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My ex-girlfriend, who before I asked her out, we would have on and off relationships since 9th grade and I have had a crush on her since 7th grade.

Well she’s a sophmore in college and I’m a freshman we were going out since September and broke up in December and it was really stupid, because I can’t remember the reason, but it wasn’t serious like cheating, deception, abuse or anything.

Well now I haven’t seen her since January because we exchanged our gifts and now I have a class with her twice a week at college but it is HUGE like 150 people big lecture hall, how can I approach her easily because it’s a mad bum rush to get a seat.

I still have feelings for her but I kind of played the dick and said “That’s fine” when she called before we broke up saying if I dont respect her and I dont seem like I care about her feelings then she’ll leave me, soooo wanna help

How Do I Get My Ex-Girlfriend Back?

Ways to get her back and don’t give me the “get over her” answer because I have had other relationships with girls my junior and senior years but there’s just a great understanding I feel with this girl..

Thanks

Oh yea it’s hard to get a seat next to her because it’s a mad bum rush to get a seat in the class, exactley like the begginings of Enemy at the Gates and Saving Private Ryan
Good insight Bob S

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We have 2 little boys our oldest will be 3 in October and our youngest will be 1 in August. I really want my one more shot at a girl. I love being a mom My favorite job in the world. I stay at home and rarely ever ask him for help with the kids so its not like the have worn him out and we can afford another one. he says its selfish for us to have another one when we have two healthy kids and after that its just getting greedy. But I feel like thats one more blessing and another person in our lives to love. I just can’t really see why and what is so confusing is that he goes back and fourth one day he will say of course we will have another one and then another day he goes in to the greed spill its so irritating and I would just like some outside opinions please. Thank you in advance! =)

P.S.
I know I still have a young baby. I don’t even want to start trying for another year!

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Any insight would be SO appreciated!

Last night my husband and I finally had a heart-to-heart until 4 in the morning. The truth came out and I am so relieved that it did, because at least theres some honesty on the table.

We both came to the mutual agreement that we have not been "in love" for about 7 months now (right after the birth of our daughter) but that we love eachother and do want to work things out. We are going to go to marraige counseling and we both decided individual counseling would be best for both of us as well, as we both have things we need to work on.

I guess I just want to know if it is possible to fall back in love after so long and how?

Also, when is it time to say "enough is enough" and maybe we just arent right for eachother?

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When I asked about his recent disinterest in sex, he told me he loves me but sees me as a sister or friend more than a romantic interest. I’m crushed, and I don’t know what to do to reignite his passion…

I fill the role of a wife well, even he acknowledges! I cook, clean, listen, console–and work a 40 hour job. We have no kids, so my nurturing attentions are totally focused on him. I feel like I’m working so hard for his affections with no reward.

Please, please, please help me save my marriage. I need some insight into a man’s mind.

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He wanted me to stop using credit cards and start paying them off. I stopped using them and have paid off some of them already. He wanted me to get my caps replaced and we agreed that I could save the money since I didn’t have dental insurance and didn’t want another monthly bill. I have saved money and am almost there. I have a 21 year old bipolar son. He has never gotten along with him and they have gotten into fights. He wanted me to get him on his feet. I told him that I would need time to do this because I would have to get my finances in control to be able to help my son out. The counselor told him that with the way my son is he would need financial help from me. My husband agreed. The counselor asked him how long I could have and he said 1 year. The counselor asked him what if it takes 2 years and he said that is okay I love her that much. The counselor said what if it never happens and he said that is okay I love her that much. He wants my son to get a drivers license. I have started letting him drive my car and will be getting him driving lessons. I wanted him to express his feelings to me more often. He is the kind of man that is always there for everyone else but he shuts me out. He came to me a month ago and said that he can’t live with my son and it was either him or my son. (We have 2 small children together.) I got rattled and thought here we go again he is going to leave. So I filed for a divorce to start financial protection for myself and our children. He changed his tune and I haven’t gone ahead with the divorce. Last night he comes to me and says that we are not compatible, we don’t have a marriage, we don’t know how to communicate to each other and nothing has changed. I’ve worked on everything that he wanted done and I still come last to him. I’m so lost. It sounds like he is asking for a divorce but when I come straight out and ask him he says how can I just walk away? Any insight?
I should add that my son does pay rent, has a job, buys his own medicine, pays for his nurses and doctors appointments. And he has psychofrenia affective disorder but I didn’t know how to spell it so I just put bipolar.

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any books that gave some good insight on how to try and save your marriage?

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