
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My boyfriend has an expired visa. It’s been expired for 5 years now. His mom didn’t renew his visa and didn’t work his papers that’s why he is having a lot of trouble. We don’t want him deported. And we want that his status would be legal. Would marrying him give him a green card? Coz my grandparents said that marriage cannot change a visa’s status anymore.
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I know about karma, my great-great-great-grandparents practiced voodo. I JUST NEED PEOPLE TO ANSWER MY QUESTION. IF YOU’RE GOING TO TELL ME ITS NOT REAL, THEN YOU CAN KEEP THAT BECAUSE I KNOW OTHERWISE… IF YOU’RE GOING TO GIVE ME A SPEECH ABOUT MOVING ON, I’VE ALREADY TRIED THAT. I KNOW WHAT I WANT TO DO. I need something really strong a potent. It needs to WORK… Come on people give me something to work with (literally). There is somebody else in the picture also that I need to get rid of.
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I am recently married and love my husband. We both came to the marrige with children and are now expecting one of our own. My daughter was six months old and her bio father never wanted anything to do with her. His four year old hardly spent time with him and her mother, she was always at the babysitters or her grandparents’. Her mother wants to get back with my husband and is working this through the child. The four year old has never been taught manners and is mean to my daughter. How can i deal with this situation. I love his daughter and want to see her and her dad together but she doesn’t like me or my daughter. WHAT CAN I DO??
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I have recently become engaged to my fiance. We would like to get married on a date this summer (which is special to us) which is approximately 4 mos. away. We are planning on having a destination wedding, in a neighboring state, with only parents, grandparents & siblings attending. Because our engagement is so short, we have (understandably) been finding it hard & stressful to book a reception site, find a DJ etc… to have a marriage celebration, for just after we return from our honeymoon. I personally think that it is tacky & odd to celebrate 3-6 mos later (which is when places would start to have availability in our area). What are some thoughts on having a one year marriage celebration for all of our friends and family to gather together and celebrate our joys of our first year? We are an established couple in our late 20s and do not need gifts, showers etc… and will probably not be registering for such. We also do not want to wait until next summer as we have been together for sometime, and are saving ourselves until our wedding night.
This is not a traditional wedding and therefor does not follow traditional wedding etiquette. This is a destination wedding…where there are no clearly established etiquette rules. I want this day to truly be ours and make the both of us happy…I don’t want to follow "etiquette" to please others, rather than ourselves. I am not looking for whether or not this follows etiquette…just what peoples overall thoughts are.
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Thank you for all of the positive comments and advice so far.
Yeah…I really don’t want it to look like a "second wedding" and understand that it is not considered a reception after the wedding day. I don’t care about the showers, bachelorette parties etc… although I am not sure how my friends will feel…and they may decide to still do it anyway 
I do not plan to wear my wedding dress to the one year party, if we do go through with this plan. I do just want to be able to make friends & extended family feel included in the process and be able to gather together to celebrate =D
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