i deployed last fall and shortly after my wife had an affair and got pregnant, we were seriously pursuing divorce up until a few weeks ago when we had a long talk and decided to work and try our marriage again. i love my wife very much and we have one daughter together already, i want to have a happy family and a good relationship with my wife. a few issues have arisen…i have such a pain from all this inside that i feel that it would be a long time if at all before i "lay with my wife" is that wrong? also, while i feel that "resentment" i’ve also been deployed for a year and want to have sex with her when i return but she has little sexual drive anymore. i noticed this issue before i deployed and its not that sex is a deal maker or breaker in a relationship for me, i just feel somewhat rejected by that, i know she loves me by all the other things she’s done for me but i can’t help but feel this way, am i a bad person?
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I HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT IF I REALLY WANT HIM BACK FOR THE PAST 12 HOURS AND YES I DO WHAT HIM BACK I WANT MY BABY TO HAVE HER DADDY !!
ok me and my boyfriend have been having a lot of problems lately !! he never helped me clean the house and he would rather play his games all day we always got into fights over that!! well about 2 weeks ago my mother kicked him out of the house and he started to talk to his ex girlfriend.. i started to talk to her and i found out that he still had feelings for he but she told me that she is with her boyfriend for life and she would never take him back!! well today he told me that he does not look at me as his girlfriend any more and that it was over well then i decided that i was going to tell him that i was 14 weeks pregnant!! he does not believe me because of the timing!! but i was going to tell him on new years but i thought that i would tonight!! then before i got off the the comp with him i typed "remember even if we are not dating i will always love you and i have a good reason to you are my Babbie’s daddy" then he typed back blood does not make you family . and then he told me to never call him daddy and that he will not be there.. but then i was talking to his ex girlfriend and she said that she was over there well i was talking to him and she said that after he said that he broke down and told her that he wanted to be part of the baby’s ;life and he just did not want me to know!! now i still want him around a love him still and i would give the world to be able to be a happy family with him.. DOES ANYONE OUT THERE HAVE ANY ADVISE TO HELP ME GET HIM BACK!!!!
BUT YA WE ARE NO LONGER DATING
AND I PLAN TO KEEP THE BABY EVEN THOUGH I AM ONLY 16 I WILL NOT ABORT IT AN I WILL NOT LET ANOTHER MOTHER RAISE MY BABY !
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My family was very happy. We have 4 years old cute boy. We are happy family sample in Vietnam. We two have good jobs with acceptable salary. We are planning to get Permanent Resident in Australia may be at the end of this year. While waiting for the PR, he activily chatting with his exemployee who hasen’t divorvced with her husband yet and then fall in love with her.When I found that he betrayed me, I suffered a very great misery. He decide to divorce with me to biuld new home with his girfriend. They have a longterm plan for building new family. I agree with this decision because I just want love in family. However, I still live with him until April (to go Australia to take PhD program) and his girfriend still live with her husband who knows nothing about this stuffs. I want to change my live. I want to meet another kind-hearted man with true love with me. Is it difficult? I always think positively that I will be happy because I am a fully womanhood and positively thinking woman.
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