I have been married for a year and have had problems with my family since the beginning. My wife always felt unwanted. My brother and his wife were not very social around her. They got gifts for everyone in my family but my wife on their honeymoon. Several other little things kept adding up until everything went bad during a visit from my brother and his wife. When my wife wanted to go out after dinner they refused and went back to our house. My wife and I eventually got into a terrible fight over that which ended with her sleeping somwhere else for the night. I emailed to voice all my concerns with my brother’s behavior and he said some mean things about my wife. She refuses to speak to him to this day (6 months later). When we finally saw them about 2 months ago there was a shouting match and my parents took my brother’s side. So now my wife won’t speak to my parents. I was always close to my family and would like to be again but I don’t know how. Thanks for any advice.
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We are 11 years apart, I love him, things have been tough on us lately, while trying to figure out where we are going for our honeymoon last night we go into an arguement and he broke off the engagement and everything, saying that our relationship is too much for him. He told me to do whatever I want, whether its date someone else or whatever. He told me good night and hung up on me. What makes it really bad is that this morning when I woke up he had deleted our pics from our myspace and his yahoo profile, putting single (this broke my heart) I love him, but if he doesnt want to be with me anymore….what more is left to say or do……I havent called and he hasnt either…..by the way right now we are also 11 hours away
I dont thing it was anyones fault really, he wanted to go to somewhere tropical, and I wanted to go to italy…He said we couldn’t afford it, but I told him why he could afford a 40 thousand dollar car for cash but not a freaking nice honeymoon
We have been together for two years, and engaged for about 8 months…but I have known him all of my life, his mom was there when I was born, we grew up together…my parents and I moved away from our town when I started my junior year in high school, we always kept in touch as best friends until he came into town one day and we finally met up again and fell in love right when we saw each other again after so long.
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we picked it out together along with my wedding band. I let him have the wedding band since techinically it wasnt mine.
he all of a sudden called off the wedding and i had to move out…which is expensive in itself..plus i lost 00 in photographer (she only would give back 0) and i lost 0 in invitations, about 0 in our cake stuff (champagne glasses, engravings, napkins, cutters and plate)
my dress was 0 but i can still wear it if i ever get maried cause i only went to 2 fittings and didnt go to the last so it can still be altered.
anywas bottom line is MY FAMILY SPENT SOOO MUCH MONEY on this wedding, his family was able to cancel the honeymoon so they lost like the deposit…..
shouldnt i get to keep the engagement ring to help pay wedding debt? he gets to keep my wedding band………i should keep engagement ring.
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My wife and I only dated for a totall of 5-6 months ( I know thats really short but we were with each other like ever spare second of every day during that time) not including the month long break up in which she came back. She used to tell me she loved me all the time and I felt like she really did ( I still love her) She got pregnant on our honeymoon and soon went off of her paxil for anxiety ( i was on it too..) She says she doesn’t think she ever loved me and she started getting really irritated by me for really small things like breathing hard in my sleep, stinky breath, the way I pronounce certain words. I went to counseling with her and to a psychiatrist for a few months and it seemed to help alot but not enough. She asked me to move out and she hasn’t filled out divorce papers but right now I’m just trying to be as supportive as possible and taking care of her by paying bills and getting her groceries and gas etc. even thuogh I live at my parents house 70% of the time. Her family is so upset with her including her kids from a previous 14 yr. mariage, in fact last weekend her son asked her to invite me over because he misses me.. I just am having such a hard time, this is my first time to be a father and he’s due in like 2-3 weeks.. Did she ever love me? If so, can she love me again? Is it likely she will have feelings for me after? Sorry if you’ve read my other posts I’m just really concerned and interested in your opinions…
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I’ve been dating someone for 4 months, everything has been smooth, easy and wonderful. A lot in common. Same morals, blah.. blah.. blah. He’s recently divorced (I know, my 1st mistake) and has a child with her. This is the 2nd time she had left him, filed for divorce this time. Told him that she felt no compassion for him on their honeymoon that he went through a lot to plan out and make special. No intimacy between the 2 before she left the 1st time and certainly not the 2nd. She now tells him she wants another chance, he has since told me that he isn’t considering her, that I’m everything he’s ever wanted and have made him happier than he’s ever been, I’ve done nothing wrong and I’m a wonderful person, BUT… he needs some space. He feels lost and empty. Doesn’t know if he can love again. Wants time alone to work on himself, get his head back on straight. Hasn’t called me since. Is he contemplating her? Or did he get scared? Will he be back or do I need to move on?
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