Does no contact when you want your boyfriend back work? He broke up with me last Saturday because I confessed a lie to him and he said that once he fixed himself up we could try again but I am starting to not believe that. We went no contact until I called him Tuesday to check on me and he never called back. I just told myself that it is over and I didn’t try to call or email again. I am accepting the break up and the possibility that we may never get back together again. Does he miss me? Am I doing the right thing by moving on? We talked at least 4 hours a day and were on the computer instant messaging all through the day while we worked. I can still see his status on face book and it still says in a relationship and his instant message program still shows our picture together. Does he just need time to regroup? Will he come back out of his man cave? Am I doing the right thing by preparing for the inevitable future without him?
People make mistakes and I made a huge one. I am not perfect and I came to him with the truth. He didn’t find out from anyone else or have an inclination that I lied to him. I wanted to be mature and fix the situation between us and if he can’t forgive me or doesn’t want to be with me through the tough parts and the thick and thin, then maybe he wasn’t the one for me. I should be able to come to my partner and tell my partner the good, bad and ugly about me and he has the choice of accepting me or not. The partner that accepts me for who I am with all of my flaws is the partner for me.
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Does no contact when you want your boyfriend back work? He broke up with me last Saturday because I confessed a lie to him and he said that once he fixed himself up we could try again but I am starting to not believe that. We went no contact until I called him Tuesday to check on me and he never called back. I just told myself that it is over and I didn’t try to call or email again. I am accepting the break up and the possibility that we may never get back together again. Does he miss me? Am I doing the right thing by moving on? We talked at least 4 hours a day and were on the computer instant messaging all through the day while we worked. I can still see his status on face book and it still says in a relationship and his instant message program still shows our picture together. Does he just need time to regroup? Will he come back out of his man cave? Am I doing the right thing by preparing for the inevitable future without him?
People make mistakes and I made a huge one. I am not perfect and I came to him with the truth. He didn’t find out from anyone else or have an inclination that I lied to him. I wanted to be mature and fix the situation between us and if he can’t forgive me or doesn’t want to be with me through the tough parts and the thick and thin, then maybe he wasn’t the one for me. I should be able to come to my partner and tell my partner the good, bad and ugly about me and he has the choice of accepting me or not. The partner that accepts me for who I am with all of my flaws is the partner for me.
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