He dumped me for the 3rd time in a year & calls me "selfish?" Says I abandoned him & need 2 stop being jealous?

What do you think of this email I wrote him in response:

Mark,

10 days after getting back together with me you dump me (for the 3rd time) to "move-in" with your ex. That’s selfish and wrong.

How would you like it if your love (Michelle) did that to YOU!! How would you like it if Michelle suddenly decided to "move in" with her ex after you just got back together with her 10 days earlier? You would be irate. You would feel totally disrespected and used.

Instead of apologizing for abandoning me and being a cruel, heartless jerk…you BLAME it on me!! …calling me "jealous."

Of course I’m going to be jealous. What did you expect!! …for me to "WATCH" while you and Michelle have sex right in front of my face???

You expect me to be "cool" while you’re "banging" your ex, sleeping in the same bed with your ex, waking up every morning with your ex, and basically "seeing" your ex every single day…instead of doing all that stuff with me? HECK NO!!

Then you have the nerve to call me "jealous?" You’re crazy Mark. Karma is a b****.

And I don’t care what you say, we were "boyfriend/girlfriend." We were in a "relationship." I dated you "on-and-off" for a year. I made love to you almost every week, sometimes more. I told you I was in love with you. I spoiled the s*** out of you. That’s called being boyfriend/girlfriend whether you admit it or not.

Finally, I don’t know about you, but I wouldn’t want to have sex with someone who’s "had sex" with so many people. It’s gross. You need to stop being so promiscuous and having unprotected sex.

Dumping me and ignoring me so many times is wrong. I don’t need to date someone who’s leaving me constantly. Someone who loves you won’t want to be with someone else, or "move in" with their ex. You would be the center of their universe, and there would be no doubt.

I’m not into torture. I’m not going to stick around to be "second place". My reaction is perfectly normal. You got what YOU wanted and now it’s time to let me go. Please stop calling me to drag my heart through the mud. You’re not making it any easier for me to "move on" like I should.

You can’t have your cake and eat it too hun. I can guarantee you that I want nothing to do with you if you "move in" with any of your ex’s. If my love means absolutely nothing to you, or if you no longer want to be my boyfriend, then you have to let me go permanently. I told you this two weeks ago.

~Chris


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He dumped me 3 times and now wants to be just friends. What do you think of the email I sent him?

Mark,

10 days after getting back together with me you dump me (for the 3rd time) to "move-in" with your ex. That’s selfish and wrong.

How would you like it if your love (Michelle) did that to YOU!! How would you like it if Michelle suddenly decided to "move in" with her ex after you just got back together with her 10 days earlier? You would be irate. You would feel totally disrespected and used.

Instead of apologizing for abandoning me and being a cruel, heartless jerk…you BLAME it on me!! …calling me "jealous."

Of course I’m going to be jealous. What did you expect!! …for me to "WATCH" while you and Michelle have sex right in front of my face???

You expect me to be "cool" while you’re "banging" your ex, sleeping in the same bed with your ex, waking up every morning with your ex, and basically "seeing" your ex every single day…instead of doing all that stuff with me? HECK NO!!

Then you have the nerve to call me "jealous?" You’re crazy Mark. Karma is a b****.

And I don’t care what you say, we were "boyfriend/girlfriend." We were in a "relationship." I dated you "on-and-off" for a year. I made love to you almost every week, sometimes more. I told you I was in love with you. I spoiled the s*** out of you. That’s called being boyfriend/girlfriend whether you admit it or not.

Finally, I don’t know about you, but I wouldn’t want to have sex with someone who’s "had sex" with so many people. It’s gross. You need to stop being so promiscuous and having unprotected sex.

Dumping me and ignoring me so many times is wrong. I don’t need to date someone who’s leaving me constantly. Someone who loves you won’t want to be with someone else, or "move in" with their ex. You would be the center of their universe, and there would be no doubt.

I’m not into torture. I’m not going to stick around to be "second place". My reaction is perfectly normal. You got what YOU wanted and now it’s time to let me go. Please stop calling me to drag my heart through the mud. You’re not making it any easier for me to "move on" like I should.

You can’t have your cake and eat it too hun. I can guarantee you that I want nothing to do with you if you "move in" with any of your ex’s. If my love means absolutely nothing to you, or if you no longer want to be my boyfriend, then you have to let me go permanently. I told you this two weeks ago.

~Chris


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proof read my first paragraph?

First of all, abortion provides individual rights for women to protect and defeat their rights to bear a child or not. Women have the right whether or not they want to continue being pregnant. Society today views abortion as a cold blooded crime and a sin of God for a woman who had have experience an abortion. Rather than viewing an abortion as a life decision for a woman to make and defend their own individual rights. Many antiabortionists support and defend more the fetuses than the women arguing that carry out an abortion is violating fetuses’ individual rights. On the essay of Ellen Willis, she makes an excited statement “I do consider the life of a fertilized egg less precious than the well-being of a woman with feeling, self consciousness…” (508) I strongly agree with Willis that the life of a woman is far more important than fetus and need to be protect and defeat women’s individual rights by allowing abortion to be continue in the United States. Some of the antiabortionists believe that the solution for eliminated abortion is for women to stop having unprotected sex and women to wait for marriage to have sex. According to the essay of Willis, “Criminalizing abortion doesn’t just harm individual women with unwanted pregnancies, it affects all women’s sense of themselves” (509) I agree with Willis if criminalizing abortion will conceded, it will violation women’s individual rights that women will feel unhopeful or powerless of their own bodies. What will happen to women who may experience a dangerous pregnancy or raped? One of my sisters had a dangerous pregnancy; she was in her sixth months and expecting little girl when the doctor discovered that my sister’s health and also the baby were danger. My sister needed to have an abortion to save her life or both my sister and the baby will dead. Without a doubt, my sister had an abortion but if government pass to criminalizing abortion. My sister will possible be dead right now. The same case applies to the women who are raped and having to experience an unwanted pregnancy. A raped victim itself is an emotional stage that many of them are unable to override her terrible experience. An unwanted pregnancy will increase the raped victim’s emotional stage that unwanted baby will possible have an unhappy life.


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