well i lost the girl i really love because of how i acted no not imature i acted like an asshole i really treated her bad the first year of our relationship was awesome like not really fghts just little arguments then it grew more and more were she would get jealous of any little think thats when it took me into effect and started acting like a total bitch we then started going on and off on and off i would always tell her i would change but actually didint it was just so she could come back so my mission to get her back started this august the 5 since then i have changed and i have been fighting for her but she does not want to come back and on oct the 11 was gonna be our anniversary well it was about to be two years and we only have two months broken up i want to know what can i do to fix everything…..i wannna know does she still love me or like?? … what are some signs i can use to see if she does or what might she want i need a guys point of view does that care about feelings not an asshole and a girls point of view that same thing plz i really?? need ppls help to get this girl back
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big rift in our relationship esp when he d go out with them& conveniently not invite me, or when he d hug up on them &talk dirty, or kiss them(on the cheek). He broke up with me in nov 2007 cause i was too jealous, but we still talked on the ph, in dec he found out i wasnt really divorce(even though separated), he changed his number, and i wouldnt let up, we started talking again 1 wk later & cont till april. Will from dec through april he told he still loved me but we could never be together till i was truly divorced… I didnt get a divorce, but he finally met up with me this past april by that time i had gained 15 lbs. i wanted to wait till i lost wght, but i was stubborn and saw him anyway and i told him like a dumb A he nds to choose tween me or girl friends.. And no lie, the next day, he told me he just wanted to be friends. do u think he sd that cause of the weight, or cause of the friend thing. and what should i do, how can i get him back.
thanks trysta, it really helps hearing it fr a guys point of view, i guess. it just really gets to me cus this guy is 44, hes been there done that, divorced after 18 yrs(&cheated at least with 6 girls during his marriage), and still its not out of his system… i love him so much, i wish i could let him go for good, but i always think about him, its been 6 months, and i cant let him go.
sorry meant thanks, bart is in the house.
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we was going out for almost 2 years and broken up for 5 motnhs now we talk everday for 2 months straight. well on friday we got into a fight ova the phone and he said that it was best for us not to talk nomore then the day b4 yesterday he im in yahoo saying if i still wanted to talk to him so i was confussed i thought he didn’t want to talk . well i love him and he says that he still love me too but not as stronger as we was b4 when we got together we still talk but im confussed i hurt him in the past when we was going out and i told him and he stood by me but 9 months lata he left .we both still care for each other i haven’t seen him since febuary 15 and well im just confussed he says that he wants to achive his dream b4 settling down again he says he don’t want a gurl because its too much worries but he said that he do think there is still hope 4 us in the future please help me i think he is confussed guys what do u think its up with him? he acts as if he still wants me sometimes
b4 he didn’t want me to date other guys and he use to try to comtrol me like if he was still with me i don’t know what to do i feel that if i leave again he might not come back to me apart of me wants to go but a part of me tells me that we could still work out the love we still have with us rite now i don’t know what to do please help im confussed. what do u think about him what up with him guys is u answer let me know for a guys point of view please
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