ok so me and my ex bf dated for six months and he was the sweetest,funniest guy ive ever met and hes kinda nerdy but i love that about him…we had some fights in the last few months but i thought we were okay..but then he sent me a text saying we cant go out anymore because he cant be in a relationship where he doesnt act like himself ..i still dont get what he means by that bcuz i loved his normal self and never asked him to change or nething and ppl told me that mayb he wanted more freedom or watever but he really did have plenty of that …then the day we came back from the weekend hes already flirting with another girl but she is a huge **** .and totally not his type and hes just going to get hurt but he says he likes her and everything but found out shes a big flirt but he wont give up on her …its been about 3 weeks since we broke up and ive started getting over him a little bit .i tried liking other guys but the guy i did like asked out sumone a week ago soo tht made me feel worse ..me and my ex are trying to be friends and it is really working but my feelings for him are more than friends and i want soo much to get back together with him and im not some desperate ex gf who just wants to get back with him ..i just still have a ton of feelings for him ..i tell everyone im over him and i guess i thought i would make myself believe it too but i cant ..everytime i see him in the hallway i wish i was there right next to him but then it really doesnt help bcuz hes always talking to girls now which never happened before he dated me..which confuses me alot bcuz he never was a flirt he was shy and sweet …im sorry about how long this is but im soo stressed and confused ..i act like im happy and carefree around my friends but at night idk im just kinda sad and depressed..(plus my dog died a week ago which has sumthing to deal with that) please can sumone tell me how to get him to start liking me again and dont say u cant make sumone like you..i just want tips on how to do it and please dont say to try the exbackguides because i dont want to buy that thing …PLEASE help me im tired of feeling like this
Last year I started to become friends with this guy and we started talking and texting all the time. He’s a year younger than me and we don’t see each other much this semester besides in the hallway sometimes. This november he told me that he liked me me as a lot more than a friend but I apologized, told him I didn’t really see him in that way, and told him that I didn’t want a relationship at the time which was the truth. he was a little disappointed at the time but he thanked me for being honest and it wasn’t even awkward at all after that. After that it seemed like we started to get to know each other even more. We’d talk almost every night and we offered each other advice on everything. He complimented me all the time and he’d out of the blue say "you looked nice today" which i thought was sweet. he was the guy i could go to with anything and i knew he’d have my back, so naturally i started to like him back. i didn’t tell him right away because i didn’t want it to be awkward. at the start of this semester i didn’t talk to him besides texting a little bit because we didn’t have any of the same classes, so we talked less than usual. a few days after the first day of the semester i told him about my feelings, and that i should have realized what a great guy he was back in november. he replied "i kinda have a thing with somebody now." and i was kind of sad but i got over it. i asked him how the chemistry test was the next day and he said "it was ok." which was wierd because we usually had actually meaningful conversations. we didn’t talk the rest of the week and he randomly texted me the next week . we talked for hours that night but the next day when i texted him he seemed bored talking to me. but when he started the converstion we talked forever, and he was back to his funny and sweet self. He told me that it didn’t work out with the other girl but that he didn’t know if he still liked me or not. i said "well a no is better than an ‘idk’ if that’s what you’re thinking" and he said "it’s not a no. it’s an idk." so like three weeks passed and he was either nice and flirty or really awkward whenever i talked to him. i figured he would have made up his mind by then so i asked him if he had, but all he said was "not yet. sorry." so i said "being friends is ten times better than having it awkward between us, i promise i won’t take it to heart if you decide you don’t anymore" and all he said was "yea i know" and we haven’t talked since then. he waved in the hall once but didn’t even say anything to me.
i’m so confused! i miss my friend that i could tell everything to. i don’t want to rush him but i really wish i knew what the answer was, and i feel like it shouldn’t take a month for him to decide. i still don’t want to be annoying and keep texting him but i’m so stressed out about it and i wish i knew if it was worth it to wait for him to decide. what should i do? :/
there was this girl i wasdeeply in love with her name was melanie marie cavender i loved her so much i would die for her i still would i called her everynigt almost we talked for about 5 hours a day she cheated on me with my best friend and i still stayed with her she broke up with me she would complain sometimes i relly dont know why cause some of my actions i didnt kiss her enugh she said so she broke up with me im very depressed about it i cried my eyes out,i cut my wrist,i attempted to O.D on pills because of the pain i guess she didnt care about my feelings now shes dating my best friend and whenever i walk down the hallway she has to garuntee a kiss in front me to make me jealus that im hurt and dead inside i dont know any more some please help me…
ok so i went out with this boy 9 months ago. and at first it was just a little crush then a big crush then we fell in lovee witheach otherr. we went out for 3 months. then i broke up with him because he was cheating on me (the night of our 3 month anniversary) and so i cried so hard that night i was sick and i cried in the morning and so on and so on. i cried that whole summer. then when we got back to school i was walking down the hallway and who did i see. my ex boyfriend and he was looking like the best thing on this earth. he was staring at me and i was staring at him. but that was it. though. a few weeks after that he starts going out with my friend i was pissed off. (did i mention i was still crying every night because i was STILL inlove with him) but then they broke up and we started talking again. then we went out again OMG i was the happiest girl in the universe until i had to open my big mouth and say that people were talking about us because they was hatin on our relationship. he said he couldnt handle the bullshit so he broke up with me, then he started going out with my friend. i was sooo heartbroken. and so she got my permission to date him cus i cant stop them anyways. then the new girl came and he started going out with her. i was so jealous of her all the dudes wanted her but he had her already. she has hazel eyes and she is "thick" and he says he loves her more than me and it broke me down. because he still loves me and i was his first love. yes…they still go out but me and him still talk and say we love eachother but why is he telling me he loves me and he wants me to have his kids if he has a girlfriend? and why am i still inlove with him after he has put me through so so so so much pain i have been crying over him for 9 months for god’s sake.! i thought i was supposed to get over him. and i think he is playing with my emotions but why am i still inlove with him….why? and he said that when we went out i was a good girl and what he did was wrong and he said when we went out it was good times. it made me feel good and i always forgive him and take him back and he also asked me that if i could get back with him would i ….and i said yes. just like he thought i would and he asked me why. and i wouldnt tell him. then he said "you know that would be my decision though, right?" and that made me mad and he said he can get me anytime he want from whoever and wherever…but i think he was just playing…please help me i know i typed alot but still i really need a answer.. PLEASE
i’m trying to get sole custody of my 7 year old daughter b/c she came home on 12-3-09 and told me he had slapped her in the back of the head (where she had 3 staples closing a cut she received the week before from a fall) b/c she didn’t stick with the lie he’d made up for her to miss school. he was supposed to drive her to school that morning but for whatever reason, decided that I should pick her up on my way home from work (he does this all the time) so he told me she hit her head on a car door frame and couldn’t go to school. when I asked my daughter about this, she told me that never happened and when her dad heard her say this, he disconnected our phone call. when I picked my daughter up from his house a few minutes later, she told me after he hung up-he yelled at her "why did you lie to your mom?" then hit her on the back of the head where her staples are then asked her "does your head hurt now?" I called CPS and filed a report but b/c I’m the ex-wife, they assumed I was doing this just b/c I was pissed at him and closed the case. I filed a complaint against the caseworker in because she NEVER called me to discuss anything and this was even after several phone calls were made to her office and me speaking to her superviser twice. after this incident, my ex showed up at our daughter’s school on a day that I TOLD him she was staying hom sick. he showed up to start a fight w/me when I dropped off my other two girls (NOT HIS KIDS). when I got to the school, I saw him on the front porch so I refused to get out of the car b/c things would just escalate so I sent my two girls into the school-my ex ended up harrassing my 10 year old daughter by trying to block her path twice and chasing her down a hallway until a staff member stopped him and made him leave.
I got an order of protection that lasted a month but the court overturned it b/c I couldn’t prove the abuse against our daughter and they wouldn’t interview her.
we had a hearing on friday to change custody where I requested the court interview our daughter b/c without the interview, a fair ruling could not be made. my ex got angry in open court,refusing our daughter’s interview but the judge saw this and decided to order the interview anyways. he then allowed my ex to keep our daughter for 2 days before the interview and told my ex he would be the one taking her to it!! this is all b/c he is listed as the custodial parent in our decree (a mistake on my part-he’s never truly been a custodial parent-I do everything for her medically and educationally).
I am worried my ex won’t show up for this interview today b/c it could incrimenate him. what happens if he doesn’t show up with her and she misses her interview?!! we don’t have another court date until 3-11-10
What would happen if you found yourself dead?
Your heart just stopped beating, your spirit rises out of your body and you then seen into the realm of the spiritual world but it wasn’t Angels or a light at the end of a tunnel but what you saw were two beings, they were both laughing and they told you to come with them..You followed them down this long hallway and you didn’t know where they were leading you, now being hurried, they aren’t laughing any longer, instead, they are getting hateful..they start pulling you faster and faster, they begin to cuss and swear and mocking you. You try to pull back but to no avail, you start fighting them but they are more stronger. They begin screaming at you, pushing you, hitting you until at last, you break free only to fall into a bottomless pit of watery flames. You yourself start yelling, "OH, MY GOD, I AM REALLY HERE! i’M IN HELL! OH NO GOD! The reality of the the flames of hell engulf your very soul. No matter which way you turn, no matter which way you move, you cannot escape. The very air you breath is nothing but fiery flames and you are tormented.The flames grow hotter and hotter. There is no water to cool your tongue. There is no shelter to swim to, no place of rest. You find the first instance you are there, it is a never ending cycle of burning, misery and pain. It was never nothing you had ever experienced before. You hear people around you crying and screaming. "God I AM SORRY! HAVE MERCY! You hear voices that sound like people you once knew but in your own torments it is not important. You try to think, you then recall a time when a man approached you telling you of a man named Jesus, OH GOD THE BURNING, you continue to recall that the man was telling you have to be saved, PLEASE GOD HELP ME! the man voice become much clearer telling how much Jesus loves you..Yet You began rebuking him. "There is No God! Christianity is for Fools! That’s it! JESUS! HELP ME! JESUS HAVE MERCY! But you hear nothing.. No one comes to your resue! The words are now echoing in your memory…"There is no God…Christianity is for fools! There is no God! PLEASE GOD NO! THIS CANNOT BE HAPPENING TO ME! I was a good person, so if I didn’t believe in Jesus. I didn’t kill no one. I didn’t rob banks. So what if I drank? My marriage was on the rocks anyway, I needed a companion even if it was only for one night. I wasn’t hurting no one but myself! OH< Jesus, Please get me out of here!! Again, NO ANSWER! The flames, the misery continues, the crys, the anguish of the soul never ending, never a way out. There is no clocks, there is no time…Ever!
The time is now…Before you die to receive Mercy…To receive Christ…To escape everlasting torment and damnation. Hell was not created for mankind but you can willfully go there by dying and dying defiled by sin. Jesus says, He that believes in me, shall never see death….Don’t you think it’s TIME? Go to www.spiritlessons.com Proof from those who have died and come back to tell all!
Sorry about changing the qustion but yahoo seemed to have not liked the first question and deleted it..
