so it’s been forever since i referred to yahoo!answers for advice
i’m hoping for a great welcome back ^_^
anyway!! it’s about my friend and i
i think i made our relationship bad b/c my day got really really busy
and they thought i was ignorning them when really i just didn’t have time
well; they said i’ve been heartless and whatever but i don’t want to be! and i don’t think i’ve been! so i wrote a letter explaining everything but they got extremely mad at me! and idk y! and they tried to act like i was "playing" them or whatever which hurt my feelings because i was being honest! and we didn’t talk for 3 days then somehow we were working on something in class and i asked them something and that’s how we started talking again; but now they’re mad atme again! i don’t even know why! and they won’t reply my texts or even look at me in the hallway! what would YOU do?
thanks all!
im very loyal btw.
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