Hey my girlfriend just broke up with me and 2 make matters worse my best friend and her are now dating!!! Does any body know how I can win her heart??



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Hey I’m just looking for some stories, whether it is you or one of your friends.

How old were you guys? Why did you break up? How did you get back together? How long did it take to start talking again after the breakup?
Make sure you guys include what caused the breakup and what you did to get your ex back… or if you were the dumper what did you ex do to win your heart back?


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Hey. Anybody know why women leave longer than men. If you look at an healthy old married couple, the guy always dies before his wife. Why? anybody got an answer.


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I am a really shy person and had a horrible time talking to guys I liked so I mainly avoided it forever because of past disasters so when I finally found one that I was extremely comfortable around I was sooo relieved. I had never been in a relationship. When he asked me out I thought thank god I finally can say I have dated and been in a relationship…I never was really sexually attracted to him…but I figured hey I can talk him into a new hair cut and everything will end up fine…for awhile everything was great we have a blast together, he is my best friend. BUT he seems to be really in love with me and I just realized recently I love him but I am not in love with him. I love him like a best friend, like a brother I don’t really know how to say it…I am emotionally attached but I don’t want to be with him like that I just wish we could have stayed friends and nothing more, he thinks we are going to be together forever and idk…I don’t want to be together forever like that. I would love to stay best friends forever. I am not sexually attracted to him. We don’t want the same things in our future he wants kids and marriage. I don’t. I just don’t feel romantic toward him. I also don’t want to loose him, like he has made my life really wonderful and happy being in it, I don’t know what to do, I can’t go back in time no matter how much I wish I could. and I have been holding this in for awhile (sorry I am writing so much I never talked about it) but seriously I tried to end it one time but I couldn’t I didn’t want him gone forever I depend on him for a lot of stuff like transportation friendship with out him I would be alone I know that sounds pathetic but it isn’t a metaphor I mean literally haha I have never lived with my parents I have had a strange up bringing. I don’t want to loose my best friend and access to the outside world. But I also don’t want to be in a romantic relationship I want the chance to find someone who loves me and I actually love BACK. I am really confused about what to do. Do I stay in a unhappy romantic relationship, or do I take a chance at ruining my freedom and happiness and loosing my only real friend?


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Do you Think i could ever get her back?
hey, i dont know where to start….

i was in a relationship for nearlly 2 years with a beautiful girl….

in that 2 years i did some unforgivable stuff…

for the first 9 or 10 months of our relationship…it was Bliss….perfect…nothing would have been able too stop us……except me…

i started talking to other girls and flirting….it went on for not long but i did it none the less…..

she found out…and we worked it out…but she didnt trust me (who could blame her)…..

then around 2 month later i did basically te same thing…..i hadnt learned…i got too close to a girl and the repocusions saw my girlfriend being treated horribly by me ..

anywa….another year passed and i stayed too myself… it was hard at time that she didnt trust me…(but at the time i didnt realise how much i had hurt her..)

utill one ay i started again…at first it was nothing but quickly grew into something….i was not happy in my relationship with her and saw an avenue out….i broke up with her for another girl and did not even look back……i treated her so mean throught out the break up…. she did everything to try to keep me loving her……she tried everything she could…..this girl gave me her heart and i threw it back in her face….

a few weeks later i was unhappy in my new "relationship" i missed my ex girlfriend and wanted hr back……we talked and i promised alort of thing….for 2- 3 weeks everything went good i was happy to have her back i’d go through anything to keep her by myside……

BUT once again i let her go…..she wasnt happy…andi knew she would never forgive me for what i had done…..i truely wanted her too be happy even if it wasnt with me….i had changed…i was genuine and i was sworn too myself i would never hurt her agian..

i broke up with her and told her she would be happier if she didnt have too deal with me and my problems…..

it has been 2 months since then and i have recently realised how much i need her in my life…..we’ve talked and she say’s that she still has feeling for me and she still loves me…..she’s said things like "its a pitty your such a c*** (ends with T) we are perfect together"…i really am in love with her and i cant stop thinking about her…i love her so much and she does love me too

i have so much hate inside me….for myself…..for what i did to that girl idont know how too say sorry and ow to get her to beleive me…i want to be wit her once again…and i know that i will last years if i got the chance….i would go to the end of the world and back for this girl…..i just dont know how too persuade her too have one last go….

…i know many of you will think i am such a dic****d and all the other names under the sun……..i just need some advice….i cant get her out of my head…i have changed….i just dont know where to stat…or how

thanks sorry for the LONG READ!!!!


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