I was an idiot, now I think she wants to break up. Please! How can I fix this?

I’ve been dating this girl for 5 months now, I’m 18 and she’s 16. We are quite close, I even told her a thing about myself I’ve never told anyone before.

But one day, when we kissed good-bye, I thought we’d came far enough to go deeper into the kiss, so I went for a French. She didn’t react, and the next day I apologized and she forgave me. Now, about 2 weeks later, she just E-mailed me, saying she feels like her heart’s ripped in 2 and nothing feels right after the kiss. I’ve had a really hard date life and can already see the hurt coming; she wants to break up.

But, I love her- I mean really love her. I know the difference and she is nothing at all like my past 2 relationships. She makes my day with just a smile. And the thing making my date life so hard isn’t my fault. I’m a mess due to a disorder, which makes socializing hard for me. (I’m deaf, mute, and have a tube in my throat for breathing to name a couple things) And since I started dating her, I’ve been recovering of things that just don’t heal. Like paralysis, I couldn’t move my face. But after dating her, I started getting movement back suddenly. It took me a lot of guts to ask her out, and I thought we’d be together a few years, at least. But she seems to want to break up. Please, is there anything I can say to her to try changing her mind?
And I’m a really nice guy too. That kiss was unlike me to do. I just don’t know why I did that without asking her about it first.


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I hear “I don’t believe in Evolution because I don’t understand it” a LOT on Y!A. Question: Have you TRIED to?

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Why, if you do not believe in Evolution because you feel life is “Too Complicated”, do you spend hours reading the bible, watching sitcoms, talking on the phone, researching that recipe, downloading porn… Whatever you spend hour after hour doing, just to kill time, yet you refuse to take even a single hour out of your life to use the SAME SEARCH ENGINE that led you to that “Perfect” pair of pants at GAP to even TRY and understand the basis of ALL LIFE on this planet?

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To me, saying “I don’t believe in Evolution because I don’t understand it” is like saying “I think Microwaves run on magic because I don’t understand it.”

When I questioned how a microwave worked, I sat down at my computer and turned on Discovery Science Channel, and I did some research and now I get the GENERAL principals behind how a microwave works.

The SAME can be done for the topic of Evolution. There is even a show on History Channel called “Evolve” that, every week, describes the different aspects that most carbon based life forms share and explains how they came about…

I’m watching the episode on “Skin” right now… I have “Sex”, “Guts”, & “Eyes” on my DVR…

I have taken half an hour out of my life to set my DVR to record some shows about evolution, and now I have a better understanding of the process of evolution and how ALL life on earth is connected through the evolution of various components… I have a MONTH’S worth of episodes on my DVR right now and instead of “Channel Surfing” and finding mindless sitcoms or reality TV shows to watch, I’m sitting down and watching a documentary on evolution.

After that? The last new episode of Modern Marvels about the most dangerous roads.
After that? I might watch America’s Test Kitchen.
After that? The secret lives of women form Oxygen.
After that? The South Park episode called “The Losing Edge”.

I have taken some free time and gone to http://www.livescience.com and I have read their articles on Evolution… Again, I’m not an “Expert” but now I have an even deeper understanding of how you can take a basic structure like keratin and tweak it to form hair, feathers, scales… How each animal on earth seems completely different from each other yet each aspect of our bodies is merely a tweak on a single basic design.

I’m not an “Expert” now that I have watched a few documentaries and read some articles, but now I at least UNDERSTAND how these processes are POSSIBLE… NOW I can start to connect the dots when I read/see even more NEXT week…

THAT is why I believe that Evolution is plausible and real…

I have put forth the same effort to understand the Christian bible… I have read it, I have studied it, I have gone in and put the same effort in to understanding the basis for a major religion and it just doesn’t hold up.

Creation is basically saying “Things are too complicated so that means a god must have been involved.” Yet when you do the most superficial study of Evolution, you see that it isn’t so complicated…

Saying that ANYTHING is “Too complicated” to understand is a cop out because you’re unwilling to take the time to do even the most superficial research on a topic…

I know people that won’t even bake a TURKEY because they say it is “Too Complicated” and such defeatist attitudes make me ILL!

Turning a blind eye to SIMPLE DOCUMENTATION because you are afraid that comprehension of a topic will make Baby Jesus Cry is NOT “Refuting Evidence” against evolution.

Using your own willful ignorance as your REASON behind not ‘believing’ a scientific reality goes against the whole scientific method…


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Metalheads Read This?

Though i bet most of you have already seen this, i wish to post it anyway for lawls, tell me what you think

* POWER METAL
The protagonist arrives riding a white unicorn, escapes from the dragon, saves the princess and makes love to her in an enchanted forest.

* THRASH METAL
The protagonist arrives, fights the dragon, saves the princess and fucks her.

* HEAVY METAL
The protagonist arrives on a Harley, kills the dragon, drinks a few
beers and fucks the princess.

* FOLK METAL
The protagonist arrives with some friends playing acordions, violins, flutes and many more weird instruments, the dragon falls asleep (because of all the dancing). Then they all leave…….. without the princess.

* VIKING METAL
The protagonist arrives in a ship, kills the dragon with his mighty axe, skins the dragon and eats it, rapes the princess to death, steals her belongings and burns the castle before leaving.

* DEATH METAL
The protagonist arrives, kills the dragon, fucks the princess and kills her, then leaves.

* BLACK METAL
The protagonist arrives at midnight, kills the dragon and impales it in front of the castle. Then he sodomizes the princess, drinks her blood in a ritual before killing her. Then he impales the princess next to the dragon.

* GORE METAL
The protagonist arrives, kills the dragon and spreads his guts in front of the castle, fucks the princess and kills her. Then he fucks the dead body again, slashes her belly and eats her guts. Then he fucks the carcass for the third time, burns the corpse and fucks it for the last time.

* GRIND METAL
The protagonist arrives, screams something completely undecipherable for about 2 minutes and then leaves…

* DOOM METAL
The protagonist arrives, sees the size of the dragon and thinks he could never beat him, then he gets depressed and commits suicide. The dragon eats his body and the princess as dessert. Thats the end of the sad story.

* GOTHIC METAL
The princess in a velvet costume starts singing soprano. The protagonist completes the duet by adding the beast part, while the dragon plays the flute. Suddenly he swallows up the pipe and accidently scorches the beauty and the beast and suffocates to death. All their souls are damned in hell’s eternity.

* PROGRESSIVE METAL
The protagonist arrives with a guitar and plays a solo of 26 minutes. The dragon kills himself out of boredom. The protagonist arrives to the princess’ bedroom, plays another solo with all the techniques and tunes he learned in the last year of the conservatory. The princess escapes looking for the HEAVY METAL protagonist.

* INDUSTRIAL METAL
The protagonist arrives wearing greasy overcoat, makes obscene gestures towards dragon, and gets escorted out of fairy tale land by security guards.

* SPEED METAL
Suddenly there, short solo, dragon is confused, someone’s screaming weird stuff, princess realizes she’s been deflowered, dragon and princess are still looking for the one who did this.

* CHRISTIAN METAL
The protagonist rides in on his way home from church and sings a mushy power ballad to the dragon about how much Jesus loves him and that the dragon should turn to Him. The Dragon is immediately converted, and when the princess wants to thank the protagonist he replies, "Sorry, but I don’t believe in having sex before marriage."

* GLAM METAL
The protagonist arrives, the dragon laughs at the guy’s appearance and lets him enter. He steals the princess’ make up and tries to paint the castle in a beautiful pink colour.

* BATTLE METAL
The protagonist arrives with a legion of a hundred brave footmen, war chariots and a dozen elite warriors and, as a master tactician, flanks the dragon in a bloody siege that lasts six hours. The princess gets bored.

* NU METAL
The protagonist arrives in a run down Honda Civic and attempts to fight the dragon but he burns to death when his moronic baggy clothes catch fire.

* EMO
The protagonist sees the dragon and moans about how hard it will be to get the princess to fall in love with him. He gets eaten. The princess is very happy, because he was a whiny dork anyway.

* GRUNGE
The protagonist doesn’t get eaten by the dragon because he stinks too much from not washing his hair in months. The princess won’t go near him either, and he ends up dying on the town hall steps with the other grungers due to the over consumption of white cider.

* POP-PUNK
The dragon can’t eat the protagonist because he can’t catch him because he keeps bouncing up and down. The princess won’t fuck him either, because he likes ska.
Avucular, what does that have to do with anything, and yes this has been around a while so you may have seen it already


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how do you recover from betraying you girlfriend?

i was in a happy relationship for about a month when my hormones took over and i made the worst mistake of my life – sleeping with my girlfriend’s best friend.

we obviously broke up, but i want to know if there is a way to recover from this. all her friends basically tell me to lay down and die, and most of my friends hate my guts too. sometimes she talks like there is nothing wrong, other times, she really concerns me.

i know what i did is almost unforgivable, and she has every reason to never want to see me again, but i realize the mistake i made and want to try to heal our friendship.

serious answers please


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PLease I really need your advices!?

Ok! I always felt in my heart that my husband was cheating on me…he was acting weird, he’s crazy busy all the time, he never made time for me, never calls me or text me. My husband is a Bounty Hunter and a Private Investigator therefore for me to follow him or hire someone to catch him was almost impossible. #1 because of the kind of job my husband has he is always on the phone! Every time the phone rings he goes downstairs and runs his mouth on the phone! My husband is always on the phone!
#2 My husband always keep his phone on him, at night when he is sleeping the phone is always near him, under his pillow I mean he never leave the phone out of his site!
He locks his phone! he wont give me his voice mail password! He wont give me his e-mail password! These are the reason why I had these guts feeling about my husband cheating on me! I am a open book I have no secrets with my husband and he was never so secretive when we got married. But why can’t I believe that my husband could ever sleep with another women! I just can’t believe he is capable of doing something like this.
I asked God please i’m going crazy if my husband is cheating on me please send me a sign I need to know!
My sister was driving her truck, I was on the passenger side and my husband in the back and I saw him texting someone and when i turned my head again I saw the picture of a beautiful girl on his phone!
I was like who is that? he said no one! he denied knowing who she was. Later on he confessed to me and said that he met the girl when he was working as a security person at a club! He gave her his business card and she texted him and he said he just love the attention. He said nothing happened between them and that was the 1st time and only time he ever texted a girl! Please you guys what should I do…gosh this man wont tell me the truth! Oh and the worst thing is when we were talking about the situation I asked him to see his phone and check his messages but he didn’t want me to touch his phone!
What should I do I want to save my marriage!


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