How to get back to your ex and is it worth it?

My ex and I have always been in the downs and that i feel that he is always the controlling freak like how he wants things to be done only in his way. I tired telling him nicely without the screamings that sometimes he is not right but he wont listen and instead calls me the controlling one. We had an argument and i decided to pack my stuff and move back to my apt. And basically he said to me, if i go, its over and there is no turning back and that i would regret my actions. He did this infront of his friend and i felt that there is no way that I can just stay on. In the past, i would call back later and try to get things back together but this time I stopped calling. We hadnt talked in a week and i didnt expect him to call back ( and of course he didnt). I felt this breakup is so incomplete. How do you tell a guy that he was wrong. I admit i have my own faults in this relationship but he wont listen to me? He can be so sweet but i cant deal with his know it all.


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is these signs my ex wants me back?

my ex say he doesnt love me anymore but when i call him he stay on the phone 4 a long time.also he try to ask me n a weird way am i single.then he lied n say he getting married n do i want to come to his wedding or break up the wedding.also he try 2 make me jealous by giving my friend money infront of me n turn around to c my reaction n he doesnt even kno her like that.i think he trying hard 2 hide his feelings 4 me but he cant in i have a big feeling he loves me a lot but is lying.wat do these signs mean i need a good opinion


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We broke up, but i know he still loves me. How do I get him back?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a good 7 months. He has a 3 year old daughter whose mother hates me, and up until a few weeks ago my boyfriends mother was very hot and cold with me aswell. Basically we had a fight infront of his child and he flipped out on me and said i was turning him into a monster,. Mind you we were in the process of getting a 2 bedroom apartment which I now live in alone. He broke it off saying that we should only see eachother when his daughter is not there, I feel as though he should want to get out of his parents house at 26 and give his daughter a better life. His family is way too into our relationship and now both families have tainted opinions. He came over yesterday and told me he hated me, that he never wanted to be with me again, heard i cheated on him (which is a lie told to him by his ex’s uncle) anyway he basically cut me up. I told him I wanted my TV back that i bought for his bedroom bc it was supposed to come with us to our apartment, that turned into a huge argument over a 2 way and both of our families were yelling in the background. I talked to him late at night and he and i were both crying, we feel as though we finally understand how to make our relationship work but now it might be too late, do i really want to be with someone whose family blames everything on their sons girlfriends and scares every girl away? and do I want to be with a guy who is still taking orders from his ex *(who HAS a new boyfriend by the way) He told me to call him after work today, and he is getting his daughter tomorrow, i want to see him tonight, i miss him so much, but so much damage has been done. what should i do?


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Read this if you want to know how to get your ex bf back!?

i was so proud of myself for actually sticking to these rules that i just have to share it with the world. About 3 days ago my bf brokeup with me and i knew it was for good. he said he just dident feel the same. well i tried doing the oposite of what i would normally do.

- i took it Very calmly and showed NO sadness.
- i walked away without crying infront of him.. this makes him re-think breaking up with you.

because you are turning the rejection on him. It is a scientific fact that when you are in love your brain sends off chemicals so that you only think of one person all the time. and once you get rejected you feel like you want that person more.

- this is important. you need to focus your mind more. please do this.Always keep thinking in your mind that he is wanting you now… he WILL soon come carwling back (just like mine did) TRUST ME there is alot of hope

- stop calling him stop texting him….BUT do not shut him out of your life completely… remember your chances of getting him back are less and less ech day.
- dont call him. but text him or msn him and ask if you can still be freinds becasue your over him already.
-never talk to him in the morning. only at night so it looks like you werent desperate to talk to him.
-another very important point is.. BE individual. theres nothing guys think is sexyer then a woman who dosent need there man….but wants them.
- think about how you were befor you met him. be that person that he fell min love with.

whenever you are around him… or if you see him somewere…. ALWAYS have a smile on your face and look like nothing happend that was drastic on your life.
- whenever you guys talk. always say you have to go befor he does. even if you dont have to go… make it look like hes not your priorities enymore.

bottom lines.

FEEEL and look happy. you will only look as happy as you feel on the inside.

let him realize that you dont need him. and you AGREE WITH THE BREAKUP.

make him come to you.

DO NOT……

get revenge.
go out with someone else.
intervein with his new relationship (if hes in one)
make it look like your doing bad without him.

do not go on other general websites that gives you tips on how to do these things… they are directed more at girls… and thoes work for onlly girls. becasue the guys mind is way different.

Remember… YOUR NOT ALONE. there are alot of people going through this. And your relationship is not over yet.

Hope this helped

ROXY =)
*** directed only AT girls for guys to know how to get them back.
RE: "exohlove"

i know but there are cirtain situations were the girl did somthing and maybe she want him back.. maybe its her fault.

also after doing this he realizes that he wants to change.. it dosent always work that way.. but you have a good point.. he CAN get his feelings back for you…its not like there lost forever


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