bascially my ex partner has been beating me up, and i had him arrested on 4th may 2009, he drove off with our child in the car without a car seat at a stupid speed and left me all beaten and bruised. he then text me to tell me i wouldnt be getting my child back.
he was arrested and bailed pending court on 20th may.
the police brought my little boy back to me and told me that giles would be bailed to our joint tenacy rent house.
i had to move into a 1 bedroom bungalow with my mum as his bail conditions say he cannot be near me, i cannot go home.
thing is this isnt ideal, and i want to go home.
how can i get him out of the house so me and my little boy can move back in.
surely as the sole carer of my child i have the right to live in my own home. he beat me up, and i have to move out????
also when i went to collect the mail whilst he was at work, i opened the door to find some random girl and her child livnig at my house.
She claimed to be a family friend come to stay for a few days, but im not too sure to be honest.
where do i stand??? i want to move back into my home, but i dont know how to do it.
my domestic violence officer isnt answering his phone, and my solicitor is out of the office until next week…..
can i also add that this a 3 bedroom home, which is full of all my belongings.. he moved into a ready made home, and hes having his cake and eating it.
i was advised to post this in this part of the forum, hope its ok
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