My husband has been banned from the United States for ten years after he went to his appointment in January in Mexico. I am so lost without him, and not feeling so great. How can they they take my husband away from me and my three boys for such a long time? What am I supposed to do without him? He is a good guy, and never been in trouble ever before. He has been here for 6 years and we have been married for 5. I have two disabled sons ( Not his ) and I myself am disabled, and we need him home. I cry every day, and try to not let my kids see me. I know you won’t have an answer for me, but I feel so lost, and it is nice just to see if someone could give me some advice. Is it a sin to committ suicide? I know my boys would be better off without me, cause I am worthless. I go to church, but I don’t think God wants me there. I am 38 and so in love with an illegal alien. How fair is that. I know life isn’t fair always, but I just don’t know how much longer I can go on. Thanks.


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I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.

Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20′s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…

I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
He’s a "shy guy" type btw…if that helps…and the # of girls he’s slept w? you can count in one hand and it’s been w. his serious, long term gf’s…i’ve got a good guy


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I’ve been dating/talking to this guy for about a month and a half (though I met him a month prior). He’s…wonderful. I know he cares, he doesn’t have his mind on one thing and he really does adore me. I appreciate so many things he does for me & according to him he feels he "should be doing more b/c it’s not enough". Things are goin surprisingly well and since day 1, we’ve always been super comfortable w. each other.

Sooner or later, the "sex" talk was going to be brought up. (I’m actually surprised that he didn’t ask me right away). Thing is, I’m nearing my mid 20′s and i’m still a virgin. I’m not ugly w. a nice personality, nor weird…i’m very protective and picky…it just didn’t happen…didn’t feel right during those times. I’ve done other things BUT "that". I’ve only cared for 3 guys in my life. First boyfriend, i loved him but wasn’t "in love" and there was no chemistry; 2nd guy had too many STD’s and the 3rd…wasn’t "real love"…I just don’t wanna let it go so easily. I’m not ashamed at all yet past experiences have made me be a bit more conscious about it. My virginity was a deal breaker for some guys I’ve dated and as much as i’m "better off", it still kinda hurts. I’ve also dealt w. numerous guys that have only wanted 1 thing but I never let him succeed. With this guy, he’s not like other guys i’ve dated…i actually care about him…alot. So I was very hesistant/nervous/scared/anxious in telling him. So when I did, I got the typcal reaction, "geuninely shocked" and asked if i was really joking/lying "b/c there’s no way a pretty girl like you, would still be a virgin." (as I get fr. alot of guys i’ve dated). I got sensitive to it and just cried. And after he soaked it all in said, "babe, even if you stayed a virgin ’til the day you die, it doesn’t matter…and its okay, don’t worry. I’m not here for that. I want you and that love you give me b/c i’m happy…" The reason I get insecure is b/c guys can say how much they "respect" it and their gone or create their escape plans…i actually care about this guy. He then said, if it was a problem to him, the rest of the conversation would be awkward and we still stayed on the phone for another 2 hrs. He’s still normal around me and to make me feel better, he suggested to stop w. the "sex talk" and if I feel okay to talk it out, then we would another time. He admitted that for him as a guy, his # of women (who he slept w.) is considered "low" for a guy. I asked if he was relived hearing about me and he said, "a bit but it really doesn’t matter". Anyhoo, things are fine but I can’t helpt but feel insecure…

I’m not pressured to do anything w. him….but opening up that virgin confeeision made me get insecure. How can I rebound back and stop being insecure about it?
(Also i’m scared things may change or he may look at me differently….)


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Also, i posted this question before ans omeone gave good advice so im adding into this question but what he didnt clarify was how many of the cards should i put into my deck for the ones i listed as "?’s" so basically if it says ?x how many should i put in my deck. And also i need help with hsi answer cause he didnt clarify how much of each card either. Thanks a lot guys and please help.

Creatures: 1x Patron of Orochi
2x Tangle Asp
1x River Boa
1x Mire boa
1x Sachi, Daughter of Seshiro
1x Sosuke, Son of Sehiro
2x Seshiro the Anointed
?x Ohran Viper
?x Sakura Tribe Elder
?x Orochi Sustainer
?x Kashi-Tribe Reaver
(i am not sure of the amount i should have for the last four hence the "?")

Artifacts: 2x Coat of Arms
3x Snake Basket
1x Infinite Hourglass
?x Orochi Hatchery
(Same as before with "?")

Throw-Ins: 1x Steely Resolve
1x Doubling Season
2x Parallel Evolution
3x Sosuke’s Summons
3x Overrun
1x Epic Struggle

Land: 20x Forest

I found this snake deck online at (http://www.pojo.com/magic/Deck Garage/BMoor/2007/7-25-2.shtml) but where the "?’s" are is where the person who edited the deck did’nt state how many of that card so please if someone could look over this and tell me if it looks like a good deck and i was also considering adding in some aeather webs or something to help

Thank you for your time,

Daniel

And other guys answer:

The deck looks pretty solid to me. It has plenty of mana acceleration, and the snakes can become strong enough to defend you and kill your opponent. However, it has no life gain or destroy cards. Maybe replace the Sakura-Tribe Elder(s) for Naturalizes. Also, I would assume the deck would want 2-4 Orochi Hatchery. It’s an excellent card to go with all the doubling cards for your tokens, and Epic Struggle. If you want to give yourself permanent trample, remove 1 Overrun and put in Primal Rage. (1G, and enchantment: your creatures gain trample).

Lastly, The River Boa and Mire Boa aren’t that good. Try Sakiko, Mother of Summer. 4GG, 3/3, ability: "Whenever a creature you control deals combat damage to a player, add that much green mana to your mana pool. This mana doesn’t cause mana burn. Until end of turn, this mana doesn’t empty from your mana pool as phases end."

Also Shizuko, Caller of Autumn. 1GG, 2/3, ability: "At the beginning of each player’s upkeep, that player adds 3 green mana to his or her mana pool. This mana doesn’t cause mana burn. Until end of turn, this mana doesn’t empty from that player’s mana pool as phases end."

Great cards to build up mana with to play Orochi Hatchery, no?

Good luck!

Thanks so much!


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