Hi,
Me and my ex girl friend broke up 8 months ago because of misunderstandings. We were really the perfect couple. We kept in touch, although she kept on insisting that she is not prepared for a relationship right now because she is taking a very big exam to become a diplomat coming May for which she has been preparing for over a year and a half.P.S – Me and My Ex live in different countries as of right now, so its a long distance for now.
Now, a guy comes into the picture. According to her – he was of big support when she suffered the heart break from our break up. But, she kept on insisting that she is not in a relationship with him.
Now, today I finally decided to call that individual myself to find out. It turns out that they are in a relationship. Now, I am truly heart broken because here I was living with hope for months and I was supposed to go back and see her next month. I really don’t know what to do any more.
I talked to my ex, and she said that this guy who is also preparing for the same exams was not in a good shape of mind, and needed her – so she got into the relationship to support him emotionally. According to her they’ve never been intimate. And, swears that coming 18th May she’d let him know her true feelings for him that she doesn’t think that he’s the right person for her.
And, as far as I am concerned, I hate to say this on a public forum – but I am crying and crying because of this heart break. I have become extremely depressed. And, she says she doesn’t want to be with me because she doesn’t like weak people. I make over K+ annually, and started my business from scratch. My only weakness is her, and she doesn’t understand.
Now, here I am hanging in between again. My mind is blanking out, I don’t know what to think. This relationship has almost ruined me. I feel completely drained out. Please suggest what should I do. Should I trust her, and have hope that she’ll come back. Or should I try moving on..which I tried..but I just can’t stop thinking about her.

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My friend just went through a really hard break up. Ive been trying to comfort her and she is wondering what some good song to listen to are. She isn’t up for lovey dovey or taylor swift music. more like up beat fast music to distract her. any advice? maybe a movie might help her out also. I just want to help her as much as I can.
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1. Was your Ex cute? F*ck yes sooo cute.
2. Would you kiss your EX again? Yes i”d give the world for that <3
3. How many girlfriends/boyfriends have told you they loved you? One, and I only said I loved one too, I still to, I miss my baby D=.
4. Have you ever thought that you were going to marry a person?
Yes I really did.
5. Are you crushing on someone?
I love my ex.
6. Have you ever liked someone so much that it hurt?
I love someone so much it hurts.
7. Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn’t mean it?
No.
8. Have you ever had your heart broken?
Currently
9. Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
Don’t think so.
10. Do you think any of your Ex’s still like you?
I hope one does, <3
11. Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
Yes but I don’t know why it happened if I am.
12. Have you dated people who were not good to you?
Probably.
13. Would you take your Ex back?
Yes I would in a second.
14. Have you dated someone older than you?
Yes 3 years older and I still love him.
15. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
Well I gave him a 4th, so yeah. I wouldn’t be surprized if I gave him a 5th.
16. Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yeah I guess.
17. Do you want to get married?
Yes to him… he’s all i want.
18. Does heart break really feel as bad as its said to be?
It feels worse then its said to be, and it sound pretty bad.
19. Would you believe your Ex if she/he said they love you?
I’d try to, i’d just hope they meant it.
20. Would you date your best male/female friend?
Yes, the one I want is my best male friend.
21. Have any of your Ex’s called you by a nickname after the breakup?
Don’t think so, its only been 3 days.
22. Do you regret any of your relationships?
Yes, all except one.
23. Do you still think about your Ex?
Every second of every hour of every day.
24. Would you have sex with your Ex again?
yes in a second.



