My wife and I only dated for a totall of 5-6 months ( I know thats really short but we were with each other like ever spare second of every day during that time) not including the month long break up in which she came back. She used to tell me she loved me all the time and I felt like she really did ( I still love her) She got pregnant on our honeymoon and soon went off of her paxil for anxiety ( i was on it too..) She says she doesn’t think she ever loved me and she started getting really irritated by me for really small things like breathing hard in my sleep, stinky breath, the way I pronounce certain words. I went to counseling with her and to a psychiatrist for a few months and it seemed to help alot but not enough. She asked me to move out and she hasn’t filled out divorce papers but right now I’m just trying to be as supportive as possible and taking care of her by paying bills and getting her groceries and gas etc. even thuogh I live at my parents house 70% of the time. Her family is so upset with her including her kids from a previous 14 yr. mariage, in fact last weekend her son asked her to invite me over because he misses me.. I just am having such a hard time, this is my first time to be a father and he’s due in like 2-3 weeks.. Did she ever love me? If so, can she love me again? Is it likely she will have feelings for me after? Sorry if you’ve read my other posts I’m just really concerned and interested in your opinions…


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My husband had an emotional affair when I was pregnant with our daughter. There was no sex involved. He was sneaking around to see an ex girlfriend and letting her call him on his cell while he was at work. I found out back in June when I was 6 months pregnant. I was of course livid, but decided I want this marriage to work. Our daughter is now 5 weeks old and I am having such a hard time giving trust back to him. I still feel very hurt, but want to move on from this.

So, anyone go through anything like this? How did you move forward in your relationship?
Oh, it wasn’t a sweet, "Oh, come back home." I put my foot through his stereo, broke all his collectible action figures, broke his cds, broke his games, etc. I was pissed he was sneaking around. Still am. I do like the idea about making him dress like a fairy princess.


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