Breaking Up Advice!!!?
Ok I haven’t really been going out with my boyfriend for long at all.
I’d say about 5 days.I don’t know why I even asked him out now!
He is a year older than me,and we don’t go to the same college.he goes to the same one that my friend goes too,and she’s kind of the one who fixed us up.He’s just very different,hard to explain,but creepy.He can be sweet and all but is wayyy to creepy for me.
He wrote me these poems and drew me these oil pastal drawings,calls me all the freckin time!!Even my best friend! Anyways….he wanted my address and I wasn’t planning on giving it too him b/c he’s very creepy and would pry stalk us,anyways we gave him a fake address b/c he even said he wouldn’t pry come over anyways sooo,we didn’t think it mattered.Well he told me yesterday he had spent and hour and a half looking for our house,that he couldn’t find! I feel bad b/c he’s soo nice and sweet but at the same time a creep!
My e-mail address is Hayley1125@yahoo.com THANKS! ![]()
What should I say to get my Girlfriend back?
Very Complexed situation Lots of help please
Where to start. , Well i will explain the details first, I am a 16 year old male turning 17 years old in 9 days, I have fallen in love with a girl named brettney who is 15 turning 16 In may, We Have been dating for 5 months and 3 days, She cut it off due to us not telling each other things anymore but I still want her back, Where things get complexed is that when we stopped fighting She asked me for my facebook password,
And I Gave it to her knowing she is kind of snoopy and she should read some things i dont have the balls to say my self, Me and her broke up after 3 months of dating because i cut it off, I Had guilt the day before ( November 22nd ) was due to me cheating on her, The day before i was bored and on the computer when one of my friends called me and asked me if I wanted to try ecstacy with him,( he had already done it before), The thing is i always wanted to try it, My whole life i had curiousty wanting to know what it feels like, What it does to your body, And how of course how sex would feel,
I met my friend about an hour and a half after we met, He gave me a “Pink PlayBoy” to take and i took it, I was expecting results instalntly but i told him i wasnt feeling anything about 30 minutes later, He gave me anouther one, It took about 20 minutes after to kick in, I was with a bunch of people at the time, Close friends, Friends, And girls i have never met before, When i started to feel the high It seemed like the most amazing feeling in my life, I couldnt even speak properly due to my mouth was clenching. I was becoming so Horney that I really needed to Do something to satisfy what i was feeling at the moment so I started paying more attention to one girl, Asked her for a kiss on the cheak, Held her hand,And Made out with her. It ended up to Where i realized i could not go home because my parents would catch me so i asked to stay at her place, She then Gave me head when we reached to her house and I spent that night there, When i woke up I broke up with my girlfriend because I felt so bad, And after breaking up with her i spent a week trying to get back with her,
Time passed and passed until she read those messages which was exactly 4 days ago, I wish i had never done ecstacy because first of all, I used to live in edmonton alberta, now im living in Chile in south america, I moved because after that first time i got a mental addiction to ecstacy, espcially since i got it so cheap i could manage to do it every day, In that past while, Ive been hiding to my Ex girlfriend that i was doing ecstacy and i cheated on her, For the first time in her life she cried over me, I really need help because i know alot of people are going to be saying, ” You dont love her ” and **** like that but i really do, She is the one that got me out of alot of my problems with my parents, she never influenced me for anything, She was i must say the only person that isnt family related i can say that really loved me, If it wherent for my “friends” Influencing me to do that **** it would never have happened, I have never cheated on her Sober, And i dont know what to do, I know who to blame and that is ME+FRIENDS, If it wherent for me being so Acceptave of that Crap non of this would have happened i would still have friends and live in the same country and have my girlfriend,
I need a way to Get her back, I really do miss her, I have quit all my drugs and drinking, I just really need help on what to say to get her back, If anyone knows how to or what to say please Try, And Write it as a first person message or soemthing please, I really do not wanna lose her,
Please, Thank you
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what if we do hug, we always hug when i get there and when i leave and its more than a friendly hug it seems, i have girls who are friends that i hug, and the hugs she gives me are much more than that, but we havent’ held hands, or even come close to kissing
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