This one guy, i used to like, and i’m defensive against guys( not on purpose, a childhood/father thing, bad relationship) and i told him i didn’t like the music he was liked, and we used to be good friends but not anymore, and i feel really bad bc i don’t want him to think i hate him, and i don’t like like him like that but i wouldn’t mind just saying hi in the halls and stuff, and i cant ever like talk to him about that though because he has a girlfriend and i don’t want her to think that im coming on to him or something because i’m not, i just feel really bad about it, and i don’t want him to think im mean, so what do you think>
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well it was say 6 months ago we broke up and i deleted him of msn and everything and i havent really seen him since
um the other day he was over my friends house his a guy friend and he was talking to me over his msn
and saying his sorry etc and that i should add him again
the thing is his got a girlfriend and his had actually several after me
and the thing is he really really liked me so it kind of surprised me when he dumped me
anyways how could i make him jelous you know with display picture names on my personal message thing etc what coudl i do ??
and plz don’t tell me to move on or whateva just help me with the msn thing
and i would love to become like good friends with him too i guess.
thanks :]
guys answer plz and you haven’t really answerd
i wanna know what to put in display picture me with guys in the photo or just me or me with my girls
or my personal message thing what should i say in it
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ok so me and my guy friend like each other(well liked)
he asked me out i said no because i don’t want a boyfriend right now after i just got out a relationship
I told him next year i’ll be ready to date
He always telling me things like oh i’ll wait for you until i have you, i don’t want another girl your the only one for me, your perfect in every way, i love you etc..
But now he dating another girl and i feel like he lied to me just so he could date me
now he tells me a lot of girls he use to flirt with are mad at him now?
Was he just tricking me into dating him(he has trouble finding a girl that likes him)
What do you think?
OH! now he’s ignoring me because he has a girl friend we were really close now it feels like i never existed, and i was nothing but another girl for im to date.
Im so confused and he is like oh im not the type of guy to lie to girls to get in there pants or soo on…
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I’m 17. I known my ex since 2008. He’s 20. He started off as nice & sweet. He ended up becoming jealous, controlling, and possessive of me because he’s insecure.
He accused of me sleeping with other guys when I was a virgin at the time. He got angry if I had a guy friend. He’s gotten in my face to tell me to "shut the f’uck up". He would always boss me around & curse at me.
He would point out my flaws. He spoke down to me and made me feel bad about having a small chest. He’s made me feel so bad about myself that I hate the way I look & can’t stand to look at pics of myself.
I dumped him & told him to get lost. He eventually left me alone. He came back a month ago and was being really sweet. I thought he changed. I fell for it.
I ended up losing my virginity to him. I did it to please him and b/c he pressured me into it. I didn’t want to. He’s being a jerk to me again. I asked him a normal question and he started cussing at me & threatening me & got angry. It scared the crap out of me. I’m scared he’s going to hit me or something.
I want to tell him to get lost but I know he’s going to become really angry and be mean.
If I ignore his texts or block him on facebook, he’ll try to contact me one way or the other and won’t leave me alone.
Our relationship is toxic.
What’s the best way to get away from him?
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I dated a guy and distance got in the way
its just too hard to travel 2.5 hours each way when both people have busy lives.
but we stayed friends for 15 months since dating.
when i got a new bf 6 months ago my long distance friend said he finally realized he adored me and wanted to date again
this was frustrating and he started calling me all the time
it may have undermined and contributed to my new relationship ending after just 5 months
(i broke up with my bf 1 month ago. he seemed in shock and although he was no angel he really did care for me a lot and said the break up stunned him
he still calls me a couple times a week just to talk about nothing in particular)
anyway when i broke up with my bf i also found a new job transfer came thru.
to SAME city my guy friend is in !
we got excited and planned a big date
well i know of course he was seeing other girls while i had a bf.
anyway we had such a perfect date, our chemistry was instant and strong.
lots of pdas and then lots of kissing on his sofa at his house.
that was 5 days ago
now were apart again but talking like we always do.
just this week 3 long phone calls and 45 texts on facebook.
he knows im both busy with minor surgery and traveling wiht work until i move to his city july 4th
i know he will want to stay in touch every day possible like we did when we were ‘just’ friends.
im afraid this is bad.
im thinking to limit our conduct and not act like his buddy online.
just limit contact until i move there.
he treats me more like a romantic interest in person or on the phone but more like a buddy on emails/aim/fb chat.
(sometimes sends a :* but thats it
is this cruel or smart ?
well one BIG reason I m thinking this is th ebest tactic is that he HIMSELF stated that he doesnt know how to appreciate how much he loves someone and how much they mean until he feels like hes LOST them
when i got a boyfriend that was a wake up call
but we are in contact so much online (he always iniates) that it feels like we’re an old married couple or brother sister
i truly believe there needs to be a revived spark of mystery and distance so he can SEE that im this fun sexy cool woman who also is a good friend BUT even better gf.
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