My fiancé, whom I loved more than anything, and dated for 4 years broke up with me in June, stating that she needs to find her individuality.Needless to say I was completely devastated. It’s been almost 6 months since this happened and all I can think about is her from the second I wake up to when I go to bed. She told me that she still loves me but doesn’t want me to call her for a while. I know I sound like an idiot, but I was with her for 4 amazing years without a problem and she was ecstatic when I proposed to her last year. I have been trying to keep myself VERY VERY VERY BUSY, but she is all I think about. I even tried Match.com in September and went out on 13 dates. I miss her more than anything and with the holidays coming up it doesn’t make it any easier. I need Advice
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We have been seperated for just over a year. I cant seem to get her to want tot live together. we do everything together just as we were together I help out with the kids almost everyday.
I help her with the daily duties at her place . I give moneyto help sapport our two boys and her even if it means I dont have any left for me. We spend the holidays together I stay there .
I have gone to marriage counsiling parenting classes I have read atleast a dozen books on marriage she said it made a huge
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One who lied, cheated and left his wife and kids for another woman? Being happy? Being with someone else? Leaving him alone completely?
Thanks guys – just feeling a little bitchy today. Afterall it is the holidays and I am entitled to be a little bit of a bitch after all he has put me through. I actually ignore my ex – works for me!!
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How can I get back my ex? ?
My ex and I were in a long distance relationship (he goes to uni), when we broke up. He thought I didn’t care about his big move, but I cared for him more than anything. He’s back for the holidays, and I saw him yesterday. There was no awkwardness at all between us. He did compliment me and said I looked great. When we hugged he held me quite close, almost like the hugs we used to have but not as passionate. When he left me he said "Its been nice to see you… I’m glad we met up… Its been really nice…" and kept repeating himself. He gave me the same look he gave me before he left for uni when we were together. The one that says "I will miss you". His lips were twitching, his eyes looked hurt and sad. I don’t know, maybe I’m misreading the signs. He also kept his hands firmly in his pockets while we were walking. If our hands did touch, we’d quickly move them away. And when I caught him staring he quickly looked away.
I really want him back, but I don’t know how he feels about that. We’re good friends now, but now I feel like ranting to him about stuff, and I don’t know if I should or not. I just really really want him back. I’ve never been with a guy as amazing as him before.
I don’t want to confront him directly, as if the worst comes to worst I still want to be his friend. He’s an amazing guy and I don’t want to leave him forever. How can I bring back our relationships subtly?
Help please?
And no mean comments, thanks.
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THis morning I took my 4 year old rainbow lorrikeet called CHirpie out of her night cage to put her in her day cage. I usually cut her feathers but she is very tame and says Hello CHirpie. Its mating season here on the mornington peninsula melbourne Australia and I saw her fly into a tree with other rain bow lorikeets. Will she come back, what are some of the tings I can do for Chirpie? I hand raised her since she was a baby 4 years ago. What should I do
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I saved CHirpie when shirpie was kicked out of her nest and the ants were crawling up her legs. Shw was wet and helpless. I raised her and then after I had her 12 months she nearly died again by putting her head in her toy and I just came through the door and saved her. I love Chirpie and Chirpie loved us. She flew with a colony all I wnat to know is will they accept her and not kill her. THere are some people who are very attached to their birds.
thanks DC i am so distraught i dont know what to do. i spoke with peninsula bird world on the mornington peninsula and they said they free fly their tame birds and they come back. i am so shocked i usualy trim some feathers but she use to hate it so i stopped 12 months ago she goes on holidays with us. this bird is tame and speaks and dances you guys dont understand she could be killed she does not know anything about being free.
I am in the Mornington Peninsula in Melbourne Australia and we have a lot of lorikeets here so yes she belongs in this area.
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