Under the SCHIP deal they’re trying to pass that is just for children(even the ones that don’t need it because the parents have enough money or are covered by the parents’ insurance) they also want to cover women with children… well children still in their stomach which the last time I checked didn’t count as a child to the pro-choice left… Its just a parasitic fetus to them.

So one of the following has happened:

1) Harry Potter waved his magic wand and they all believe a fertilized egg is a child and abortion will be abolished

2) They want it for pregnant women who want an abortion for free(well not really-working people pay for it)

3) Because government dependent people no longer get extra money on welfare for extra children the Dems think this will make up for their ‘give free stuff and get votes’ and they will start popping out more kids again because they know their health is paid for by the remaining responsible citizens, thus continuing their "neighbor’s keeper" policy.
By the way, if you do the math for a billion increase in taxes to people who actually pay taxes(people of age to work) in the US it’s an extra 0 every year out of the working(not under the table) person’s paycheck. Why to the democrats feel the need to take more of my money and give to random people every time they’re in office?!

At least with the republicans I know its going to the military for my protection.
So many have asked "Why is it that republicans are only concerned about someone before they’re born?"

I have a better question, Why are there so many slutty women out there having sex without protection and birth control?

Why is it my job to pay for other people’s mistakes? Not just with having kids but with people who didn’t graduate so they have crappy jobs so they’re on welfare.

And as for Republicans adopting American children… try looking in the mirror at your democrat Hollywood types that adopt kids from everywhere but America. And Dems are in office, tell your buddies to not make adopting children in the US so hard it takes 5-10 years. My sister in-law is still on a waiting list 8 years later waiting for a child.

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I was thinking about this today after a discussion with an ex about her sexual fantasies with me. Now as a whole, women are thought to be the more private and the less sexual ones in relationships….mostly because it’s true. However, women do have sex drives, and to me at least…it seems like women have more sexual fantasies than men do. Is it due to sexual repression? Repression of your fantasy due to societal norms or taboos?

For example, here are common sexual fantasies I hear from most women:
1: Rape sex-This varies from woman to woman, but it all involves them being submissive to a dominant male. Some women fight through the sex for more excitement, while others are completely submissive and just take it from a dominant male. For starters, I hope you women clearly indicate to your partner how "hard" you want your rape sex because it could be just a male dominated sexual experience or he might actually sneak up on you somewhere and start beating the hell out of you and almost "raping" you. I just thought I would throw that in for an FYI. What is it with women liking this "rape sex" though? Is it just because you feel and try to act as a "pure" woman all the time, yet you fantasy about being just slaughtered roughly by some guy or what’s the deal?

2: Group sex-I’m just going to mention 2 girls, 1 guy because I am homophobic and I would never get with another dude in this scenario, but obviously a lot of women fantasy about either of those situations. For women, what is it about being with another woman or man that you find fantisizing? And don’t tell me it’s "skanky" or "dirty", because I hear this one from a lot of down to earth girls that don’t do it, but WANT to do it…..as I’ll discuss later below.

3: Work/Public/Elevator sex-Pretty straight forward. Women fantasize about having sex in the confines of their workplace and enjoy doing the deed in an environment where it is very taboo. Similar situation with elevators although I think it’s rather just a kinky "I want to try that" maneuver. I’ve heard weird and kinky things about Public sex. Some people just want to do it in a condo with a big window so some people can see them, but I’ve heard a few women…including an ex…tell me that they would have loved it if I would have had sex with them in the middle of Central Park in NYC for everybody to see…because she WANTED them to see. But why?…is it an underlying female ego thing where you just let everybody know that "This is my man, not yours" type of deal or what’s the deal there?

These are the top 3 that I hear from females…I know there are more. Now for the meat of what I am getting at with all of this. Why don’t you women ever tell your partners about your kinky fantasies that YOU WANT to have done to you or you want to do to them? Do you feel as if you are too innocent or you may be frowned upon as a woman because of these "secrets"? I’m asking because in all 3 of those situations up there, I would do them all in a heartbeat as a guy. You need to understand that men like sex more than you. If you opened up and described these fantasies, then in more cases than none, the guy would enthusiastically give you a "HELL YEA!!!" back with your enthusiasm. I mean guys are different on some things….for example myself…. I would never do 2 guys, 1 girl and probably never have public sex in Central Park…..although I think a good woman could probably seduce me into doing even that haha. Sure, most guys fantasy is to have 2 women all to theirselves(I’m not as keen as others, but love it nonetheless), but it’s not like your female creativity isn’t stimulating as well. For example, if you were my GF and just straight up came out and told me you had a rape fantasy, I would be totally infatuated with it and love to carry that out. I mean c’mon….you are basically asking your partner to cut loose sexually and have rough sex with you….and you think he might turn that down or not like it?…..c’mon now….I think just about every guy on the planet would take up that offer in a heartbeat. That fantasy would become personally mine as well as yours and I would love to sneak up on you and just throw you against something and go as hard as possible no restrictions applying.

As far as the threesome deal, that’s most guys fantasy anyways….so I feel that needs no real explanation.

Work sex is no issue. If you told me about a work fantasy by having sex in a break room or under your desk, I’d be more than willing to give it a try as a guy. Same goes for elevator sex…that’s simple and easy. You tell me, we do it. Public scenarios are bit odd for me personally, but a lot of guys would love to complete some of those fantasies as well if that is your fantasy. Something like sex on a beach of people would be perfectly fine by me, so why are you holding back?

Don’t even begin to think of me as a perv for asking these questions. These are fantasies that I

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ok.. so I broke up with the love of my life last week.. bc he wanted to date his ex but he didn’t want to brake up with me bc I made him happy and didn’t do anything wrong! So I broke up with him and made him promise that this would be her last chance.. and he understands that if it doesn’t work now.. it’s just not going to work! And he said if and when they brake up he will come right back to me! I love him.. and I don’t want to use munipulative tactics to get him back.. she did and she got him back.. but I’ve always been honest w/ him and I would like to keep it that way.. I just want him back faster.. I have no doubt that they will end but I miss him.. he is the only guy I have ever found that I like everything about.. and he likes everything about me.. I never fought with him and he loved me for me.. and I don’t know whether to show my feelings or pretend I’m over him? can I have some addvise from people who have been through this and guy.. what you would go for? I know I can not explain this guy online but trust me.. he is absolutly perfect and I will figure out how to get him back.. but I would like to get him back sooner rather than later.

And everytime he sees me he tells me he loves me.. cuddles and kisses me and we would be having sex but I would just feel to bad.. and he feels bad bc he knows he’s cheating on his gf but he loves me and her and he is really confused. And I feel bad bc I love him and I’m not the normal chick someone would cheat on his gf with.. but I just want to make it clear.. I am getting him back.. I just want some advise on what is the best way to do it? Please..

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My husband takes Ambient (sleeping pill) when he has trouble sleeping. So, last night he falls asleep around 8. I didn’t get to bed in till about 1130 around 2am my husband wants to have sex. The one thing about Ambient the people taking it, do not remember what they say or do. We start having sex and he FALLS asleep. WTF. I wake him up and he tells me be quite im trying to enjoy this. Enjoy What you just fell asleep his reaction is no i didn’t. He starts up again and Falls asleep again.. Finally Im just like get off of me Im going to bed. He then gets into this rant about how I disrespectful towards him. I was like YOU FELL ASLEEP ITS 2AM. I need to go to work in the morning. …Mind you HE IS NOT WORKING THIS WEEK. So, I go to the other bedroom to get some sleep he wakes me up at 530 to tell me that he is pissed at me. I explained to him that it was not fair to me that he woke me up and fell asleep during sex and he tells me he didn’t fall asleep.. I have been sleeping with this man for about 3 years I know when my husband is asleep. Plus this happen the night before we had sex and he didn’t even remember having sex because of this damm Ambient.

So, by the time i get to work I have an email in my email box and a nasty voice mail telling me read the email and how dare i leave the house with out telling him I love him.. WTF.. I haven’t open up the email, because im afraid I’m going to blow up…. What an ass. I have never never denied him sex at 12am-6am in the morning. Im sooooo pisst I cant even type this rant right!

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ok.. so I broke up with the love of my life last week.. bc he wanted to date his ex but he didn’t want to brake up with me bc I made him happy and didn’t do anything wrong! So I broke up with him and made him promise that this would be her last chance.. and he understands that if it doesn’t work now.. it’s just not going to work! And he said if and when they brake up he will come right back to me! I love him.. and I don’t want to use munipulative tactics to get him back.. she did and she got him back.. but I’ve always been honest w/ him and I would like to keep it that way.. I just want him back faster.. I have no doubt that they will end but I miss him.. he is the only guy I have ever found that I like everything about.. and he likes everything about me.. I never fought with him and he loved me for me.. and I don’t know whether to show my feelings or pretend I’m over him? can I have some addvise from people who have been through this and guy.. what you would go for? I know I can not explain this guy online but trust me.. he is absolutly perfect and I will figure out how to get him back.. but I would like to get him back sooner rather than later.

And everytime he sees me he tells me he loves me.. cuddles and kisses me and we would be having sex but I would just feel to bad.. and he feels bad bc he knows he’s cheating on his gf but he loves me and her and he is really confused. And I feel bad bc I love him and I’m not the normal chick someone would cheat on his gf with.. but I just want to make it clear.. I am getting him back.. I just want some advise on what is the best way to do it? Please..

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How Do I Get My Girl Back ?

Me and my girl recently got into a fight because I lied to her about having sex with some other girl before we went out when we were talking.

I really love her and I want her back. What should I do?

Yes I’m pussy whipped

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my last relationship i lost any desire to have sex. and we broke up. the relationship i am in now has had a lot of problem since the begining almost a year and a half ago. he put me down alot and compared me to x girlfriends, and i was always made not good enough. to the point whether i have not recovered from these comments and just cannot enjoy having sex with me at all. i have no confidence what so ever. i never start anything. i am always thinking am i doing it right, some time i even have images of his x’s in my head whilst trying to do it. it is always in my head. he gave me a comment once saying i would need plastic surgery all over my face to be anything like as good as them. and how beautiful they all were, and they were models etc. all with attitude, and like clubbing and dancing. me being very shy. completly diferent to them. my confidence wasnt really high in the begining, but its now nothing. i walk around town and think everyone is better than me. im pregnant too. and he has tryed to make some of it better. but i dont believe him when he says your pretty, your beautiful i was an arse hole coz of my own insecurities. i didnt mean it. but even now he still says something that will go back to that time. i dont no how to fix myself. i just dont see unless i see his perception of women and beauty change how i can ever believe him, or feel relaxed and enjoy having sex with him, i always feel like im infront of judges.

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In my last relationship my ex talked me into swinging. When I got pregnant he left me. I was devastated. I found a wonderful man now. We’re married. Our relationship is very loving and we’re monogamous. Lately he wanted to DP me with a toy when we’re having sex. It brought back painful memories of my last relationship. How do it tell him I’m not into it without sounding like a selfish prude wife ?

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Would you take your ex girlfriend back after she broke up with you over six months ago, and you know for sure that she has been having sex with another guy? I mean, I really love her, and she may regret leaving me, then being with him, but I don’t know if I can ever make love to her again. She thinks it should be no big deal for me, but the thought of her being with that guy, after all her and I shared makes me sick! How can I get past this? I know she was with other guys before her and I started dating many, many years ago, but that was different, because they were all before me, and I accepted that when we met, but this is way different, because this guy came after me. idk, i’m sooo torn! I have not been with any girls sexually since she broke up with me (just petting, but no intercourse). Would you take her back, or did she blow it for good?

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I was with my ex girlfriend for 1.5 years, and we were crazy about each other, although we did start to fight a lot over stupid things. She broke up with me 8 weeks ago, and I have been trying to get her back ever since. Her main reason for breaking up with me was that she lost the connection with me, this started to happen in June she told me. Yet, 2 weeks ago she told me she loves me as a friend (even though I said I don’t want to be friends), and she also said that if we are meant to be, we’ll be together again. She gives me hope by saying things like that, but she has not contacted me at all in 2 weeks. She seems indifferent towards me now.

I have read so much stuff on the internet about "how to get your ex girlfriend back" and have purchased E-books too about the subject. Everything has been helpful, but I still feel like I haven’t gotten very far. I feel like I have definitely grown as person and become more confident, yet I have not seen any progress in getting my ex back.

My ex started seeing someone else a week after we broke up, and as of today they are finally official. I’ve read up on a lot of stuff about rebound relationships lately and was wondering if you would still classify this as one. She didn’t jump right into it after the breakup, but it still has only been 8 weeks. She didn’t know this guy too well until she started talking to him 7 weeks ago, and they’ve been getting closer and having sex for 3 weeks now. So could her new relationship still be a rebound?
I know that I could find someone much better than her. she has put me through a lot of crap since the summer. But I still love this girl so much. It’s a hard decision. I’ll be very satisfied if her new relationship fails, although I’m going to act supportive to her either way. I’m anxious now to see how things play out.

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i have a 3 almost 4 year old nephew who i feel is sexual towards me. i know this sounds crazy, but he will purposly pretend to fall or grab something just to touch my breast. he will touch the lower part of my back (forever, if it were up to him) (if i let him, but i dont b/c it freaks me out). when i say he touches my back, i mean, he will come over when im sitting or standing and start put his hand on my back and if i tell him to stop he gets mad and i have to force him to stop. he tried to pull down my pants when i was getting up once and looked at my butt. it really freaks me out and makes me uncomfortable. i try to make him stop and tell him not to do it (and he knows it’s bad), but he wont stop. he used to do a humping motion when he touched my back, but he seems to have stopped. how do i handle this? his mom doesnt think it’s sexual and i do, especially with the breasts. when he starts touching he always wants a kiss or hug. i feel weird giving him either. what do you think??
i think he saw his dad having sex (my sister is divorced to his father) because his dad is a pervert when it comes to women. trust me, im not imagining this! even my husband has noticed and he only does this to me! every single day he does this. it’s been going on since he was around 2.
oh yeah, also, when he touches my back he tries to touch my stomach and eventually he will go towards the breasts and he tries to pull my shirt up. i have to struggle with him to get him to stop.

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alot of you know my situation from my last posts…..and i love all you guys because you all give such helpful advice….therefor im coming to you guys again. background is my fiance cheated on me and afterwards said she was sorry and came back, then left again sayign she couldnt stay away from new guy, and wanted to be friends and live with me even while dating the guy she cheated on me with (because her college is right beside my apartment, otherwise would have to drive 1 1/2 a day both ways) i allowed this for a while but then decided she had to go because it just hurt too much to see s\her everyday but not be with her and know shes with him. so i made her move out again. that lasted all of 2 days till she asked to come back, and promised things with this guy was over and it was just me and her (which is what i want most of all, shes my life and i cant see myself going on without her. she stayed at the apartment till friday then went back up home to visit her mom, saturday came around and she texted me and said we had to split up again because she shouldnt be with anyone while she decided. she ended up having sex with him the next day (up until then it was always fooling around, which doesnt make it right, but ive explained to her that intercourse to me took it to a whole nother level and i could forgive the folling around, but if she crossed that line its over forever) she crossed that line, so in my mind it was over for good and i had the worst hurt yet of the entire month, (this whole thing started jan 1st.) because i really felt it was over and i had lost her forever.

then tuesday came around, and she almost wrecked driving those 11/2 hours to school because of the bad weather…so she asked if she could stay at the apartment tuesday night because she had to be at school wednesday. i couldnt see myself saying no…the roads were horrible, and what if i did say no because she had sex with him and it was over and something happened where she wrecked. so i let her stay.
things seemed to just sparkle between us that night….and she eventually told me that it was just the thrill of the hunt and that even though i said if she crossed that line it would be over forever, she had to sleep with him just to kinda "conquer the quest" and that the moment it was over, she knew she could move on from him. i explained the situation that i was in, how if i were to take her back i would always fear for her leaving again, that i would be setting myself up for another heart break, that if i let her get away with it that she would never learn that every action has a consequence.
im sorry this is so long, so ill get to my question. i love this girl more than anything, and i cant handle the pain of losing her..so when she promised me he was out of her life for good, and that she would do anything to make me know she was back forever, and that she wanted to grow old with me and have kids…i allowed her to come back. the problem lies in me trying to trust in her.

a part of me thinks shes just coming back to me to be in the apartment so she can be close to school, which ends in may. i fear that she is playing me and come may she will be gone again, with a degree that i supported her throughout getting, and im going to be hurt all over again. i know im probably the dumbest guy out there, and i know there is gonna be alot of answers that say "dude leave once a cheater always a cheater" but what im asking is maybe some advice from people who have been cheated on, and tookl that person back, on things i can do to trust her and not have this hurtful feeling inside of me everytime she is off work, or everytime her cell phone gets a text, etc. i want to be able to sit at work shile she is off and not fear she is going up there with him and having a laugh about how i thinks shes with me but its just so she doesnt have to drive. its been 5 days now…and ive been able to work when shes aty school and off when she is off so i can know where she is….but eventually that isnt going to be the case…..please help someone. i HAVE to keep her in my life i need her, but if i cant trust her and am always worried im going to go insane with the inner battle my mind is going through. please help!

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I hate that I’m still in love with him. And that he only wants to be friends. He says he’s in love with me but he doesn’t want to be committed right now. He’s working two jobs, 75 hours a week. (One I helped him get and happen to work in the same building different department). He says he can’t give me the attention I need as his girlfriend. So be his friend or nothing at all. Ok, so I still want him in my life so I agree to being friends…Then he’ll say something else like "if you’re a good girl for the next month you’ll really love your birthday gift, but u know you like to go out to parties and clubs so we’ll see" (my b-day is late sept). This behavior from him is like he doesn’t want me, but he gets jealous when I try to get over him. Sooo I complained in the past about us not talking on the phone anymore, him not texting me as much and us not seeing one another. He called more the first couple days, he’s been texting me everyday, but he still hasn’t made any initiative to spend time together. When we’re together it always laughs, jokes, hugs, kisses…etc. I told him we’re not having sex anymore because its not worth it. Making a mockery of what we had. His claim is he doesn’t want to do anything with anyone else, so if he’s going to have sex he wants it to be with me. Yea, right. I want a relationship. And he’s not ready right now. I’m trying to move on…but nothing is happening. I haven’t met anyone that can even measure to him. I find myself still thinking about him all the time. He cares enough to text me each day. But I feel like purposely not trying to love me again. He wont allow it to happen. He doesn’t want to talk about us- what we had or what may be. He’s just like show me you’re there for me without it being about you and take one day at a time….I’m trying to look past him. Because I get the sense he loves me but he’s confused about being with me or wanting someone else. So how can I meet someone else when he keeps pulling me back in?
I just want to be happy. When we were together he made me happy. He says he doesn’t like to talk to me on the phone as much because I bring up old negative things. He says why can’t I say things like I know you’re working hard? When I try to contact him and he doesn’t respond back it makes me feel like he’s giving attention to someone else. The same attention he used to give to me. So when he does contact me, I get upset that its taken so long. My school year is about to start next week. I just want to start fresh and new. But I’m still in love with him….I want to meet someone new!

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i posted this in weddings and was hoping for more feedback

alot of you know my situation from my last posts…..and i love all you guys because you all give such helpful advice….therefor im coming to you guys again. background is my fiance cheated on me and afterwards said she was sorry and came back, then left again sayign she couldnt stay away from new guy, and wanted to be friends and live with me even while dating the guy she cheated on me with (because her college is right beside my apartment, otherwise would have to drive 1 1/2 a day both ways) i allowed this for a while but then decided she had to go because it just hurt too much to see s\her everyday but not be with her and know shes with him. so i made her move out again. that lasted all of 2 days till she asked to come back, and promised things with this guy was over and it was just me and her (which is what i want most of all, shes my life and i cant see myself going on without her. she stayed at the apartment till friday then went back up home to visit her mom, saturday came around and she texted me and said we had to split up again because she shouldnt be with anyone while she decided. she ended up having sex with him the next day (up until then it was always fooling around, which doesnt make it right, but ive explained to her that intercourse to me took it to a whole nother level and i could forgive the folling around, but if she crossed that line its over forever) she crossed that line, so in my mind it was over for good and i had the worst hurt yet of the entire month, (this whole thing started jan 1st.) because i really felt it was over and i had lost her forever.

then tuesday came around, and she almost wrecked driving those 11/2 hours to school because of the bad weather…so she asked if she could stay at the apartment tuesday night because she had to be at school wednesday. i couldnt see myself saying no…the roads were horrible, and what if i did say no because she had sex with him and it was over and something happened where she wrecked. so i let her stay.
things seemed to just sparkle between us that night….and she eventually told me that it was just the thrill of the hunt and that even though i said if she crossed that line it would be over forever, she had to sleep with him just to kinda "conquer the quest" and that the moment it was over, she knew she could move on from him. i explained the situation that i was in, how if i were to take her back i would always fear for her leaving again, that i would be setting myself up for another heart break, that if i let her get away with it that she would never learn that every action has a consequence.
im sorry this is so long, so ill get to my question. i love this girl more than anything, and i cant handle the pain of losing her..so when she promised me he was out of her life for good, and that she would do anything to make me know she was back forever, and that she wanted to grow old with me and have kids…i allowed her to come back. the problem lies in me trying to trust in her.

a part of me thinks shes just coming back to me to be in the apartment so she can be close to school, which ends in may. i fear that she is playing me and come may she will be gone again, with a degree that i supported her throughout getting, and im going to be hurt all over again. i know im probably the dumbest guy out there, and i know there is gonna be alot of answers that say "dude leave once a cheater always a cheater" but what im asking is maybe some advice from people who have been cheated on, and tookl that person back, on things i can do to trust her and not have this hurtful feeling inside of me everytime she is off work, or everytime her cell phone gets a text, etc. i want to be able to sit at work shile she is off and not fear she is going up there with him and having a laugh about how i thinks shes with me but its just so she doesnt have to drive. its been 5 days now…and ive been able to work when shes aty school and off when she is off so i can know where she is….but eventually that isnt going to be the case…..please help someone. i HAVE to keep her in my life i need her, but if i cant trust her and am always worried im going to go insane with the inner battle my mind is going through. please help!
1 hour ago – 3 days left to answer.

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newyears eve i slept with my ex-boyfriend.
we were together 2 years ago for about 6 months.
lately we rekindled our friendship and have been really close.
new years eve, i had a party.
after his girlfriend (of 7months this month) left my house at 1am
me and him cuddled in my bed and one thing lead to another,
and we ended up having sex.
no one knows.
and now i want him back.
his girlfriend and him were having issues for the past month or so, and she told me that night that she was gonna break up w. him the next day.
she never did.
hes constantly texting me, and calling me
he texts me goodnight, and goodmorning everyday.
so im obviously the 1st and last thing he thinks about every day.
what do i do to get him back?
what do you think hes thinking.
have you ever been in this position?!
hellppp.

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Only one out of my friends parents are still together
and I don’t even know what their marriage is behind closed doors

The saying about love is that it lasts forever and it never dies
People tell me that all the time,
they tell me to wait and it shall happen for me

but I find that the majority of the people on this world haven’t found it yet even though they may think they do

My friends all say they are in love
Love at the age of 16,17,18? That’s almost impossible in my opinion
From an outsiders perspective;
I can see every teen relationship ending poorly.
They all say they are so in love, but they honestly don’t have a clue what love is.
I have a different perspective on this then most I’ve known..

It seems as if everyone is so ready to grow up,
they want to lose their innocence before it is even their time to.
Then the thing they may realize a few years later is that they will never get that innocence back..

Innocence has got to be the most precious and greatest thing on this world that is being torn away from kids and young teens so unknowingly. They think they are so ready to experience the world, but they are no where near ready.

I’ve heard of 12 year olds loosing their virginity,
12 years old… 12 years old?!
Thats still a child..
I am 17 years old, and I still don’t think it is right at this age to lose your virginity.

There are more years in our life time of having to be an adult than a child..
Why choose to grow up at such a young age?
It’s society’s poor image on teenagers that most look up to and try to duplicate.

Anyways, My point is,
Why doesn’t anyone become best friends first before a relationship,
because I guarantee it’s the best way to fall in love with someone.

I noticed everyone is having sex before they are even ready to do so,
they may even be ready to…but they let sex be the thing to make them fall in love..
instead of falling in love before the sex..
hmmmmm

I wish people would mature
no one has a logical mind about relationships

and you are all on here rambling about ohhhh DOES HE LIKE ME???
OHH THE OTHER DAY WE HAD SEX AND HE DIDN’T TALK TO ME SINCE, AND I MIGHT BE PREGNANT…
honestly…if you even have to say something like that in your lifetime…that really sucks for you haha, time to grow up a bit more and have some respect for your body.

I’ve dated many guys,
There is no point in having sex with someone unless you know you love them,
I have dated over 7 guys I’m sure,…if I had sex with the majority of them I would be regretting it now…because am I still with one of them right now? NO! i’m not, and I don’t think your little teen relationships will last forever either, so stop trying to impress other people by hooking up.

I know what it is like, having the peer pressure to do things,
but it is sooooooooooooooo dumb.
You guys are all frustrating.
Where are the REAL questions about dating& single?

Stop posting things like this;
DOES HE LIKE ME?

HOW DO I GET MY EX BACK?

ehh …..why would you want your ex back first of all?
if he doesn’t want you don’t force it.

Thanks everyone.
stop being so immature about your relationships…cause odds are …you were never in love in the first place like you thought you were
FYI…ive experienced it ALLL. haha..been there done that..and matured since
I’m not putting down everyone, so stop getting so butt hurt.
just the guys and gals who don’t realize that they don’t need to have sex with someone to be liked.
i had a boy friend..thought I was in love[age 16] Didn’t have sex with him for the 6 months we wend out. We had a strong relationship and ended it because we began changing and fighting everyday. Relationships aren’t always effective until you are matured because at such a young age ….everyone is changing rapidly.

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im new to this relationship thing. i just got a new bf and i hope this one last longer then my ex. i was just wondering how long did it take for you to love your boyfriend for real? how many months or so? when did you guys start having sex after how many months, if you had? how long did you guys last together for?

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I have no money to get something for it. Its Tuesday and I see my boyfriend this weekend. I see him once every 3weeks, and having sex with a yeast infection doesn’t sound too appealing or healthy. And if we can’t have sex, its really going to suck.

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Hello everyone. I’ve been thinking about this so much, and I need more opinions.

I want my ex back. We’re good friends. Any tips?

My ex and I broke up in May, but when I started school again in August, we started hanging out again, going to dinner and stuff (and having sex).

Problem is, I want to date him again. I’m sick of crying and I need for this to change. A friend suggested that I ignore him for a while so he’ll miss me, and also to withhold sex. I had already thought of that, but the fact that it was reiterated made it better.

We still have feelings for each other. I think ignoring him for a while will help him see that I don’t depend on him emotionally or “need” him, and he’ll think there’s something wrong and want to date again. I miss him and I want him back.

I know there are people out there who have been in this situation, what do you think I should do?

All tips you can think of are appreciated. Please be detailed!

Thanks.

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So basically me and my ex boyfriend had been going out for two months when we moved in together, it was involuntary, because my parents had kicked me out. After the first couple of weeks everything just went downhill and we ended up breaking up but I still lived there because I had nowhere else to go and we were friends..then we started having sex again which confused me as to where I stood. Now I don’t live with him anymore, but I still love him and can’t get over him. What could I possibly do to get him back? Oh and I also work with him..
I’m 19…he obviously knows I love him if we were dating and would tell each other that on a daily basis. Were still friends and we see each other at work EVERY SINGLE DAMN DAY.

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My ex-wife and I are still having sex after getting divorced about 2 years ago. We were married about 7 years and did not have any kids; however, we share custody of our dog. We are still having sex about 1-3 times a month. The sex is amazing. Pretty much every time we get together to exchange him we end up tearing off each others cloths. It’s not unusual for her to show up at my place after a night on the town ready to have sex and vice versa. Is this normal?

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Today’s women can find it challenging sometimes to keep their marriages intact and happy. Many women want an answer to one specific question, “why do men leave women?” and what can they do to make sure it doesn’t happen to them.

The truth of the matter is that our society has made it very difficult for men and women to find long term loving relationships.  Why? Because the rules our society has adopted are based on inaccurate information.

One of the most obvious misconception that is pervasive throughout our society is the idea that men only want sex and/or have a much higher sex drive than women.  The truth is that men and women have similar sex drives but men have been encouraged, by society, to fulfill their needs while women have been discouraged from having sex until they are married.

This leads to many misunderstandings between men and women and how they approach their relationships.  It might mean a man will be more tempted to cheat on his wife because after all, it’s in his nature.  And it could mean that a women uses sex with the hopes of keeping her husband in love with her so he will stay in the marriage.

If we really got to the bottom of things though we would understand that men and women want basically the same things in a relationship.  Both want to feel loved, respected, and desired by their partners.  When you break it down like that it doesn’t really seem all that hard, does it?

If you want to keep your marriage strong try to meet your husbands needs…all of them, not just sexually. A word of caution here though.  Because of the way our society has told us to behave women have the tendency to think that they have to meet their husbands needs even if that means ignoring their own.  No! All that will do is make you resentful and bitter and that won’t keep a marriage intact.

While it’s important to try to meet your husbands needs it can’t be done to the detriment of your own.  Don’t put your wants and needs on hold to satisfy your husband, you’ll be unhappy, he’ll be unhappy (and bored) and the marriage won’t last.  For a marriage to thrive both parties need to be happy, healthy, stable, and have their needs being met on a regular basis.

So for any women who wants to know why men leave their wives it’s usually because his needs aren’t being met, and I don’t just mean his sexual needs.  I mean on some level he doesn’t feel like you love, desire, or respect him and he will try to find someone who will.

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Well my girlfriend and I have been dating over a year now and her dad completely hates me which is understandable. He liked me at first and then about 5 months ago we got caught having sex.

He took her away from me I didn’t talk to her for about a month which was so terrible for me but school started and we started to see each other again.

Her father gave me a chance he told me no drinking which I honestly quit and he made me go to church and read the bible which I did.The only thing I did not do was quit smoking which really makes me angry I mean his wife and his own son who is younger then me smokes and he completely broke it off.

But we still dated and I found ways to see her outside of school. about 3 weeks ago her father wanted to talk to me again, asked me a simple question what is love. I answer love is what I feel for Kelsey I am willing to do anything for her and I have been putting her needs in front of mine and I know I love her because I would not be wasting my time doing this. he responded to me that it was just a butterfly feeling, NO it is not we fight and I am completely mad at her or disappointed but I still love her the same.

Now he wants to talk to me again I know all he is going to do is chew me out. My girlfriend also told me what he is going to ask.

What is love, what have I done for her, what have I sacrificed for her?

Her father says that Kelsey is sacrificing a lot, relationship with her family and she is also grounded and her father took so many things from her, her life is hell I wish I could switch her situations.

It sucks I will answer the questions I mean I don’t have anything to sacrifice or I don’t have to and I would do anything for her and I have that smoking thing is not what she wanted but what he wanted.

I don’t know what to do or to say to him any advice? this is very stressful.

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