So about 2 weeks ago I posted a question asking if anyone else thought it was wierd that the previous owners of my dog wanted to "visit" him. Well suprise! They want the dog back.
It’s been a little over a month that we’ve had him and he’s doing so well! He loves us and our other dog and we love him. Him and Ziggy (our other dog) are inseperable.
So anyway I never called them back saying they could come see him. A week later I get a text saying basically that the kids missed the dog and they wanted him back. We nicely replied that we couldn’t do that. They’re reply wasn’t so nice, it basicaly said "No we want our dog back, we’re trying to be understanding with you but we want him back". We replied simply that we were sorry.
Then today I was home alone and the husband showed up! I was home alone and didn’t answer the door. I’m a very petite girl and knew that he wasn’t going to be happy so didn’t risk it and pretended no one was home. He slipped a note under the door saying they were talking to a laywer and would take legal action if they had to and that they would keep coming back until they got the dog back! I called my parents and they came over. Shortly after that the wife and her sister showed up and got nasty with my dad saying they were coming to pick up the dog and he wouldn’t let them. By this point we had called the police because it seemed like they were staking out my house.
We think they showed up again but the cop pulled up and then they were gone. The cop got the story, looked at the dog to make sure that he was ok and then called them telling them they co
For some reason it posted this question twice and cut this one off…..
Well I did save the text messages from them, one says they gave the dog to me. The all show their refusal of our denying they get the dog back. We didn’t pay anything for him and didn’t sign any paperwork they just came and dropped him off, but the police officer that came over was convinced they were in the wrong and even called us back to talk about it.
My bf sent them a text saying that if they didn’t listen to the warning the officer gave them we would press charges against them. They called me agian saying that they didn’t know that each other had gone over there and didn’t know why we thought they were harrassing us but they were just trying to get thier dog back and told us to enjoy him. I hope thats the end of it.
And the dog is about a year and a half and they had him since he was 6 months old. I don’t care that they had him all that time he seems very happy and adjusted with us.
Related Information:
So about 2 weeks ago I posted a question asking if anyone else thought it was wierd that the previous owners of my dog wanted to "visit" him. Well suprise! They want the dog back.
It’s been a little over a month that we’ve had him and he’s doing so well! He loves us and our other dog and we love him. Him and Ziggy (our other dog) are inseperable.
So anyway I never called them back saying they could come see him. A week later I get a text saying basically that the kids missed the dog and they wanted him back. We nicely replied that we couldn’t do that. They’re reply wasn’t so nice, it basicaly said "No we want our dog back, we’re trying to be understanding with you but we want him back". We replied simply that we were sorry.
Then today I was home alone and the husband showed up! I was home alone and didn’t answer the door. I’m a very petite girl and knew that he wasn’t going to be happy so didn’t risk it and pretended no one was home. He slipped a note under the door saying they were talking to a laywer and would take legal action if they had to and that they would keep coming back until they got the dog back! I called my parents and they came over. Shortly after that the wife and her sister showed up and got nasty with my dad saying they were coming to pick up the dog and he wouldn’t let them. By this point we had called the police because it seemed like they were staking out my house.
We think they showed up again but the cop pulled up and then they were gone. The cop got the story, looked at the dog to make sure that he was ok and then called them telling them they couldn’t contact me in any way or show up at my house or they would be taken in for trespassing.
So they kept calling! My bf finally sent them a text telling them to leave us alone and she called one last time saying she couldn’t understand why we were being rude and why were saying she was harrassing us when they wern’t and told us to enjoy the dog. I pray that is the end of it and they really do leave us alone.
I was so worried I was sick. But I still feel bad for the kids. I know I did the right thing since they didn’t seem to take very good care of him and really didn’t seem to care who took the dog in the first place. They just wanted him gone.
Did they go overboard? Or do you think I just should have given them the dog back?
Related Information:
Im 16 years old and ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years. His name is charlie and he is 17. When we first starting going out it was amazing and we fell in love so quickly. We was like inseperable and it got to a stage where i had him wrapped round my little finger and he’d do anything for me and he was the most nicest person ever. He was always very over protective and didnt like me going out but i still did anyway. He also got me pregnant the first 5 months of us being together but i had an abortion so it made us a lot closer.
Then it all soon changed after the first year and a half. He cheated on me, and cause it was all a shock to me i was devastated and i took him back. Our relationship kind of ended then but we just wanted to make things work. He then got me pregnant again on the second year and at the time he was seeing some other girl and i was just in bits. Each month he would just make me feel more insecure about myself.
By this stage he was calling me fat and ugly. He then asked me back again and i took him back. He made me feel worthless. In february this year we split up and it was a joint decision because we was just arguing all the time. I really don’t understand him. Its like one minute he loves me the next he hates me. he just takes advantage of me all the time.
In the past 2 months ive been constantly ringing him and hes been saying were going to get back together but then always changes his mind. I would walk up to his house because i physically cant sit at my house i will just be pulling my hair out knowing im not with him. When he looks at me now its like inside he’s dying and he loves me but horrible words just come out of his mouth. Its like hes trying to make himself hate me.
I went round his house last week and he was saying to me he missed me so much and he loved me so much. Its like when im crying being all soppy and desperate he’ll walk away perfectly fine. But when im strong and being horible back to him he’ll want me back. So at his house we ended up having sex and it was really emotional. then straight after he was like meg go home. And i was just devasated. i dont understand him. I dont know what he wants. He just looked at me and you could tell he didnt wanna be horrible but he just said to me im so sorry my heads so fucked up.
Its been about 6 days since then, and hes got a new phone and a new number so i havent been able to contact him. Ive spoken to him on facebook but he just swore at me and then deleted me.
I know he lloves me just atm he thinks he hates me because i wind him up all the time. It just hurts so much to see what he used to be, the boy who would do anything for me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, to this monster who calls me fat and ugly and doesnt care if im crying. i dont know what to do to make him realise that hes made a big mistake. Because i know what charlies like, i reckon if i do just fuck off like im doing now, and i havent spoken to him in about 2 weeks he’ll panick and want me back and ring me or something.
I just dont know what to do. please help me
Related Information:
