Okay please nobody tell m oh you shouldnt have gotten married so young, i am looking for help not i told you so’s!
Okay i met my now husband in college at the age of 19 we got married right after i turned 20 we were head over heels in love, i didnt want to spend a second without him. He joined the army after we got engaged and the we got married after his AIT and then he got stationed in germany. Our relationship feels like it has changed so much, okay we have only been married for about 6 months but i feel like i am falling out of love with him and dont know what to do, my dream in life is acting/singing and he dosent really support me in that career, all he does is sleep wake up go to work come home eat and then sleep, we barely talk cause when we do we fight, and there is no romance between us anymore not physically or emotionally. It feels like we have been married for 16 years instead of just 6 months. I dont know what to do, i dont want to hurt him but i dont want to be stuck in a dead end marriage for my whole life. And i feel guilty sometimes cause the only way i get through the day is by day dreaming about a different life, and then i sometimes have to imagine being somebody else or being with somebody else to even be able to sleep, i get probally about 3 hours of sleep a night, and there is no chance i would ever cheat on my husband, i just cant do that, i try to keep myself busy during the day cause if i dont i cant stop my mind from thinking of all the bad things in my life right now that i dont know how to fix. I dont know what to do. Please i need some help!!!!!!!!
