i was so proud of myself for actually sticking to these rules that i just have to share it with the world. About 3 days ago my bf brokeup with me and i knew it was for good. he said he just dident feel the same. well i tried doing the oposite of what i would normally do.
- i took it Very calmly and showed NO sadness.
- i walked away without crying infront of him.. this makes him re-think breaking up with you.
because you are turning the rejection on him. It is a scientific fact that when you are in love your brain sends off chemicals so that you only think of one person all the time. and once you get rejected you feel like you want that person more.
- this is important. you need to focus your mind more. please do this.Always keep thinking in your mind that he is wanting you now… he WILL soon come carwling back (just like mine did) TRUST ME there is alot of hope
- stop calling him stop texting him….BUT do not shut him out of your life completely… remember your chances of getting him back are less and less ech day.
- dont call him. but text him or msn him and ask if you can still be freinds becasue your over him already.
-never talk to him in the morning. only at night so it looks like you werent desperate to talk to him.
-another very important point is.. BE individual. theres nothing guys think is sexyer then a woman who dosent need there man….but wants them.
- think about how you were befor you met him. be that person that he fell min love with.
whenever you are around him… or if you see him somewere…. ALWAYS have a smile on your face and look like nothing happend that was drastic on your life.
- whenever you guys talk. always say you have to go befor he does. even if you dont have to go… make it look like hes not your priorities enymore.
bottom lines.
FEEEL and look happy. you will only look as happy as you feel on the inside.
let him realize that you dont need him. and you AGREE WITH THE BREAKUP.
make him come to you.
DO NOT……
get revenge.
go out with someone else.
intervein with his new relationship (if hes in one)
make it look like your doing bad without him.
do not go on other general websites that gives you tips on how to do these things… they are directed more at girls… and thoes work for onlly girls. becasue the guys mind is way different.
Remember… YOUR NOT ALONE. there are alot of people going through this. And your relationship is not over yet.
Hope this helped
ROXY =)
*** directed only AT girls for guys to know how to get them back.
RE: "exohlove"
i know but there are cirtain situations were the girl did somthing and maybe she want him back.. maybe its her fault.
also after doing this he realizes that he wants to change.. it dosent always work that way.. but you have a good point.. he CAN get his feelings back for you…its not like there lost forever
